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Oakley & The Boy Cave: ADHD Time Blindness

Ep. 56

In this conversation, Jordan and Simon discuss the concept of time blindness, with both speakers sharing their experiences and perspectives on managing time and procrastination in their daily lives. They share their tips and experiences around the intricacies of their morning preparations and daily routines, the struggles they face with time management, the challenges of demand avoidance, and the impact of time blindness on their lives. Plus Jordan talks about his special interest purchases, and Simon delves into the life changes that come with buying a house.


This weeks Hot Topic covers a story in the news about children being rejected by the NHS mental heal services because they are Autistic:

https://news.sky.com/story/children-being-rejected-by-nhs-mental-health-services-if-theyre-autistic-parents-say-13322027


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