Turned On With Sue And John

Welcome to another sex ed lesson that nobody gave you in high school. Sex ed for grown ups with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and co-host John.Today we talk sperm. And testosterone. And why your body is, frankly, weird.Plus we introduce you to an incredible new app called Moanr™ with its creators, Kevin & Tracy Daly!Moanr™ is the first privacy-first relationship app designed for your total well being. From secure STI verification to tracking libido,fertility and more..You think you’re in control of your sex life… Meanwhile your body is running a chemical circus with hormones, swimmers, boy bits, girl bits and decisions you didn’t approve. On this episode you'll learn how sperm wars are affecting your sex life and how your body is turning your desire up and down. For your swinger friends (hi!) we look into the rise of soft swapping. If you're in the lifestyle, then you are well aware that it’s happening everywhere!We get to a number of your very hot, kinky confessions this week, and answer a question from one of our listeners who gets turned on in unusual locations and wonders why.For more on Moanr™ see www.moanr.appFor more on Club M4 Toronto see www.clubm4.comWe're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com and on Fetlife.com @TurnedOnPodcast (plus connect with John on Fetlife @Megahurts)

Men... We are about to change your life on today's podcast. You're welcome!Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John share the best tips you'll find anywhere on what you need to do in order to generate the response from her that you've been hoping for.It comes down to being engaged, invested and interesting. If she's interested, she'll give you all kinds of signs. And we reveal what to watch and listen for!Plus... We respond to a listener's question about BDSM. They want to know why people fantasize about it, but then panic when opportunities present themselves.Another listener finds themselves very drawn to vintage porn and wants Sue's opinion on why it's so captivating.For our swinger friends (hi!) Sue and John address the "I didn't expect THAT effect." Why 1,000 different people have 1,000 different ideas of what to expect in the lifestyle and what to do so you don't feel overwhelmed. Baby steps my friend. Our swinger segment is thanks to Club M4 in Mississauga Ontario (google Club M4 to find their website - currently offering $300 off your annual membership renewal!)Get Sue's newsletter and hear/watch past episodes at www.turnedonpodcast.comFollow us on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast or John on FL: MegahurtsYour questions to sue@sexwithsue.com or turnesonsuejohn@gmail.com

It's the St. Patrick's Day edition of Turned On With Sue And John... Today is all about getting lucky!Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie offers some of her best tips on what works to get you laid... Beginning with understanding the three little brain hormones that can make that happen!Plus sex, scent and subtle power - chemistry hacks that no one has taught you, until now!We also do a deep dive on Hotwifing after reading a new study that reveals 71/% of couples who have tried it, say that it improved their marriage! We examine some of the reasons why!And because it is St. Patrick's Day as we record this - we look at Ireland's sex history, and find out why redheads may be hornier! Our Naught-E-Mail box was full this week with questions about how an aging swinger can stay in their "banging form." Another person wants information on how to last longer, and John reveals that he sometimes can, but, at other times, can finish too fast. Sue walks us through some of the reasons why!A voice note this week from one of our regular listeners about what she's getting out of our conversations PLUS she wants to know how she (and you) can become Fuck Reporters for us! Oooh! Fun! And - Sue offers up a FREE 5 minute one on one call with you... Listen to find out more!Thanks to our friends at M4 Toronto (Google ClubM4 to find them online). You'll find us online at www.turnedonpodcast.com where you can contact us, send voice notes and subscribe to our weekly newsletter filled with freebies!And, as promised, here's a link to the Lucky Charms Sex Quiz: http://www-cs-students.stanford.edu/~dufour/HUMOR/LuckyCharms.html

