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Take a Bite Out of Life #140
Ep. 140
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“A bucket list can change your life if you embrace it.” — Brian Buffini
Many people mistakenly believe that a bucket list is something you only make if you receive a bad health diagnosis. If you embrace it, however, a bucket list can give you hope, show you purpose, and introduce joy back into your day. In this episode, Brian teaches how to write a life-changing bucket list. He describes how to categorize your dreams, why it’s vital to stimulate yourself visually, and how to create a bucket list that reflects what the good life looks like for you. He also gives away the best goal-setting resource he has ever built. By the end of the episode you’ll be on your way to taking a bite out of life with the bucket list of your dreams!
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Inspirational quotes from today’s interview:
“A bucket list can absolutely change your life if you embrace it.” — Brian Buffini
“A bucket list gives you a year-round sense of anticipation. It will bring a joyful, youthful enthusiasm back into your life and it’s extraordinarily stimulating for the mind and heart.” — Brian Buffini
“Dreams energize your mind and empower you to believe.” — Brian Buffini
“A picture is worth a thousand words.” — Brian Buffini
“A dream is not the thing you see in your sleep, it’s the thing that doesn’t let you sleep.” — A.P.J. Abdul Kalam
“Stop rationalizing, stop stewing, get out of your chair and start doing.” — Denis Waitley
“Take time out and remove the limits of where you currently are.” — Brian Buffini
“A dream requires you to step out and do things you’ve never done before. It’s aspirational by nature.” — Brian Buffini
“So many of our dreams at first seem impossible, then they seem improbable. Then, when we summon the will, they are inevitable.” — Christopher Reeve
“There are no limits. There are only plateaus, but you must not stay there, you must go beyond them.” — Bruce Lee
“There are no limitations to the mind except those we acknowledge.” — Napoleon Hill
“A goal is a dream with a deadline.” — Napoleon Hill
“We want to be dreamers who are doers.” — Brian Buffini
“The road to hell is paved with good intentions.” — Brian Buffini
“Don’t be afraid to give up the good to go after the great.” — JD Rockefeller
“You always want to make yourself uncomfortable, because that’s how you test how great you can be.” — Brian Buffini
“Hope is a good thing, maybe the best of things. And a good thing never dies.” — Andy Dufresne, The Shawshank Redemption
“Pursue your dream. This is the spice of life; when life takes a bite out of you, this gives you hope.” — Brian Buffini
“When there are hard times and challenges, take out your goals and pictures.” — Brian Buffini
“I hope every single one of you will start a bucket list, get the resource, and get in the game of it. It will change you.” — Brian Buffini
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