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Why Putting Yourself First Makes You A Better Mom
Hey mama, this one’s a heart-squeezer. We’re diving deep into why we have to put ourselves on the list—and not just as an afterthought. If you’ve ever felt like the Giving Tree (don’t get me started on the issues with The Giving Tree!)—cutting away pieces of yourself until there’s nothing left—this episode is going to hit home.
I’m sharing how so many of us moms have been conditioned to overgive, people-please, and disappear from our own lives. But that stops here. Because when we put ourselves on the list (yes, at the top, babe!), we’re not just doing it for us—we’re doing it for our families, our kids, and our futures.
Let’s unpack the pressure to be “good” by always saying yes, the guilt culture loves to throw at us, and why filling our own cups first changes everything—including our weight loss journey. This is your permission slip to prioritize joy, fun, and delicious dopamine today.
You’ll hear all about:
- How the Giving Tree story parallels the burnout cycle so many moms live in
- Why putting yourself last leads to emotional eating and resentment
- How to identify where you're disappearing in your own life
- What delicious dopamine is—and why you need it
- The small daily shifts that help you fill your cup (and stop the pantry raids!)
If this message is resonating and you're ready to stop putting yourself last, come join me inside the Yummy Mummy Experience. It's where we make this stuff *real*—with coaching, community, and all the tools you need to lose weight for the last time. Head over to lauraconley.com/lose to get started.
Let’s make “self-care” a daily essential—not a once-a-year bubble bath.
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243. The Drop 8 Diaries: When Grief Hits in the Middle of a Weight Loss Journey
32:09||Ep. 243Oh boy—get ready to cry, cheer, and definitely relate.In this Drop 8 Diaries check-in, Megan is just seven days into her journey…and already in the thick of it. She's honoring her protocol, doing everything “right,” and still—the scale is up. Add in a deeply emotional family crisis, and Megan’s not just fighting to lose weight—she’s fighting to keep it together for everyone around her.In this raw, powerful episode, we talk about: • What to do when the scale won't budge (and life is lifing) • Why your pity party might be your path forward • How holding space for your own emotions can make you stronger • Letting go of perfection and gold star thinking • Why this exact moment is perfect practice for maintenanceLaura coaches Megan through the emotional storm, revealing that strength doesn't always look like control—it often looks like vulnerability. You'll hear how this moment, as painful as it is, might be Megan’s turning point. And if you’ve ever felt like you had to be the “strong one” for everyone else? This one’s for you.Plus, Laura shares a personal moment that cracked her open, what she told her daughter in the middle of her own breakdown, and how accessing your true emotions might be exactly what helps the weight finally come off.This isn’t just about a pound gained or lost. It’s about releasing the grip, letting yourself feel, and learning that your emotional well-being is the foundation for lasting change.🎟️ Don’t miss your chance to go even deeper inside HOT MOM SUMMER—a two-hour retreat where Laura walks you through the exact process Megan is using to drop 8 pounds this month. Use code podcast at lauraconley.com/ten to get in FREE.And make sure to follow the Drop 8 Diaries on Instagram for real-time updates, live check-ins, and all the juicy behind-the-scenes!You’ve got this. Even when the scale says otherwise.242. The Drop 8 Diaries: The Scale Went Up, Now What?
