Turned On With Sue And John

This week we're going straight at the biggest lie we've all been told: that sex after 40 is a slow fade to nothing. It's not. It's a total rewrite — and most people never bother to read the new rules.What's On This Week's ShowThe Biggest Lie About Sex After 40: That your libido is supposed to disappear, that ED means it's over, that menopause ends great sex. None of it's true. We break down where the panic actually comes from — and it's not your body.Sue's Sassy Sex Secret — The Nipple Map: Here's something almost nobody's tested: your nipples probably aren't twins, they're siblings with completely different personalities. Tonight's homework — become a detective. Two minutes, one finger, five techniques, a score out of 10. You'll probably be shocked which side wins.Why Afternoon Sex Is Underrated: Morning's unreliable. Night you're exhausted. Afternoon? Lower stress, warmer body, medication's kicked in. Maybe your libido didn't disappear — maybe you've just been making love at the worst possible time.So You're a Swinger — The World's Least Likely Rule Breakers: Half the room looks like they just finished helping at a school fundraiser. Turns out swingers have more rules than a hockey league, and most of them are more pro-marriage than the couples judging them.Dear Sue: "Are bi-curious guys welcome at swing events?" And: does pineapple actually change the taste of semen? We answer both. Honestly. As always.PLUS: Sue's exclusive interview with DD White, a 72 year old great grandmother who is not only having great sex, but, together with her husband, has no starred in, and produced over 200 adult titles! DDWhiteXX.com and AllMyLinks.com/ddwhite263 to learn more.Questions for Sue? sue@sexwithsue.comWebsite: www.turnedonpodcast.comUs of Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife @ Megahurts

Sue is back from Swingathon UK with a first hand account of this growing swinger festival, plus details of Naughty N'Awlins which was also a HUGE success!And, we dive into what is NEW in the world of swinging, or ENM or any of the newer "lables" being attached to the lifestyle.Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week helps you with squirting! Some tricks to encourage more fluid.We also answer the question, "Does non-monogamy drive us or are we just bored?"Sue will get you all caught up with the most fun an interesting stories about sex that have been in the news recently and we answer two listener questions - one from someone wondering if they are at risk of being "stretched out" by their very large handed partner... And another, from an exotic dancer who would like our opinions on how people view sex workers... And a request for John to sing more? Ummmm what?Questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comQuestions for John: funwithmilkman@gmail.comOur website: www.turnedonpodcast.comUs on Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: @ MegahurtsThanks for getting Turned On With Sue And John

Sue McGarvie has been talking sex on the radio, in seminars, and in print since the early 90s! And now on this podcast - Turned On With Sue And John - the sex education you WISH someone would have pulled you aside and given you decades ago.This week... Pleasure! And why receiving is harder than giving.We'll talk about getting out of your head and getting into sex while GIVING, we'll talk about the science of pleasure and why it matters, and why, when it comes to receiving pleasure, so many people are not able to just let go.For our swinger friends this week: The lifestyle runs on reputation. Some of the things you need to know before you are "that" person.And we answer two questions from you, our audience including someone who is now finding video sex with their partner to be a little "same ol', same ol'" and wants some help to change things up. And our second question deals with someone expressing the need for foreplay, while their partner just wants to get in and get out.We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com - get in touch, send a voice note, subscribe to our newsletter, listen to past episodes and more!And on Fetlife we are @ TurnedOnPodcast (John on FL is @ Megahurts)Your questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com

What is the best kind of sex?This week on Turned On With Sue and John we’ll help you answer that, including a list of the 10 best kinds, according to therapists around the world.Plus, we’ll discuss some types of sex that you may not believe are good, although, they actually are!Sue’s Sassy Sex Secret this weekdays with Spectatoring is the act of overthinking sex while having sex.And listener questions this week seek Sue’s advice on how to deal with, what they call “a broken clit” and another person wants to know if it’s normal to sneeze (a lot) when she is close to orgasm.And, for our upside down pineapple friends - The things that surprise the “vanillas!” It’s time to get Turned On With Sue And Johnwww.turnedonpodcast.comUs on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: MegahertzSue’s email: sue@sexwithsue.com

1... 2... 3... How many sex partners have you had? Don't answer that. Because, the reality is, it doesn't matter. Your sexual history isn't a report card, or a scoreboard.Today Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss "The Body Count."Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week: The "Pulse and Pause" Edging HackFor swingers, a conversation with Bob from Naughty N'awlins plus... Hollywood Gets the Lifestyle Wrong. Again.And in sex in the news: The "wholesome" creator with more than 2,500 partners, and our friend Bonnie Blue is back in the news! Always pushing boundaries, always making headlines, and always fun to talk about!And Raven from the Adult Fun Superstore introduces you to her sex toy pick of the week - The Stroker / Main Squeeze from Doc Johnson! (www.adultfun dot ca)To connect with us:Website: www.turnedonpodcast.comFetlife: @TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: @MegahurtsEmail Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comTo subscribe to Sue's Newsletter: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter/

There is so much bad sex advice out there. And, sadly, a lot of people hear it, try it and things end up worse than they were.Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie has been a leading expert on this since the early 90s and on today's episode of Turned On With Sue And John, she addresses a lot of the bad advice, and sets the record straight on what DOES work!Including new sex ideas to hear things up and the wet and wild upgrade using fruits! And she'll introduce you to the "gum job" a candy that actually helps you give a better blow job!We're also going to send Hollywood to the naughty corner because a lot of what it has taught us is just... Well... Hollywood fiction.For our swinger friends - a new mega-swinger-centre is being built - we'll tell you where and we'll also tell you how to explore it FREE! You're welcome!This week's sex in the news includes a man arrested for stealing and then trying to re-sell boner pills at one of the largest swinger hot spots in the world, and a strongman who not only pulled car with his dick, he did it while his dick was on fire.And, a question about face sitting from someone worried that her partner may suffocate.Finally, our friends from the Adult Fun Superstore in Ottawa Canada (adultfun dot ca) introduce us to the new Delightful Vulva And Breast Pump from Shots!We're online @ www.turnedonpodcast.comOn Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: MegahurtsEmail Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com

Have you ever just been in the presence of someone, even just in passing, and get an undeniable, overwhelming feeling of desire for them? Instantly?Today's conversation is all about lust.Merrium-Webster defines it as:usually intense or unbridled sexual desire : lasciviousnessan intense longing : cravingto have an intense desire or need : crave specifically : to have a sexual urgeWe'll also reveal what sex workers have to say about the subject.Sue's experienced lust. John too. Have you? Tell us your story of lust at our links below!Also today... We dispel some swinger myths - and there are a lot of them!We talk to the team at Lelo about some of their incredible toys, and Raven from The Adult Fun Superstor (adultfun.ca) introduces you to her toy of the week - the Aluna Femme Fun!Plus - The three secrets that will make your sex life better immediately, sex in the news this week and loads more of the sex education you wish someone would have given you years ago!Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com (subscribe to Sue's newsletter, send your questions, rate our podcast and more)Turned On on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: MegahurtsSue's email: sue@sexwithsue.comJohn's email: turnedonsuejohn@gmail.comCover Photo: Photo by Klara Kulikova on Unsplashhttps://unsplash.com/@kkalerry?utm_source=unsplash&utm_medium=referral&utm_content=creditCopyText

The flowing hair, the six pack abs, the tall dark and handsome figure who looks like he belongs on the cover of a romance novel... He is not what women really want.We'll even take a huge dick and fat wallet out of the equation.Today, Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie reveals the things that women REALLY want from a man. We'll dive into "Looksmaxing" and even "dickmaxing" on this episode.Also today, the exit strategy for swingers, because sometimes you've had enough of the lifestyle, need to take a break, or have discovered that it's just not for you anymore. You always hear about how to get IN, but how do you gracefully find your way out?We even get you caught up on sex in the news - including the latest about sex in space, 83 year old Iris is banging a lot of younger men, a new survey looks at what is ruining things in the bedroom for Canadians, and outdated sex laws that are still on the books in the USA right now.And our friends at The Adult Fun Superstore introduce us to the latest a fun, new toy for couples from WeVibe!Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.comOn Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcastSue: sue@sexwithsue.com

Today’s oral presentation is all about… Oral!
We’ll introduce you to Jasmine, who partnered with Sue last weekend for an entire workshop devoted to oral sex!  As a working professional, she’ll let you in on all kinds of tips (pardon the pun) and tricks! Sue also discusses some of the biggest oral sex myths on this episode as well as her “sassy sex secret” of the week; the frozen grape trick!  This sounds SOOOO fun!For our swinger friends, we get into all the things swinging has taught us, and others in the lifestyle. If you’re new to swinging, these are some of the things you’ll experience as you play more!Some incredible questions from YOU again this week.  One listener cannot visualize things in their mind and wants to know if that’s normal.  We promise you, it is, and we have some work-arounds for you to try!  Another listener is frustrated trying to orgasm, often spending up to an hour with no success.  They’d like Sue’s recipe for “scream cream” please.  Sue happily shares that today.Finally, we address some comments found on Reddit on the topic of oral sex and also what research has to say on the matter! Sue’s Newsletter: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletterQuestions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comOur website: https://www.turnedonpodcast.comUs on Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/MegahurtsAnd our friends at the Adult Fun Superstore: www.adultfun.ca