Turned On With Sue And John

Perhaps you see more of it because of the algorithm... Especially if you're in the lifestyle already and tend to search a lot of content on ethical non monogamy. But, swinging does seem to be much more common online and in the public discourse than ever. Has it become TOO mainstream? We dive into that today.Also this week, listeners ask if their love of seeing sweaty women at the gym is unusual, loads of questions about grooming in advance of a live seminar Sue is conducting this week about oral sex, and another listener wants to know about swinger burnout.Sue will also let you in on what she'd include in your summer sex festival survival pack, and on her Sassy Sex Secrets it's the $4 Hardware Store / Drug Store toy that you can't pass up!Plus, the gang at the Adult Fun Superstore in Ottawa Canada introduce us to the toy their employees chose as this week's staff pick!Subscribe to Sue's newsletter and hear every episode of Turned On at www.turnedonpodcast.comFetlife: TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: MegahurtsQuestions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com

What makes you feel desired? A touch? A text? Holding hands? Today we talk about how to open up to your partner about what YOU need from them in order to feel desired... And sexy!On this episode we offer up some examples of questions you can ask them, or even ask yourself in order to start getting more of what you need in order to feel connected.Sue will also give you 10 Desire Builders; things you can put into practice to develop that closer bond, and we'll discuss the things that men and women want when it comes to desire. They're not always the same, and, some of the things you have been doing to express your desire, may not be things that your partner even recognizes as your love language.On our "So You're A Swinger" segment this week, we'll help you go from chatting to scoring at the next swinger event you attend. PLUS - John shares details of his tour of what he calls "the most perfect, elegant, and fully equipped exclusive lifestyle club" he's ever seen! Indulgence VIP in Owen Sound, Ontario Canada. https://www.indulgencevip.comThis is a fun conversation that we hope helps you have some fun conversations of your own this week!Thanks for getting Turned On With Sue And John!Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.comFetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcast (show) | @ Megahurts (John)Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comJohn: turnedonsuejohn@gmail.com

Ballmaxing. It was the subject of an article published a few days ago that caught our attention and it's something Sue gets a lot of questions about.For a variety of reasons, people love to experiment with their privates! From injecting saline into the balls, to inserting sounding instruments into the urethra, to weights, to rings, to pills and countless other things that many find make things feel oh-so-much-better.We'll even share some of the things people on Reddit have admitted they're into or have tried. A Barbie arm? Really? Really!For our swingers this week, a talk about bio-hacking to be a player.... And a look at some of the weird things that are bound to happen in the lifestyle.Sue's Sexy Sex Secret this week: the fake exit and other things that will get you smacked or have the O of your life. Online: www.turnedonpodcast.comOn Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: @MegahurtsSue: sue@sexwithsue.comJohn: turnedonpodcast@gmail.com

It's a hot topic on Reddit right now... How awkward and weird humans are about our sexual desires, kinks, and behaviors around sex.On this episode we get into WHY we're so weird.From how we eroticize, literally, everything from spread sheets to bed sheets, to aliens. We discuss what it is that attracts so many of us to people who many would refer to as "the crazy ones" and our weird sex quirks.For our swinger friends, a conversation about herpes and Sue's Sexy Sex Secret this week introduces you to the KIVIN METHOD.And, we have a VERY fun guest on the show today - Ted Buras - creator of CollabGPS, a creator networking app designed to help content creators find collaborators, plan shoots and manage projects. CollabGPS.com | TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@collabgps | IG: https://www.instagram.com/collabgps | X: https://x.com/collabgpsAnd find us on your preferred podcast platform, on Youtube and on Fetlife @TurnedOnPodcast - our website where you can subscribe to Sue's newsletter, interact with the show, and read hundreds of kinky confession from our listeners is www.turnedonpodcast.com

