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Declutter Your Home, Declutter Your Weight: The Surprising Link for Moms
Hey mama! What if organizing your pantry, your calendar, or even your thoughts could actually help you lose weight for the last time? In today’s episode, I’m joined by my dear friend and longtime professional organizer/life coach Tracy Hoth, and we are talking about how to declutter everything—from your junk drawer to your brain—and why it makes a huge difference in your weight loss journey.
Tracy introduces her simple and effective 5-step SPASM framework (I know, unforgettable, right?!) that you can use to organize anything:your closet, your to-do list, even your chaotic schedule. We talk about what clutter is really costing you, how to make space for what you truly want, and how a more peaceful environment leads to more peaceful and living—inside AND out. We even get into the coaching mindset behind emotional attachments to stuff, how to teach your kids to clean without drama, and why it’s actually okay to throw away things even if someone’s feelings might be hurt.
In this episode, you’ll hear:
- The 5 steps of the SPASM framework: Sort, Purge, Assign homes, Set limits, Maintain
- Why clutter is often linked to emotional weight—and how to release both
- How to organize your mind using the 4 D’s: Delay, Delete, Delegate, Do
- Easy ways to teach kids to clean up
- What organizing your space can teach you about managing your time, energy, and self-worth
- How to stop the “nothing fights” in your marriage over clutter and mess
Plus, Tracy gives us an easy way to get a win with decluttering this week. Check it out, you just might be more organized than you think, girl!
If you’re loving this convo and want to go deeper, go check out Tracy’s work at simplysquaredaway.com. Plus, her Organized Life Academy and Organized Coach Academy are both amazing resources to help you finally get your external (and internal!) world sorted.
P.S. If this episode lit a fire in you, leave a review and let us know! It helps more mamas find the show and lose weight for the last time 💖
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268. How to Be a Free Mom (and Reflect on 2025 Without Shame)
24:52||Ep. 268Hey babes. This episode is a cozy, powerful solo chat about what it actually means to be a free mom—and how to start creating that freedom now, not someday.If you’ve been feeling stretched thin, stuck, overwhelmed, resentful, or like your life looks “fine” on the outside but feels tight and exhausting on the inside… this one is for you. We’re redefining freedom in a way that has nothing to do with bigger houses, better vacations, or external achievements—and everything to do with alignment, self-trust, and owning your time, energy, and emotions.In this episode, we slow way down and talk about how to reflect on 2025 without shame, how to stop repeating the same patterns in 2026, and how to choose ONE area of your life to truly free yourself.Here’s what we cover:What being a “free mom” actually means (and what it doesn’t)Why freedom is available to you right now—not after you lose weight or fix your lifeThe belief you must adopt before real change can happenWhy guilt is part of the process (and why that’s normal)How to audit 2025 without beating yourself upWhere you feel the most trapped: body, time, money, marriage, parenting, or careerHow to choose ONE area to focus on in 2026 (and why that’s the fastest path to change)Why your biggest problems should show up on your calendar and in your investmentsHow to stop abandoning yourself and start honoring your needsThe reflection questions that prevent you from repeating the same year again✨ FREE for podcast listeners ✨We’re hosting a FREE 5-day challenge:Drop 5 Pounds While Life Is LifingJanuary 5–9Sign up here:lauraconley.com/drop5If you already know you want deeper support, email me directly:laura@lauraconley.com2026 doesn’t need to be another year of white-knuckling, pretending, or putting yourself last. Pick one area. Create the dream. And start freeing yourself—one small step at a time.
