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33. Mindful Mondays With Ashley Dupuy | The Neurodivergent Nuance of Mel Robbinsā Let Them Theory
33:56||Ep. 33In this episode of Mindful Mondays, Ashley continues the From Mask to Map series by exploring the neurodivergent nuance of Mel Robbinsā Let Them theory - a powerful idea rooted in acceptance, non-attachment, and the release of control.At its best, Let Them invites us to stop exhausting ourselves by trying to manage other peopleās choices, opinions, priorities, and reactions. But for neurodivergent people, especially those with histories of masking, fawning, burnout, chronic illness, trauma, or self-abandonment, advice like this needs careful translation.Ashley explores how Let Them connects with mindfulness, Buddhism, Radical Acceptance, and her emerging framework: Aware > Allow > Align.Youāll hear how acceptance becomes safer and more embodied when we learn to:* become aware of what is happening externally and internally* allow reality, emotions, body signals, and nervous system responses to be recognised* align with values, boundaries, safety, dignity, and self-trustThis episode looks at why āacceptanceā can sometimes be misunderstood as approval, passivity, or tolerance of harm - and how neurodivergent nuance helps us see reality clearly without abandoning ourselves.The episode closes with a simple mindfulness labelling meditation, using the breath and gentle noticing to practise Aware > Allow > Align in real time.If this work resonates and youāre interested in Ashleyās September group coaching cohort, you can email [integrativeiom@gmail.com](mailto:integrativeiom@gmail.com) to register your interest.Our Sponsors:š§āāļø Ashley Dupuy ā Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapyā https://bit.ly/ashleyndeš¤ Sophie James - Neurodivergent Mentoringā sophiejamesndmentoring.comš Stay ConnectedInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceš§Ā The Neurodivergent ExperienceĀ is available onĀ Spotify,Ā Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.ā Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotifyš Turn on notifications for new weekly episodesš Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive atĀ AutisticCulturePlus.comš VisitĀ www.autisticculturepodcast.com
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Hot Topic: 14 Million Reddit Posts Reveal a Mental Health Shift
29:02|In this Hot Topic episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott explore a new study analysing 14 million Reddit posts and comments, revealing a major shift in how we talk about mental health online. Once dominated by discussions around depression and anxiety, platforms like Reddit are now seeing autism and ADHD take centre stage.Article: https://theconversation.com/we-analysed-14-million-reddit-posts-to-reveal-a-striking-shift-in-how-we-talk-about-mental-health-283059The conversation unpacks why more people are turning to social media, podcasts, and online communities to understand themselves and seek support. Jordan and Simon reflect on the value of lived experience, how finding relatable stories can reduce shame and isolation, and why so many neurodivergent people feel they've learned more from community than from traditional services.A thoughtful and balanced conversation about the internet, identity, and what happens when lived experience becomes one of our most powerful sources of knowledge.Our Sponsors:š§āāļø Ashley Dupuy ā Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapyā https://bit.ly/ashleyndeš¤ Sophie James - Neurodivergent Mentoringā sophiejamesndmentoring.comš Stay ConnectedInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceš§Ā The Neurodivergent ExperienceĀ is available onĀ Spotify,Ā Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.ā Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotifyš Turn on notifications for new weekly episodesš Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive atĀ AutisticCulturePlus.comš VisitĀ www.autisticculturepodcast.com
115. Adulting While Neurodivergent: Burnout, Guilt & Free Time
