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S2E110 REAL Communication with Rachael Yeaman

Season 2, Ep. 110

Everyone has a unique communication style. In some interactions, you feel like you’re on the same page; in others, nothing clicks and you feel totally misunderstood. In this episode, REALStrengths expert Rachael Yeaman explores why so many people struggle to connect and reveals the secrets to high-level communication in business and in life.



·     How most people communicate.  

·     Why miscommunications can happen so easily.

·     How you can identify and use your natural communication style.





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“The only way to have deep connection is to actually show someone who you are, which means you need to open yourself up.” – Rachael Yeaman


“Our connection with others is only as strong and as deep as our connection with ourselves and the strengths that we have.” – Rachael Yeaman


“Be mindful that who you are is not how the entire world is programmed.” Rachael Yeaman


“Be aware that not everybody is wired the exact same way. Ask questions to determine how they’re wired, and then adjust your style accordingly.”  Rachael Yeaman


“Relationships are a two-way street. We don't need to have every problem solved in our heads before we open our mouth to actually speak. Allow it to be a reciprocal dynamic.” Rachael Yeaman

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