267. How to Free Yourself From the Marriage You Accidentally Signed Up For: the 6-second kiss, the Power of One, and creating a new marriage contract can set you free
53:44||Ep. 267Hey loves! If your marriage feels heavy, transactional, or nothing like what you imagined when you said “I do,” this conversation is going to feel like a deep exhale.We’re talking about how so many of us accidentally sign up for a version of marriage we never consciously agreed to — one built on assumptions, roles, resentment, and unspoken expectations. And the good news? You don’t have to burn it all down to feel free again. You can renegotiate the contract.We walk through three powerful tools that can completely change the emotional climate of your relationship: the 6-second kiss, the Power of One, and creating a brand-new marriage contract that actually fits who you are now, not who you were when you first got together.This isn’t about fixing your partner. It’s about reclaiming your agency, your desire, and your sense of choice — inside your relationship and inside yourself.In this episode, we cover:- Why so many marriages drift into resentment without anyone “doing anything wrong”- How the 6-second kiss rewires connection, safety, and intimacy (and why it works even when things feel awkward)- The Power of One: how changing your energy shifts the entire dynamic- What it really means to stop waiting for your partner to change- How to consciously rewrite your marriage contract — expectations, roles, intimacy, and emotional labor- Why freedom inside marriage comes from choice, not control- How this work directly impacts your nervous system, emotional eating patterns, and overall well-beingIf you’ve been feeling disconnected, stuck, or quietly wondering if this is “just how it is now,” let this be your permission slip to do marriage differently — without ultimatums, threats, or self-abandonment.And if this conversation lights something up in you and you’re ready to take this work deeper — with your relationship, your body, and your life — come hang out with me inside my programs. All the details are at lauraconley.com. You don’t have to keep living in a contract you never meant to sign.
266. How to Drop the Holiday Dread: Coco and Lala on Expectations, Shoulds & Making the Season Actually Fun
30:42||Ep. 266Hey babes! This one is JUICY. Nicole and I are bringing you a full holiday intervention—Coco & Lala style. If you’re already feeling the pressure of “doing the holidays right,” this episode is your warm hug, your reality check, and your permission slip to STOP performing and start actually enjoying yourself. 💁♀️✨We dive into the three big holiday questions every woman needs to ask:1. What dreadful thing are you dropping this season?Because newsflash: no big disaster happened because I stopped sending holiday cards. You get to drop the stuff that drains you. You get to say no. You get to stop performing for invisible judges who don’t even care. ✔️2. What holiday dream are you adding?Maybe it’s two full weeks off. Maybe it’s catering your annual party. Maybe it’s reading on the couch for hours with the tree lit. Let the question simmer—your dream will find you.3. What manual (those sneaky expectations of other people!) are you burning?Your partner, your mother-in-law, your kids—they’re going to show up how they’ve always shown up. Radical acceptance isn’t giving up… it’s giving yourself freedom.Along the way, you’ll hear me negotiating with my hubby Brian about hiring someone to put up the Christmas tree (tradition wins… for now), Nicole’s surprisingly chill holiday philosophy, and how to avoid setting yourself up for years of self-inflicted expectations (Elf on the Shelf girlies… I’m talking to you).This episode is your guide to a calmer, cozier, saner season—one where you drop the dread, keep the joy, and build real community around what matters most.You’ll hear:Why holiday resentment is often just unspoken expectationsHow to “drop one dread” and prove nothing bad happensWhy controlling adults literally never works (ever)How to be surprised—in a GOOD way—by your partnerWhy community and accountability make everything feel lighterHow to prevent holiday chaos you’ll regret committing to for 10+ yearsWhy guilt is sometimes a sign you’re taking care of yourselfHow to embrace the truth: the shoe will drop someday… so enjoy your good season NOW🔥 Join Nicole’s December Fit at https://sweatandstillness.com🎀 Join my Pink Friday Sale: https://lauraconley.com/pinkUse code NICOLE500 to save $500 when you join Lose Weight For The Last Time.Let us know in the comments:What dread are you dropping?What dream are you adding?And who are you finally accepting for exactly who they’ve always been?