47:39||Ep. 115In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott return after an unexpected break to talk honestly about something many neurodivergent adults know all too well: what happens when life leaves you with nothing left in the tank.Ā From 72-hour work weeks and launching new projects to forgetting to record the podcast altogether, they reflect on the mounting pressure of adulthood, the fear of burnout, and the guilt that can come with taking time for yourself. Simon opens up about juggling the demands of the Autistic Culture Podcast Network while struggling to switch off, while Jordan shares how gaming, photography, and embracing his inner child have helped him navigate periods of stress and boreout.Ā A funny, vulnerable, and deeply relatable episode about burnout, adulthood, and remembering that sometimes the most important thing you can do is give yourself permission to simply be.Our Sponsors:š§āāļø Ashley Dupuy ā Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapyā https://bit.ly/ashleyndeš¤ Sophie James - Neurodivergent Mentoringā sophiejamesndmentoring.comš Stay ConnectedInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceš§ The Neurodivergent Experience is available on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.ā Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotifyš Turn on notifications for new weekly episodesš Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive at AutisticCulturePlus.comš Visit www.autisticculturepodcast.com
32. Mindful Mondays With Ashley Dupuy | From Mask to Map: Neurodivergent Nuance & Taking Things Literally
40:44||Ep. 32In this episode of Mindful Mondays, Ashley continues the From Mask to Map series with an exploration of taking things literally - and why this familiar neurodivergent trait deserves far more nuance, compassion, and understanding.Ashley introduces the idea of "Neurodivergent Nuance": the missing translation layer that helps us understand why everyday advice, social rituals, reassurance, and cultural shorthand can land very differently in a precise nervous system.Through personal stories - from childhood swimming tests and tonsil surgery, to hip replacement recovery, eye contact, greetings, and the hidden meanings behind common phrases - this episode explores what happens when vague language is received with unusual sincerity.Youāll hear about:* why ātry your hardestā can become a full-body command* how reassurance can feel destabilising when taken as a concrete prediction* why āhow are you?ā is often a social ritual rather than a literal question* the neurodivergent nuance of eye contact, advice culture, and reading between the lines* how literal thinking can be both difficult and deeply beautiful* why needing clearer language is not a flawThis episode also includes a Yoga Nidra practice exploring the body as both literal and symbolic - and a guided image of the bridge between words and meaning.A gentle reminder that you are not the error in the translation. You are learning how to read the world in a language that includes you.If this work resonates and youāre interested in Ashleyās September group coaching cohort, you can email [integrativeiom@gmail.com] to register your interest.Our Sponsors:š§āāļø Ashley Dupuy ā Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapyā https://bit.ly/ashleyndeš¤ Sophie James - Neurodivergent Mentoringā sophiejamesndmentoring.comš Stay ConnectedInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceš§Ā The Neurodivergent ExperienceĀ is available onĀ Spotify,Ā Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.ā Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotifyš Turn on notifications for new weekly episodesš Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive atĀ AutisticCulturePlus.comš VisitĀ www.autisticculturepodcast.com
Rerun - I Donāt Belong Here: Imposter Syndrome and the Neurodivergent Brain
57:33|In this episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott open up about imposter syndrome ā the belief that youāre never good enough, never qualified enough, and that one day everyone will āfigure you out.āWith humour and honesty, they share personal stories of childhood bullying, masking, perfectionism and self-doubt, and how growing up misunderstood leaves many autistic and ADHD adults feeling like their achievements arenāt real. From turning down opportunities to assuming every success is luck, they explore why confidence is so difficult for neurodivergent minds.They discuss how imposter syndrome shows up in work, relationships, creativity and social media ā and how therapy, self-compassion and supportive people can slowly rewrite the story.They explore:Why imposter syndrome is so common for autistic & ADHD adultsGrowing up hearing youāre ālazy,ā ātoo much,ā or ānot tryingāHow masking and people-pleasing destroy self-worthThe fear of failure ā and the fear of successSocial media, comparison and anxietyWhy confidence takes time and why small wins matterWhen self-criticism becomes self-harmWhy reaching out can save people from spiralling aloneThis is a raw, validating conversation for anyone who has ever worked twice as hard and still felt like a fraud. If you struggle to believe in yourself, this episode is proof that youāre not alone ā and that healing is possible.Our Sponsors:š§āāļø Ashley Dupuy ā Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapyā https://bit.ly/ashleyndeš¤ Sophie James - Neurodivergent Mentoringā sophiejamesndmentoring.comš Stay ConnectedInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceš§Ā The Neurodivergent ExperienceĀ is available onĀ Spotify,Ā Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.