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4 Questions You Need To Ask Yourself
The questions we ask ourselves can shape the direction of our lives. In this episode, Jake and Damian reflect on four powerful questions that can help guide you toward a more purposeful and connected life, featuring insights from guests like Dr. Pippa Grange, Aitch, Shaun Wane, and Dr. Rangan Chatterjee.
They dive into the importance of coherence and meaning, exploring how understanding your story and the impact of your actions can help you find clarity. They also discuss the need for direction and belonging, with inspiring stories that highlight how resilience and connection shape who we are.
Listen as Jake and Damian break down these life-changing questions, showing how small shifts in mindset and deeper connections can lead to a more fulfilled and high performing life.
Listen to the episodes mentioned:
Dr. Pippa Grange: https://pod.fo/e/10bc10
Aitch: https://pod.fo/e/27ae56
Shaun Wane: https://pod.fo/e/259c4
Dr. Rangan Chatterjee: https://pod.fo/e/29cbd7
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24:24|If you could choose just one conversation for your kids to listen to, what wisdom would you want them to take away? In this powerful episode, Jake and Damian explore the timeless lessons that go beyond sport, success, or achievement, lessons designed to shape character, purpose, and resilience for the next generation.From Sam Tomkinsâ belief in the power of â1% actions,â to Hector Garciaâs introduction of Ikigai and living with purpose, and Robin Van Persieâs story about responsibility and ownership, the conversation uncovers practical guidance for building character, not just success.Listen in as Jake and Damian reflect on why psychological safety and unconditional support matter most, creating environments where young people feel safe to fail, grow, and thrive.Listen to the episodes mentioned:Sam Tomkins: https://pod.fo/e/14cdefHector Garcia: https://pod.fo/e/172552Robin Van Persie: https://pod.fo/e/18789Mel Robbins: https://pod.fo/e/ed46fVicky Pattison: https://pod.fo/e/105426Lewis Morgan: https://pod.fo/e/11b36eJonathan Haidt: https://pod.fo/e/2a4563Heights đ Get 20% off your subscription by using Code: HP20 here: https://highpfrmc.com/heights20Why Building Trust Beats Being Liked, with Martin Lewis
23:43|Trust is one of those things we all rely on, yet rarely stop to examine. We know when itâs there, we know when itâs broken, but how is it built, and how do you keep it when the pressure is at its highest?Martin Lewis has become one of the most trusted figures in Britain, not by being popular, but by being useful. Heâs challenged politicians in Downing Street, taken on corporations, and given millions of people advice when they needed it most. His influence doesnât come from clever slogans or branding, but from a habit that runs through everything he does: consistency, honesty, and care.In this episode, I share the lessons Iâve taken from Martinâs approach to trust. Together, we explore:Why trust isnât built through image, but through actionThe Trust Triangle: authenticity, logic, and empathyWhy empathy is the quality that makes people not just listen, but believeHow trust grows from small choices repeated consistentlyWhat leaders, teams, and families can learn from Martinâs approachWhether youâre leading a team, guiding a business, or simply trying to strengthen relationships in your own life, this is a powerful reminder that trust isnât a strategy.Here is more information on the studies referenced: 26th Annual Global CEO Survey (PWC Study, 2023) The Best Place To Work (Book, Dr. Ron Friedman, Ph.D, 2014) The Trust Triangle: Authenticity, Logic, Empathy (Professor Frances Frei, Harvard Business School)Listen to the full episode with Martin Lewis: https://pod.fo/e/22a519368. Craig Bellamy: Why I Had to Hide Behind a Persona & How I Lead Wales With Honesty (E368)
01:22:48||Ep. 368Former Premier League star and manager of the Welsh national team Craig Bellamy is known for his fiery temper and relentless energy on the pitch. Once defined by chaos and controversy, heâs stepped into one of the most important roles in his countryâs football history, carrying both pride and pressure as he leads Wales into a new era.In this episode, Bellamy pulls back the curtain on his journey from volatile forward to thoughtful coach. He opens up about the infamous incidents that once dominated headlines, the mental health battles he faced after losing Gary Speed, and the therapy that gave him tools to keep moving forward. Bellamy also speaks about the transformation that came with coaching, how working alongside Vincent Kompany taught him patience, balance, and the importance of boundaries. This episode offers a story of resilience and redemption, showing how one of footballâs most misunderstood figures is finding peace, purpose, and a second chance at defining his legacy.đ¨ PartnersHeights đ Get 20% off your subscription by using Code: HP20 here: https://highpfrmc.com/heights1Tide đ Free ÂŁ50? Just spend ÂŁ100 on your Tide card to get it when you use code HP50: https://highpfrmc.com/tidehp50HP Foundation đDo you want to kick-start an evolution that will change the lives of millions of children? Find out more about the High Performance Foundation: https://hppod.co/foundationHP Corporate Events đClick here to book High Performance Events: https://hppod.co/corporate-eventsExplore offers and discounts through our other partners:https://hppod.co/partnersThe Subtle Art Author, Mark Manson: How To Rebuild After Burnout