Coco + Lala Show: Break the Good Girl Playbook: Authenticity, Imperfection, and Getting a Little Unhinged
21:42|Want some pure chaos in the best way? You're in the right place. Nicole and I are back with another Coco & Lala Show takeover, and we're inviting you to get a little…unhinged. 😂 Underneath all the silliness is a really important conversation: so many of us are still living by the invisible “Good Girl playbook” — the rules about how we’re supposed to look, act, mother, eat, and show up. We’re following all the rules, checking all the boxes (degree, job, husband, kids, house)…and then wondering why we still feel numb, restless, and like something is missing. Hit play to hear:- Why laughing until you cry needs to be a real goal on your calendar - How the “Good Girl playbook” gets passed down and keeps you small (and bored) - Why perfection is boring, inauthentic, and totally not the vibe anymore - How authenticity and a little harmless chaos can actually support your weight loss journey - A simple challenge: choose one unhinged thing to do this week and *do it on purpose* - Laura’s own unhinged act (hello, first tattoo at the Yummy Mummy retreat 👀) - How envy can actually be a compass pointing you toward your truest desires If you’ve been over-scrolling, overeating, over-drinking, or over-Netflixing because your life feels a little…beige, this conversation is your reminder that you’re allowed to color outside the lines. You do not have to earn your fun, your weirdness, or your joy. And babe, if this hits and you’re like, “Okay, I’m ready to stop following the rules around food and my body too,” now is *the* time to jump into The Yummy Mummy Experience. We are in the depths of the Pink Friday Yummy Mummy Sale — the best deal Laura has EVER offered on the Yummy Mummy Experience. 🎉 Go to https://lauraconley.com/pink to:- Get on the early access VIP list - Lock in the biggest savings we’ve ever done - Save your spot in the next Yummy Mummy cohort starting in January Come get unhinged in the most delicious way: by losing weight for the last time, ditching the good girl rules, and actually letting yourself have a life you’re obsessed with.
264. Is Yummy Mummy Worth $5K for ‘Just’ 10 Pounds? Erica’s 22-Pound Glow-Up (Without GLP-1s)
36:46||Ep. 264Hey, mama! Today’s episode is the one to listen to if you’ve ever wondered, “Is the Yummy Mummy Experience actually worth $5,000—especially if I only want to lose 5–10 pounds?” Because that’s exactly where Erica started… and then she lost 22 pounds, rewired her relationship with food, boosted her confidence, and transformed her entire life in the process.Erica opens up about what it felt like to slowly gain weight year after year, why it chipped away at her confidence, and how she realized she didn’t need more willpower—she needed tools. She even considered GLP-1 medications, but wanted to try a natural, sustainable route first.Inside this candid, encouraging conversation, you’ll hear how she went from “There’s no way I could give up flour” to confidently navigating pizza nights, kids’ birthday parties, European bakeries, and family trips—while still losing weight. And yes… you’ll also hear about the moment her husband said it was the first real conversation they’d had in a long time. The ripple effects are real.You’ll learn:Why “just” 1–2 lbs a year can snowball into not feeling like yourselfWhat finally pushed Erica to invest in herselfHow she approached sugar and flour flexibly (not rigidly!)The surprising ease of intermittent fasting once she experimented slowlyWhat it feels like to want the cupcake less instead of “white-knuckling no”How she navigated Europe, croissants, and hotel breakfasts—still losing weightThe ripple effect on her marriage, her dad, and her familyWhy she now feels calm, confident, and excited about goals outside of weightIf you’ve been debating whether this investment is “worth it,” or if the Yummy Mummy Experience can actually help you lose weight for the last time—Erica’s story is going to blow your mind!!🎀 PINK FRIDAY EXTENDED for Podcast Listeners ONLY!The January 2026 cohort is still open at the lowest price Laura has ever offered.Tap here to join or get on Laura’s calendar: https://lauraconley.com/work-with-meLet this be the year you finally lose weight for the last time.