25:59||Ep. 242Hey mama, welcome back to another raw and real installment of the Drop 8 Diaries with Meghan Weaver! 🎉 If you’ve ever let the number on the scale hijack your mood, this episode is going to speak directly to your soul. Meghan is just three days into her month-long goal, and she’s already staring down the mental drama that comes with a surprise scale bump—even after nailing her protocol on vacation (go, Meghan! 💃).But instead of spiraling, we coached through it. What came out? Pure gold.We’re breaking down the *actual* reasons why the scale fluctuates (hint: it’s probably not fat), how to avoid letting that one number derail your motivation, and how to shift into a more compassionate, trusting relationship with your body and this process. If you’re someone who still gives the scale way too much power, this episode is your permission slip to stop chasing it and start choosing *you*.Here’s what we’re diving into:- Why you might gain weight AFTER vacation, even when you “did everything right”- How to tell the difference between fat gain and normal fluctuations (hi, hormones!)- The power of staying committed to your protocol *no matter what the scale says*- How perfectionism and “gold star” thinking sabotage our goals- Why “just showing up” is actually the secret to weight loss successYou’ll also hear us riff on how to journal with more celebration (yes please 🙌), how to connect emotions to your eating choices, and what it looks like to loosen the grip and still make amazing progress.✨ Take the next step and let us help you for free! ✨Go take the quiz at http://ymx.lauraconley.com/party to find out exactly what’s blocking *you* from losing weight for the last time. Based on your results, we’ll personally reach out with custom tips and tricks. Don’t wait—this is your moment, mama.And don’t forget to follow along for updates and BTS check-ins on Instagram: @lauraconleycoachingLet’s go!241. The Drop 8 lbs Diaries: Session One
38:17||Ep. 241Hey, babe! Welcome to the first-ever Drop 8 Diaries—a real-time, behind-the-scenes look at what it’s actually like to lose 8 pounds in one month using the Yummy Mummy Method. And our guest? The amazing Megan, a Yummy Mummy client who’s already dropped nearly 60 pounds and is back for more!This isn’t about willpower or punishment. It’s about structure, support, and showing up with fun and ease. In this episode, Laura and Megan break down exactly how they’re approaching this next chapter—from setting a goal without pressure to crafting a plan that feels custom-fit and sustainable.You’ll hear:- Why Megan’s aiming for another 7–10 pounds this month (and what’s different this time)- How she’s building her protocol: no sugar, no flour, intermittent fasting, and… Smart Sweets?!- What it actually means to hold a goal with commitment, not attachment- The sneaky power of fun and dopamine when you're going after something big- How healthy restriction (think: “no alcohol on weeknights”) can feel empowering, not deprivingMegan gets real about nerves, mindset wobbles, and why this phase of her journey feels both exciting and scary. And if you're curious about whether you could do the same thing? Spoiler alert: YOU CAN.Come watch it all unfold in real time—and join us! We’re holding your hand the whole way.👉 Head to ymx.lauraconley.com/party to join the free challenge that helps you lose five pounds in one week. It’s custom to you. It’s free. It’s now. Let’s freaking go!240. When I Finally Trusted That Gut Feeling… I Lost the Weight
51:13||Ep. 240You know that tiny voice inside that whispers “there’s more”? The one you’ve maybe ignored because you’re too busy, too tired, or just plain skeptical? This episode is for her.I’m joined by my radiant friend and psychic medium Jenni Conn to talk about what happens when you stop outsourcing your power and finally start listening to yourself. My soul got freaking nourished by this!!Because what if your weight isn't really about the food—or even your body? What if it's a signal from your soul that you’ve been out of alignment?Together, Jenni and I unpack the link between mediumship, intuition, emotional safety, and sustainable weight loss. We talk about the wounds we inherited, the identities we’re ready to shed, and how coming home to yourself can literally change your body.You’ll learn:Why trusting your gut feeling is more powerful than any dietHow emotional weight might be what’s actually keeping you stuckThe difference between emotional labor and emotional leadership (and why that matters)How to stop trying to “fix” yourself and start feeling yourselfWhy stillness, not hustle, might be your secret weight loss weaponPlus, I share my own experience of how my intuition—not a meal plan—led me to lose weight for the last time. This episode is all about reclaiming your knowing, releasing the shame, and realizing you’ve always had the answers.P.S. We’ve got a *free* challenge happening right now that you do NOT want to miss! 🎉 Head to http://ymx.lauraconley.com/party to join the YMX 5-Pound Weight Loss Challenge. It’s totally customized to you—starting with a quiz and guiding you step-by-step based on your answers. We’re holding your hand through the first five pounds, and yep, it’s all free through the end of June. Let’s freaking go!🔮 Curious about Jenni? Find her on Instagram @themediumexperience and tune into her podcast The Medium Experience. She also hosts luxurious retreats around the world for women ready to access their power. Go see what lights you up, babe!239. Why being a "good mom" is keeping you stuck
52:05||Ep. 239Ever feel like you're doing motherhood by the book—but the book was written by someone who forgot moms are actual humans? This episode hits hard if you’ve been silently following the rules, checking the boxes, and still wondering, “Wait…where did I go?”Dr. Gertrude Lyons is here to help us unravel those inherited “codes” that say good moms should martyr themselves—and show us how to rewrite them with joy, freedom, and our own damn values.This episode is your permission slip—and your roadmap—to do just that. I’m joined by the radiant Dr. Gertrude Lyons, clinical psychologist, spiritual guide, and author of Rewrite the Mother Code: From Sacrifice to Stardust. We’re diving deep into the outdated, inherited codes around motherhood that have shaped how we show up—and how to rewrite them from a place of empowerment, joy, and cosmic alignment.We get into why self-sacrifice is not the gold standard for motherhood (even though it’s been sold to us like it is), how to spot the generational and cultural codes running your mothering, and what it looks like to mother from your own values—not guilt, obligation, or fear.You’ll hear all about:The lie that good mothers put themselves last (and why it doesn’t actually work)How to identify the “mother codes” you’ve inherited and rewrite them consciouslyWhy pleasure, and fun (and maybe even pickleball!) are crucial to good parentingHow to create your own “mother code statement” as a daily compassWhy it’s your responsibility to be the fullest version of you—for yourself and your kidsThe PACT framework: Patience, Affirmation, Compassion, and TrustPlus, we go deep on generational healing, shame-free reparenting, the wisdom of Lilith, and how to turn guilt into curiosity. If you’ve ever felt judged for parenting differently or questioned whether you’re “doing it right,” this episode is for you. You are allowed—encouraged, even—to do it your way.✨ Wanna lose 5 pounds this week without the old-school rules? Join the free challenge at ymx.lauraconley.com/party. It’s totally free, and we walk you step-by-step through how to do it in a way that feels amazing.🪐 Grab Gertrude’s book, Rewrite the Mother Code, and follow her @drgertrudelyons or head to drgertrudelyons.com to learn more about her coaching and retreats.238. Are You Really Struggling With Food… or Just Fried from Parenting?
45:26||Ep. 238Have you ever felt like parenting is way harder than it should be? Like no matter how many bedtime stories you read or how often you try to stay calm, the meltdowns and mom guilt just don’t quit? This week’s episode is your permission slip to stop white-knuckling it and start seeing parenting for what it really is: a skill you can learn.I’m joined by my dear friend and client Dr. Sarah Crystal, clinical psychologist turned parent coach, and she’s here to blow your mind with the truth that parenting isn’t something you’re supposed to just know how to do. We talk about how this shift in mindset changes everything—from how we show up with our kids to how often we find ourselves in the pantry stress-eating ice cream.Dr. Sarah breaks down her Behavior Needs Pyramid and gives you the tools to decode what’s really going on underneath the tantrums (hint: it’s probably not about the popsicle). This one is packed with golden nuggets for every mom who’s felt like they’re “doing it wrong” and wondered why it’s all so hard. Plus, we’re diving deep into how nervous system regulation, validation, and even sugar affect your kid’s behavior—and your own emotional eating.In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why parenting is a learned skill (not something you're born knowing how to do) • What’s really going on under your kid’s behavior—and how to decode it • How unmet needs lead to meltdowns (in kids and moms!) • Why taking care of yourself is the most important parenting strategy of all • How to talk about food with your kids in a way that’s empowering, not damaging • Why setting boundaries isn’t control—it’s loveThis one is for every mama who wants to stop guessing and start parenting with purpose—and YES, it’s so tied into your weight loss journey. Because when you’re depleted, dysregulated, and drowning in guilt, that pantry looks really good. Let’s fix it from the root.Wanna go deeper with Dr. Sarah? Find her here: 🌐 drsarahcrystal.com 📱 Instagram: @drsarah_parentcoachAnd if you're ready to lose weight without losing your mind, come join me inside the Yummy Mummy Experience at lauraconley.com/lose. We do the deeper work together—inside and out.237. Is Grief Why You’re Stuck? The Hidden Weight You Didn’t Know You Were Carrying
