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E83 - Mel Robbins: Can you really high 5 your way to happiness?

Our special guest this week is Mel Robbins. A best-selling author, tv host and motivational speaker. Mel’s books' include global phenomenon ‘The 5 Second Rule’ and her latest is called ‘The High 5 Habit’; a simple, proven tool you can use to take control of your life.

Mel is one of the most widely booked and followed public speakers in the world. Her social media platforms inspire more than 60 million people every month and her TEDx Talk is one of the most popular of all time, with more than 25 million views.

Mel’s latest book ‘The High Five Habit’ is available now!

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