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Lessons From A Father's Influence

Season 1, Ep. 3

In this conversation, Russell Thompson reflects on his upbringing, discussing the strict family values instilled by his father and the impact of alcohol on family dynamics. He shares insights on how these experiences shaped his views on fatherhood and his desire to break the cycle of control in parenting. The discussion highlights the importance of personal growth and learning from past experiences to foster healthier relationships with his own children. In this conversation, Russell reflects on his journey of emotional availability as a parent, the significance of marriage after a long relationship, and the principles of stoicism that guide his life. He discusses the evolving landscape of men's mental health and the importance of creating supportive workplaces that prioritize mental well-being.


02:26 Reflections on Childhood and Masculinity


05:41 The Role of Alcohol in Family Dynamics


09:22 Navigating Relationships with Alcohol


10:31 Impact of Fatherhood on Personal Choices


12:29 Desires for Connection and Understanding


18:13 Control and Its Consequences


21:16 The Weight of Family Secrets


23:31 Reclaiming Personal Identity


28:39 Breaking the Cycle of Parenting


29:16 Creating Emotional Availability


31:26 Empowering Parenting: A New Approach


32:32 A Journey to Marriage: Reflections on Commitment


35:27 The Growth of Men: Maturity and Stoicism


39:15 Men's Mental Health: Changing Perspectives


42:55 Designing Better Workplaces: Balancing Life and Work


45:15 Breaking the Cycle: Parenting and Personal Growth


46:29 Understanding Intergenerational Traits: A Psychological Perspective



You can find Russell at

Russell Thompson - Director on Demand

LinkedIn - Russell Thompson | LinkedIn


I also talked with Nic Nistor about what we can about traits we recognise but want to leave behind

Home - NN Psychology- Nic Nistor Clinical Psychologist

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