263. LIVE COACHING TESTIMONIAL: “It Finally Felt Easy” — How Laura Rose Lost 25 lbs Without Counting Calories (and Found Her Freedom)
30:28||Ep. 263Hey babes! Today's episode is a full-body YES because you get to hear a LIVE coaching testimonial from one of my brightest clients—Laura Rose. If you've ever thought, "Why is this so hard? I'm doing everything and nothing is changing," this conversation is going to feel like hope, relief, and a deep breath.Laura opens up about her lifelong weight struggle, the years of tracking every calorie, lifting, walking, "doing everything right," and still watching the scale climb. She shares the moment she hit rock bottom—crying in bed to her husband, feeling like a dark cloud was hanging over her whole beautiful life—and the guilt of wanting to feel better in her body while raising daughters in a body-positive world.And then? She joined the Yummy Mummy Experience...and it finally felt EASY.She lost 25 pounds in under six months (while eating fries, potatoes, and rice!), slipped into size-small dresses, and stepped into a version of herself that felt energized, confident, calm, and deeply her. Now, even pregnant with baby #3, she's navigating food, cravings, and weight with trust and steadiness because the tools are in her.Here are the top shifts you'll love in this episode:How cutting flour + sugar (not carbs!) turned off cravings and created instant calmWhy losing weight without tracking anything felt like total freedomThe mental tools she uses daily for motherhood, marriage, and life (not just food!)How journaling helps her stay intentional instead of living on autopilotWhat happened when pregnancy nausea knocked her off protocol—and why she didn't spiralThe simple question that helped her finally say yes to coachingResources + next steps mentioned in the episode:✨ Pink Friday Sale for the January YMX cohort✨ Join the Freedom Moms Membership (Morning Magic, workshops, community)✨ Get on the YMX waitlist! Just email laura@lauraconley.com with the subject "wait list"✨ Explore Laura Rose's stunning retreat + wedding venue: Wallace Falls Lodge's Website or check out Wallace Falls' InstagramYou are so worthy of ease, freedom, and feeling like you again. Let this episode remind you: it really can be simple. 💖
262. LIVE Coaching: Mom Guilt, Money & The “Chad Filter” — Saying Yes to Yourself
47:08||Ep. 262Hey mama! This episode is a must-listen if you’ve ever felt like you’re drowning in motherhood, convincing yourself “this is just how it is,” or talking yourself out of getting support because it feels indulgent, selfish, or “not necessary.” Today, Laura sits down with Raven—a mom of five, homeschooling pro, football-coach wife, online business manager, and full-on chaos navigator—to unpack one of the biggest traps moms get stuck in: believing they’re not allowed to want more.This conversation is raw, hilarious, emotional, and honestly… healing. Raven brings the exact thoughts so many moms are silently living with: I don’t have a choice. I can’t spend money on myself. My chaos is just who I am. Other women can thrive, but not me. And Laura—through coaching, compassion, and a whole lot of truth bombs—helps her see what’s actually going on underneath that guilt.You’re going to hear the exact mindset patterns keeping moms stuck in survival mode—and how to finally step into a version of life that feels peaceful, fun, intentional, and yes… free.Inside this episode:The mental gymnastics moms do when spending money on themselvesWhy investments in our emotional wellbeing feel “indulgent” (spoiler: conditioning)The “Chad Filter” and how men make decisions without the guilt spiralWhy chaos can feel familiar—and why our brains cling to itThe difference between discomfort that keeps you stuck vs discomfort that leads to growthHow motherhood martyrdom gets passed from generation to generationWhat it actually means to model joy, freedom, and fun for your kidsHow your energy affects your business, your family, and your ability to thriveThe real fear behind joining Free the Moms (and why it’s totally normal)If you’ve ever scrolled a sales page 12 times, gone back and forth for days, or felt that gut pull toward something that could help you—only to talk yourself out of it—this episode will feel like taking a breath you didn’t know you were holding.✨ Ready to start feeling free?Get your 7-day free trial of Free the Moms athttps://lauraconley.com/freethemoms💗 Don’t miss Pink Friday!A once-a-year insane deal on the Yummy Mummy Experience—only available to the VIP text list:https://lauraconley.com/pink🎧 Curious about losing weight for the last time?Book a call or learn more:https://lauraconley.comYou deserve a life you actually want to wake up to, mama. And if you can’t do it for yourself yet? Do it for your kids. They’re watching what’s possible.