Sue is just back from two weeks in Thailand, where the attitude about sex work is incredibly different from the norm.Today we discuss Fantasy, Money, and the World’s Oldest Transaction!First up - the thing nobody wants to admit about sex work, and why so many are attracted to it.The money conversation is part of today's episode... Including our belief that with world events and changes in employment opportunities, more and more people will be exploring sex as a career option. Sue calls it the "fantasy economy."Plus, the girlfriend experience and why it's so popular, along with stripping and burlesque - and so many other categories of sex work.As always, you, our listener, have filled our in-box with questions, and we are thrilled to answer them! Including someone wanting to know why people admit to affairs even though they may never get caught.Thanks for your Kinky Confessions this week as well... Get on your knees and we'll share them with you. And you can share yours on our website (link below.)Plus, stripping and burlesque and, on our So You're A Swinger segment - a story of a swinger club that only admits people who fit into a certain look. We call bullshit on that. And it's one more reason, on a long list of reasons, why we are thrilled to recommend Club M4 in Toronto - where EVERYONE is welcome and there is zero judgement. www.clubm4.comYour questions, show suggestions, kinky confessions, voice notes along with links to our Youtube channel and every episode of this podcast at www.turnedonpodcast.com

You are about to get an incredible lesson on seduction!Today, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss seduction techniques that nobody has ever pulled you aside to teach you. Until right now!On this episode you'll hear seduction truths, and what swingers know about seduction... Often their seduction strategies work, but not always. We'll get into the rejection factor as well.Sue also introduces you to some of the most famous seducers in history!You know that guy who wore the top hat to the party, or who had the craziest Halloween costume? Did you notice that he got hit on by a lot of women? He planned that. He seduced them! Also today; why seduction is restraint. You always want to leave them wanting more. And Sue looks at the different things men and women often do in order to seduce people!Time to get Turned On With Sue And JohnOnline @ www.turnedonpodcast.com

It's actually why we chose to call our podcast TURNED ON. We knew we'd be having important and intimate conversations about everything that turns us on.In other words; arousal.Today, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John do a deep dive on the topic. Including why low libido is usually just lousy sex, and why good people end up having boring sex.Find out why you can't negotiate the things that excite you, but you can engineer them, and why talking about sex often makes things worse.On our "So You're A Swinger" segment, brought to you buy Club M4 Toronto (connect with them via the banner on our website) - We ask "are some people really not meant for monogamy?" And, you'll get to hear Sue's life changing intimacy truths!We have several questions from you, out listener to address as well! We LOVE those! sue@sexwithsue.com or via the contact information at www.turnedonpodcast.comAlso find us on Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcast

It's the Domme (or Dom) show - where we do a deep dive in the dark and mysterious world of BDSM.Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John do a deep dive into everything from misconceptions about what goes on in the dungeon to defining the euphoria known as "sub space."More often than not, the sexiest thing a Dominant does has nothing to do with a whip. You'll discover why giving women the power means your sex life skyrockets and why female lead sex is sooo much hotter, and will make men want more.We also discuss what you need to do if you want to quit your shit job and pursue a career as a professional dominant!And, for our swinger friends, we answer a listener question about where to meet other swingers.This is a very hot conversation! We're glad you're getting Turned On with us. Now... Get... On... Your... Knees.Our thanks to Club M4 Toronto - connect with them through our website at www.turnedonpodcast.com

Oooh this is an especially spicy conversation today! Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie and John talk about Taboos, and the sex you really want when no one is watching.What do we mean by that? The kinks we're too nervous to admit to anyone that we have. The things we secretly watch on porn sites. Seeking time with professional dominants and sex workers.Also this week, we are overloaded with kinky confessions from you, our listener! Our kinky confessional is your safe, anonymous space, to reveal those things you secretly desire or have pursued, but can't tell anyone, but are dying to! We read them here, and post them on our website for all to read! Doesn't it feel good to put it out there, somewhere?Oooh! You tickled our Turned On In Box again with questions and comments (thank you) and one person wants to know Sue's thoughts on the word "cuck" being used more and more in everyday conversation. Does that speak to ENM becoming more mainstream? And, where are swingers meeting other swingers? We share what works for us... What works for you? turnedonsuejohn@gmail.comPlus, we introduce you to Miss Bernadette - a Toronto based, mature disciplinarian who specializes in spanking and associated role play. Heads up, in a few episodes from now we're going to be speaking to some of the top professional Dominatrixes about their craft, and about what you need to do in order to earn time with Them!Our Youtube is back online after a community guidelines strike (oops) and, as always a HUGE shout out to our friends at Club M4 in Toronto and the KISS swingers who will be there this weekend for a masquerade party! Connect with M4 by clicking their logo on our website: www.turnedonpodcast.comAnd, if you're on Fetlife, follow us! @TurnedOnPodcast