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S2E111 You Got This with Dr. Ivan Joseph

Season 2, Ep. 111

Self-confidence is one of the biggest factors differentiating success from failure, in business and in life. In this episode, Brian interviews Dr. Ivan Joseph to learn the traits of self-confident people and how anyone can develop more grit, resilience and self-belief. 

 

YOU WILL LEARN:

·     Why self-confidence is a skill you can learn. 

·     How global self-confidence differs from specific self-confidence.

·     How you can build more self-confidence.

 

MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:

 

www.drivanjoseph.com

 

“You Got This,” by Dr. Ivan Joseph

 

REALStrengths Assessment


itsagoodlife.com


“What to Say When You Talk to Yourself,” by Shad Helmstetter


“Awaken the Giant Within,” by Anthony Robbins

 

Seven Brides for Seven Brothers

 

NOTEWORTHY QUOTES FROM THIS EPISODE:

 

“Self-confidence is the genuine belief in your ability to accomplish the task at hand.” – Dr. Ivan Joseph

 

“Confident people interpret feedback differently.” – Dr. Ivan Joseph

 

“Confident people have to be willing to accept failure as part of the process and then ask themselves what are they here to learn.” – Dr. Ivan Joseph

 

“The process of becoming great and becoming confident is filled and grounded in hope and optimism.” Dr. Ivan Joseph

 

“Live in the moment and let go of your mistakes.” Dr. Ivan Joseph

 

“The Good Life to me means living within your means surrounded by people who love you unconditionally and adding value to the world that you live in.” Dr. Ivan Joseph

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