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S2E128 The Most Attractive Trait in Business

Season 2, Ep. 128

Confidence is not the absence of doubt, it's the attitude and energy you bring in the midst of doubt. In this episode, Brian explains why self-confidence is such a powerful trait in the marketplace and teaches how you can grow yours to achieve phenomenal success in business and in life.



·     Why everyone experiences doubt sometimes.

·     How past accomplishments will help you make breakthroughs.

·     Why you must believe in your future.




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