Today, in a nutshell, we're going to address why most sex feels... Fine... But not amazing.You're going to get amazing tips on how to slow things down, how to connect better, and by the end of this episode you'll have incredible tools to put to use to better understand why your body responds the way it does before, during and after sex, and Sue will even set you up with 14 things you can do to up your pleasure all over.We answer two incredible questions from you, our listener/viewer this week. One person wants to know about post-orgasm clarity, and another is looking for tips on how to manage their sexual energy so that nobody in their dynamic feels short changed.Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week is a tip she learned from the other "Sex With Sue" Sue Johansen... It's the Pulse & Peanut Butter Trick!For our swinger friends, this week's So You're A Swinger Segment is an absolute eye opener - The laundry list. The things you should discuss after every lifestyle encounter and WHEN you should discuss them. This is invaluable!Thank you clubm4.com in Toronto for partnering with us for our swinger segments!Plus - we have two of the HOTTEST Kinky Confessions we've ever received on this show! WARNING: Your panties will get wet. You may want to remove them now as a preventative measure.This and so much more on the podcast that gives you the sex education you wish someone pulled you aside years ago and gave you!We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.comFetlife: @TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: @MegahurtsSue: www.sexwithsue.com Email: sue@sexwithsue.com

It's National Superhero Day today and your Superhero Of Sex - Sue McGarvie is here to talk about the sex that feels like a drug. The kind that can turn into a problem.Sue and John discuss what people mean when they say "sex addict" plus compulsive masturbation and the "addictive partner phenomenon." What is is about that person who you can't stop thinking about? Also how early porn use can predict your mental health and, Sue's Sassy Sex Secret of the week: The chapstick / lip gloss trick!We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com and on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcastEmail Sue at: sue@sexwithsue.comEmail John at: funwithmilkman@gmail.com

Bigger, Better… or Just Louder? What actually creates enlarged parts - and what is complete BS!This episode of Turned On With Sue And John is all about size! Including - Can you actually change your body, or just how it performs?The difference between growing and enhancing - including breast size (we'll speak with Demora Avarice - whose chest is so big, there isn't a bra size big enough - and dick size - why erection quality beats size!"On this week's So You’re a Swinger segment - What real world bodies teach you... And the pitfalls of sites like Adult Friend Finder.And, Sue dives into the mail bag this week to answer questions from you about where to go to "try out a sex worker" and another question regarding what to do when your partner is into things that feel... Weird.Find us on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcastFind us online: www.turnedonpodcast.comAnd for all things Demora Avarice: DemoraAvarice.com and Linktr.ee/DemoraAvarice

Your sex drive.It can be a crazy ride. From highs to lows and often, you can be completely distracted.Let's get you back in your lane!In this conversation, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie gives you 5 Ways to Turn Up the Heat (Without Trying Harder) AND you'll also hear TEN things you can do if your libido has gone MIA.In our So You're A Swinger segment this week - a question who feels that what they see represented online doesn't quite align with the reality they, and other couples seem to experience. Why do real life couples seem to crash and burn? This conversation should not only answer that, but offer you some hope!And there is an incredible new report out that shares close to 250 reasons why people have sex! Think about it. Why do YOU have sex? Would your bestie, if they were sitting next to you, answer the question the same way you just did? Fascinating!Controlled chaos leads to wet panties. You'll find out why when you click PLAY!Be sure to sign up for our Turned On Newsletter - you'll find the link in the menu on our website at www.turnedonpodcast.comWe're on Fetlife at @TurnedOnPodcastThanks to M4 Toronto (www.clubm4 dot com)

Orgasms. What do you do when you just can't get there? It happens!Today's conversation with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie, and John, is all about the BIG O.And Sue will even share with you her 10 Fixes for Orgasm Roadblocks! We'll also discuss the refractory period and how to come back faster and without any weird supplements.A new segment this week... Sue's Sassy Sex Secret: Do the "3-3-3" if your orgasm is elusive. On this week's So You're A Swinger Segment, (thanks to club M4 in Toronto) - The Single Guy Problem And Survival Guide"Bimbofication" has been in the news - was this your first time hearing that term? We'll define it for you and discuss the appeal to cross dressing for so many men.Plus - we answer several questions submitted by people just like you - people who are tuned in and getting Turned On With Sue And John!Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.comYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/@TurnedOnWithSueAndJohnFetlife: https://fetlife.com/TurnedOnPodcastSue's Newsletter: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter/