Turned On With Sue And John

What do you do when you have a hard time getting hard? Or staying hard?Today, we talk about it.Including new treatments, and how commonplace erection medications are on porn sets, and at swinger clubs. In this week's swinger segment we'll get into why some men can't get hard even in that environment, and, as a bonus, we have a conversation about the couple's crush.Sue and John will offer insight into why porn can impact your dick, and why your boss may be more to blame for not being able to get it up than your partner is.What weakens erections and what men can do to make them harder and more reliable, and why playing with your partner's flaccid penis can be a LOT of fun! For both of you!Questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comOur website: www.turnedonpodcast.comFetlfe links: @ TurnedOnPodcast @MistressInCharge @MegahurtsSue on TikTok: @s3xwithsue.swingdateguru

Hey it's Sue and John - your guides today on how to better your odds of ending up in bed with someone you are attracted to!A 40 minute conversation that covers that space between flirting and spending the night together.We'll reveal where most people either freeze, fumble or accidentally kill the mood. And we offer some tips on how to avoid those pitfalls, and how to lean into your awkwardness as a super power!Think about what song you'd strip to for someone you're trying to seduce, because Sue will teach you and incredible three minute strip tease! You know those people who seem to have game every day and every night? What if YOU knew how to do that? After this conversation, you'll have some things to try!Oh, and guys... Bridgerton. There aren't many places you can go to get better lessons on seduction that Bridgerton. You have your homework!For our swinger friends (hi!), why swingers may be more sexually confident. Swinging isn't always a guaranteed romp. Swingers have learned to deal with rejection, but they also have learned how communication, articulating desires, flirting and confidence can lead to incredible connections!Sue has an entire list of seduction secrets she'll share with you on this episode, and we walk you through how to handle it when things go sideways and sex doesn't happen.We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com - including links to our Kinky Confessions, how to subscribe to Sue's newsletter, even products Sue recommends on our new Amazon store!On Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcastSue on Fetlife: @ MistressInChargeJohn on Fetlife @ MegahurtsQuestions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comQuestions for John: funwithmilkman@gmail.com

Today we bring you inside a BDSM dungeon! It's an enormous space, in a very small community, in small town New Brunswick Canada!We'll introduce you to Mistress Aaliyah and Her husband Chuck, who is also the dungeon master.In just a few short years they turned their lifestyle into a space that attracts people from across Canada, the USA and around the world.From BDSM sessions to swinger events and incredible adult lifestyle parties, Mistress and Chuck will introduce you to this converted warehouse that started as the location for their custom auto shop.If you've ever wondered if you could work as a Pro Domme, Mistress will tell you some of the things you need to know about that line of work. From what you need to get started to what skill sets you need to have. This is an eye opener and a very fun conversation!See the Warehouse for yourself online at www.thewarehousenb.caPlus... Sue has a conversation with one of our listeners, Copper Delight, who took us up on our invitation to have you, the listener, help answer some of the questions other listeners have. Today, she and Sue go through several questions we received recently about the Swinger lifestyle - it's fun to get a new perspective!Find us online at www.turnedonpodcast.comAnd on Fetlfe: @ TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife @ MegahurtsSue on Fetlife @ MistressInCharge

Today... Meet a gigolo! Sue speaks to an Australian man who makes a living catering to the sexual needs and desires of women.It's a very usual occupation, and we'll explore who the woman are that use his service.This week we also guide you through what to expect if and when you visit a sex worker for the first time. It can be overwhelming, but we hope the right information helps you enjoy your experience a lot more.On our So You're A Swinger segment this week, we look at paid intimacy vs the lifestyle.We also hear from a listener who wants to gain experience with women but doesn't quite know where to begin. He also doesn't want to be arrested. And... Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week is all about electro stimulation! (Hint: One of us REALLY loves it!)And... It's our first ever installment of our weekly "soap opera" As The World Turns On...Your questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comOur Website: www.turnedonpodcast.comUs on Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife @ MegahurtsSue on Fetlife @ MistressInCharge

Welcome to the 200th episode of Turned On With Sue And John!Our friendship began when we both worked at the same radio station in 1992. John was a music DJ and Sue hosted a nationally syndicated, call in show about all things sex, including countless phone calls from people with questions that they were too shy to ask anyone else.Today, we discuss the sex questions everyone is REALLY asking in 2026 - including the differences between sex then and now, the sex advice that people get that is, to be blunt, bullshit and so much more.We address questions from our friends in the swinger community as they continue to explore, we address porn and toys, erectile dysfunction, and sex as you get older.This entire hour is devoted to the questions we get from you every week.And that has been, is, and always will be Sue's goal; to answer your questions, provide you with answers based on research and experience, and to make you know, without a shadow of a doubt, that you are not alone in your likes, your wants, your desires.Thanks for being with us for 200+ conversations! Here's to 200 more!Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.comSue's Newsletter: www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletterUs on Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife (including his latest latex pics from this weekend) @ MegahurtsSue on Fetlife @ MistressInChargeSue's email: sue@sexwithsue.comJohn's email: funwithmilkman@gmail.com

It's show #199!This week - Weird kinks. Or what we something believe are weird, until we meet others who share it. We'll explore the museum of unusual turn ons... From bug sex to human furniture and more!Listener questions this week include someone wondering if you can be too good at oral sex, and another person asking Sue to define chemistry. They find it confusing.For our swinger friends.... Why science still can't explain our lifestyle!Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.comUs on Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife @ MegahurtsQuestions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comNext week... Our 200th episode! We can't wait!

This week we're going straight at the biggest lie we've all been told: that sex after 40 is a slow fade to nothing. It's not. It's a total rewrite — and most people never bother to read the new rules.What's On This Week's ShowThe Biggest Lie About Sex After 40: That your libido is supposed to disappear, that ED means it's over, that menopause ends great sex. None of it's true. We break down where the panic actually comes from — and it's not your body.Sue's Sassy Sex Secret — The Nipple Map: Here's something almost nobody's tested: your nipples probably aren't twins, they're siblings with completely different personalities. Tonight's homework — become a detective. Two minutes, one finger, five techniques, a score out of 10. You'll probably be shocked which side wins.Why Afternoon Sex Is Underrated: Morning's unreliable. Night you're exhausted. Afternoon? Lower stress, warmer body, medication's kicked in. Maybe your libido didn't disappear — maybe you've just been making love at the worst possible time.So You're a Swinger — The World's Least Likely Rule Breakers: Half the room looks like they just finished helping at a school fundraiser. Turns out swingers have more rules than a hockey league, and most of them are more pro-marriage than the couples judging them.Dear Sue: "Are bi-curious guys welcome at swing events?" And: does pineapple actually change the taste of semen? We answer both. Honestly. As always.PLUS: Sue's exclusive interview with DD White, a 72 year old great grandmother who is not only having great sex, but, together with her husband, has no starred in, and produced over 200 adult titles! DDWhiteXX.com and AllMyLinks.com/ddwhite263 to learn more.Questions for Sue? sue@sexwithsue.comWebsite: www.turnedonpodcast.comUs of Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife @ Megahurts

Sue McGarvie has been talking sex on the radio, in seminars, and in print since the early 90s! And now on this podcast - Turned On With Sue And John - the sex education you WISH someone would have pulled you aside and given you decades ago.This week... Pleasure! And why receiving is harder than giving.We'll talk about getting out of your head and getting into sex while GIVING, we'll talk about the science of pleasure and why it matters, and why, when it comes to receiving pleasure, so many people are not able to just let go.For our swinger friends this week: The lifestyle runs on reputation. Some of the things you need to know before you are "that" person.And we answer two questions from you, our audience including someone who is now finding video sex with their partner to be a little "same ol', same ol'" and wants some help to change things up. And our second question deals with someone expressing the need for foreplay, while their partner just wants to get in and get out.We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com - get in touch, send a voice note, subscribe to our newsletter, listen to past episodes and more!And on Fetlife we are @ TurnedOnPodcast (John on FL is @ Megahurts)Your questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com