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Why You Sabotage Yourself Right Before the Finish Line

Season 8, Ep. 49

You were doing everything right. Then you started getting close to your goal and something in you hit the brakes. Sound familiar? In this episode, Gina Livy gets into the real reason so many women sabotage their progress right when it matters most. It's not weakness. It's fear of what reaching your goal actually means, of who you'll have to become, of what you'll run out of excuses for. She also gets into what to do when the people around you aren't cheering you on and sometimes aren't even trying to hide it.


This episode aligns with day 57 of our Spring 2026 weight loss program. You can find the full video hosted at: www.facebook.com/groups/livymethodspring2026


To learn more about The Livy Method, visit livymethod.com.

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