261. How to Stop the Binge–Restrict Cycle for Good
42:28||Ep. 261Hey, mama! If you've ever felt trapped in the binge–restrict cycle—being “good” all week only to find yourself raiding the pantry by Friday night—this episode is going to set you free. I’m joined by my friend and fellow coach, Amber Abila, who shares her powerful story of overcoming binge eating and how dieting actually creates the very problem we’re trying to fix.Together, we unpack why calorie counting and over-restriction lead to overeating, how to rewire your brain to end bingeing for good, and what healthy restriction really looks like (because yes, there’s such a thing!). You’ll walk away with a new understanding of what’s happening in your brain and how to step into real food freedom—without the guilt, shame, or “start-again-Monday” mindset.We cover:The difference between binge eating and overeating (and why both start with restriction)Why dieting and calorie counting backfire—and what to do insteadHow to recognize “mental restriction” even when you’re eating enoughWhat healthy, loving boundaries with food look likeHow to sit with urges and break the binge habit for goodWhy intuitive eating alone might not be the full answerWhat real recovery and food freedom can look like long-term💗 Resources mentioned:– Amber’s Guided Urge Audio to stop a binge before it starts: theconfidenteater.org– Follow Amber on Instagram @theconfidenteater– Check out her podcast Become a Confident Eater– Join the Free the Moms Membership: lauraconley.com/freethemoms– Learn more about The Yummy Mummy Experience: lauraconley.com/loseIf you’re ready to stop obsessing over food, feel normal around your favorite treats, and finally trust yourself again, this one’s for you. Press play, take a deep breath, and let’s break the cycle—for good. 💕Timestamps:0:00 - Intro2:12 - Amber’s story: from restriction to recovery6:14 - How dieting rewires your brain for bingeing10:58 - Binge vs. overeating and how to spot the difference14:46 - The myth of “no restriction” and what healthy limits really mean18:42 - Letting go of desperation around weight loss26:10 - The first step to interrupt the binge–restrict loop30:20 - What to do after a binge—without shame34:36 - Can you fully recover from binge eating?38:00 - Why mindset matters more than food hacks40:20 - Final encouragement + how to find Amber
260. LIVE COACHING: Boundaries, Cookies & Calm Before the Holidays
54:18||Ep. 260Hey, babes! This episode is extra special because it’s a peek inside a real live coaching call from inside the Free The Moms membership. You’ll hear me coach moms through all the messy, beautiful parts of life—setting boundaries, managing worry, staying calm when things get hectic (or when there are cookies everywhere 😅), and finding peace in the chaos.We start with a grounding practice to come back to the body, followed by powerful coaching moments on:Turning worrying as a habit into calm presenceCreating boundaries that buy you peace (and actually holding them!)What to do when other people’s emotions trigger yoursHow to stay in self-love even when habit change feels “messy”Shifting from resistance into radical acceptanceYou’ll also hear me share quotes from Brianna Wiest and Glennon Doyle that will hit you right in the heart—especially if you’ve ever struggled with mom guilt or felt like you’re disappearing for your family. This is your permission slip to stop being a martyr and start being a model. 💕✨ Want more of this energy? Join us inside Free The Moms and grab your 7-day free trial before November 3rd!November is our Drop the Holiday Dread Challenge—daily mama moments, grounding, connection, and calm—all live or on demand.👉 lauraconley.com/freethemomsLet’s make this holiday season the calmest, freest one yet.Love you, babes. You’ve got this. 💖