42:19||Ep. 237Hey mama—ever find yourself elbow-deep in snacks, not because you're hungry, but because something just hurts?This week on the pod, we’re exploring the sneaky connection between grief and emotional eating with grief expert and life coach Krista St. Germain. Whether you’ve lost a loved one or a version of your life that never came to be, grief can quietly shape your habits with food and your relationship to your body.Krista shares her own powerful story of loss and how she turned pain into purpose—helping women process grief without getting stuck in it. We bust myths about the five stages, talk about the long tail of secondary losses, and get honest about why our culture kind of sucks at making space for sadness.And of course, we get practical. You’ll learn somatic tools that actually work to regulate your nervous system without raiding the pantry.If you’ve ever felt like your hunger wasn’t really about food—this one’s for you.You’ll learn: • Why the five stages of grief are outdated (and what actually helps) • How unprocessed grief drives emotional eating • Somatic tools to regulate your nervous system without using food • What post-traumatic growth really means (and how to start creating it) • The difference between “moving on” and “moving forward” • How grief shows up in your body—even years later • Why noticing your patterns is something to celebrate, not shamePS—If emotional eating has been your go-to lately, don’t miss my FREE 3-Day Challenge. You can start it right now at lauraconley.com → Click “Free Challenge” and get instant access. It’s seriously one of the best things I’ve ever offered.PPS—Krista’s podcast, The Widowed Mom Podcast, is a gem for anyone navigating grief (widowed or not!). And if you want her support, check out her programs at coachingwithkrista.com.236. I Was Doing Everything Right… and Still Gaining Weight
43:09||Ep. 236Hey mama—are you stressed? Like, REALLY stressed? And doing everything you're supposed to without any results? Then this one's for you. In this week’s show, Laura sits down with Kama, a Yummy Mummy alum who traded constant overwhelm and stress-eating for confidence, calm, and radical self-love.Kama is a full-time financial advisor, wife, and mom of two who spent years doing “all the right things”—macro tracking, 60-hour work weeks, constant workouts—but still felt stuck in a cycle of weight loss and regain. In this heartfelt and honest conversation, she shares how the Yummy Mummy Experience helped her finally break free.You’ll hear how she went from waking up dreading the day to becoming the calmest, kindest version of herself (yes, even at pizza parties). And if you’ve ever hated journaling? Kama was there too—but now it’s her secret weapon. This episode is full of mic-drop moments, including a powerful story about a number on a scale, a comment from her husband, and a self-love response that’ll shift your whole perspective.Listen in to hear:- The difference between *hard* work and *heavy* work (and why one fuels you and the other drains you)- Why journaling worked for Kama—even as a busy, skeptical mom- The real reason willpower and macro counting never gave her lasting results- How the Yummy Mummy method helped her drop 30+ pounds and love who she sees in the mirror- Why it’s not about food being the focus anymore—and how that creates real freedom- How investing in herself (yes, even financially!) gave her the ROI of a lifetime- How Kama’s calm has rippled through her whole family—and what she’s teaching her kids nowIf you’ve ever wondered whether true change is possible while living a full, busy life—this episode is your proof.✨ Ready to be our next success story? Book your free consult now: lauraconley.com/loseYou’re not “too busy,” you’re not “too far gone,” and you’re not alone. Let’s do this—together.235. Declutter Your Home, Declutter Your Weight: The Surprising Link for Moms
45:54||Ep. 235Hey mama! What if organizing your pantry, your calendar, or even your thoughts could actually help you lose weight for the last time? In today’s episode, I’m joined by my dear friend and longtime professional organizer/life coach Tracy Hoth, and we are talking about how to declutter everything—from your junk drawer to your brain—and why it makes a huge difference in your weight loss journey.Tracy introduces her simple and effective 5-step SPASM framework (I know, unforgettable, right?!) that you can use to organize anything:your closet, your to-do list, even your chaotic schedule. We talk about what clutter is really costing you, how to make space for what you truly want, and how a more peaceful environment leads to more peaceful and living—inside AND out. We even get into the coaching mindset behind emotional attachments to stuff, how to teach your kids to clean without drama, and why it’s actually okay to throw away things even if someone’s feelings might be hurt.In this episode, you’ll hear:The 5 steps of the SPASM framework: Sort, Purge, Assign homes, Set limits, MaintainWhy clutter is often linked to emotional weight—and how to release bothHow to organize your mind using the 4 D’s: Delay, Delete, Delegate, DoEasy ways to teach kids to clean upWhat organizing your space can teach you about managing your time, energy, and self-worthHow to stop the “nothing fights” in your marriage over clutter and messPlus, Tracy gives us an easy way to get a win with decluttering this week. Check it out, you just might be more organized than you think, girl!If you’re loving this convo and want to go deeper, go check out Tracy’s work at simplysquaredaway.com. Plus, her Organized Life Academy and Organized Coach Academy are both amazing resources to help you finally get your external (and internal!) world sorted.P.S. If this episode lit a fire in you, leave a review and let us know! It helps more mamas find the show and lose weight for the last time 💖