30:48|In this episode, weâre joined by Mark Manson, bestselling author of The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F***. We start at the exact moment his book became a global bestseller.â¨Mark says that when it blew up he was the most depressed heâd been since his teens and explains why success did not fix him.Mark unpacks the hedonic treadmill and the cost of constant chasing and how your identity can get tangled with performance, sharing raw stories of burnout, grief, and the hard choices that forced him to stop âperformingâ.He offers simple practices he used to rebuild direction and meaning. Listen as Mark walks you through the fallout, the recovery, and the small actions that changed everything. Youâll hear questions to test your own relationship with success.Heights đ Get 20% off your subscription by using Code: HP20 here: https://highpfrmc.com/heights20Toto Wolff's No-Nonsense Habit That Built Mercedesâ F1 Dynasty
25:44|In high-performance sport, pressure is constant. In Formula 1, itâs relentless.Toto Wolff, Team Principal and CEO of the Mercedes-AMG Petronas Formula One Team, has led his team to record-breaking success. But what stands out most isnât the trophies, itâs the clarity that drives him.In this episode, I share the lesson Iâve taken from Totoâs approach to leadership: walk in line with your why. When the world moves fast, when the noise is deafening, itâs easy to be pulled in every direction. Toto shows that knowing your purpose, and staying true to it, is what keeps you steady.We explore:How to lead with purpose under extreme pressureThe role of reflection in high-performance decision makingWhy your values matter more than your circumstancesThe mindset that keeps champions groundedWhether youâre leading a team, building a business, or simply trying to stay focused in a chaotic world, this is a powerful reminder that the pace doesnât matter if you know exactly where youâre going.Here is more information on the studies referenced: A large-scale experiment on New Yearâs resolutions: Approach-oriented goals are more successful than avoidance-oriented goals (Martin Ocarsson et al, 2020)IntentionâBehavior Relations: A Conceptual and Empirical Review of Past Research (Paschal Sheeran 2002)Emotional Agility: Get Unstuck, Embrace Change, and Thrive in Work and Life (Dr. Susan David 2016)Implementation Intentions: Strong Effects of Simple Plans (Peter M. Gollwitzer 1999)Listen to the full episode with Toto Wolff: https://pod.fo/e/28074d367. Max Verstappenâs Trainer Uncovers What Makes Him Unstoppable | Bradley Scanes (E367)
01:15:44||Ep. 367Bradley Scanes isnât just a fitness coach, heâs the guy who makes sure Max Verstappen steps into every race weekend as the most prepared driver on the grid, physically and mentally. As Maxâs performance coach, heâs been in the trenches for every lap, every mind game, and every championship push.In this episode, Bradley lifts the lid on what makes Max almost impossible to beat. From the instant âswitchâ focus that kicks in the second he hits engineering briefings, to the freakish sensitivity that lets him feel the tiniest change in a car setup, Bradley paints a picture of a driver who operates on another level.We also dive into the behind-the-scenes strategies that shape a world champion, from building his own virtual track to train before Red Bull even had the simulation, to pulling off calculated mind games that rattled rivals without touching his on-track performance. This is an inside look at the obsession, discipline, and psychology that power one of the greatest F1 drivers of all time, straight from the man who helps keep him there.đ¨ PartnersHeights đ Get 20% off your subscription by using Code: HP20 here: https://highpfrmc.com/heights1Tide đ Free ÂŁ50? Just spend ÂŁ100 on your Tide card to get it when you use code HP50: https://highpfrmc.com/tidehp50FORA đ Claim a free day pass at any Fora workspace and find the perfect home for your business here: https://highpfrmc.com/fora-free-auHP Foundation đDo you want to kick-start an evolution that will change the lives of millions of children? Find out more about the High Performance Foundation: https://hppod.co/foundationHP Corporate Events đClick here to book High Performance Events: https://hppod.co/corporate-eventsExplore offers and discounts through our other partners:https://hppod.co/partnersEmily Maitlis: What Really Happened Before the Prince Andrew Interview
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