ā Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotifyš Turn on notifications for new weekly episodesš Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive atĀ AutisticCulturePlus.comš VisitĀ www.autisticculturepodcast.com
Rerun - Mindful Mondays With Ashley Dupuy: The Art of Resilience | the Squeeze, the Release, and the Capacity to Return
35:17|Resilience is often misunderstood.Itās not about pushing through at all costs, pretending youāre fine, or never getting overwhelmed ā especially if youāre sensitive or neurodivergent. Real resilience is something far more human, far more embodied.In this episode of Mindful Mondays, we explore what resilience actually looks like in the nervous system ā the ability to move through challenge, to feel the squeeze of life, and to gently find our way back.Drawing on neuroscience, somatic wisdom, Buddhism, psychology, and lived experience, we explore:Why resilience is about movement, not perfectionHow discomfort can become meaningful rather than overwhelmingThe role of contrast - squeeze and release - in nervous system flexibilityWhy resistance, not discomfort itself, often creates sufferingEmotional complexity as a strength, not a flawHow sensitive and neurodivergent nervous systems can learn to ābounce backā with kindnessWhy acceptance can create a deeper baseline peace, even during hard timesYouāll also be guided through a gentle squeeze-and-release meditation designed to help your body experience resilience directly - not as an idea, but as a felt sense.If youāve ever felt like youāre ātoo sensitive,ā slow to recover, or worn down by lifeās demands, this episode is an invitation to reframe resilience - not as something you force, but something you cultivate through care, curiosity, and self-trust.You donāt have to harden to survive.Youāre allowed to soften - and still be strong.Our Sponsors:š§āāļø Ashley Dupuy ā Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapyā https://bit.ly/ashleyndeš¤ Sophie James - Neurodivergent Mentoringā sophiejamesndmentoring.comš Stay ConnectedInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceš§Ā The Neurodivergent ExperienceĀ is available onĀ Spotify,Ā Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.ā Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotifyš Turn on notifications for new weekly episodesš Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive atĀ AutisticCulturePlus.comš VisitĀ www.autisticculturepodcast.com
Hot Topic: ADHD & Blue Badges ā Who Gets to Be āDisabled Enoughā?
26:09|In this Hot Topic episode of The Neurodivergent Experience, Jordan James and Simon Scott react to controversial headlines claiming people with ADHD and anxiety āshouldnāt automatically get blue badgesā ā and unpack the wider stigma surrounding invisible disabilities.The discussion explores the public backlash around disabled parking permits for hidden disabilities, including ADHD, autism, anxiety, dyspraxia, and other non-visible conditions. Jordan and Simon reflect on why so many people still struggle to understand disability unless it is physically obvious, and how media narratives often frame disabled people as ācheating the system.āFunny, fiery, and deeply honest ā this episode is a passionate discussion about disability, stigma, support systems, and why invisible disabilities are still disabilities.Our Sponsors:š§āāļø Ashley Dupuy ā Integrative Coaching, Breathwork & Hypnotherapyā https://bit.ly/ashleyndeš¤ Sophie James - Neurodivergent Mentoringā sophiejamesndmentoring.comš Stay ConnectedInstagram: @theneurodivergentexperiencepodFacebook: The Neurodivergent Experience & Jordan's Facebook pageYouTube: @TheNeurodivergentExperienceTikTok: @neurodivergentexperienceš§Ā The Neurodivergent ExperienceĀ is available onĀ Spotify,Ā Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms.ā Leave a quick review on Apple Podcasts or Spotifyš Turn on notifications for new weekly episodesš Celebrate autistic voices with early access, ad-free listening, and our full archive atĀ AutisticCulturePlus.comš VisitĀ www.autisticculturepodcast.com