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I Can. I Will. I Believe. with Beverly Buffini #187
“We need to replace the ‘I can’t’ with an ‘I can’ so we can persevere in the moment.”– Beverly Buffini
Life has highs and lows, and it can be difficult to persevere when times are tough. In this episode, recorded live at a Buffini & Company event, Beverly Buffini teaches the three affirmations that model the winning attitude and spirit of the Buffini family. Featuring Beverly’s personal stories of overcoming adversity, by the end of this episode you’ll be fired up to never quit, no matter what!
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Inspirational quotes from today’s interview:
“One who gains strength by overcoming obstacles possesses the only strength which can overcome adversity.” – Albert Schweitzer
“When we say ‘I can’t,’ we’re actually giving up.” – Beverly Buffini
“We need to replace the ‘I can’t’ with an ‘I can’ so we can persevere in the moment.” – Beverly Buffini
“When we give up, we develop the quitting muscle.” – Beverly Buffini
“When you feel like quitting…change your course and change your thinking.” – Beverly Buffini
“Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” – Galatians 6:9
“Self-confidence is the most attractive quality a person can have. How can anyone see how great you are, if you can’t see it yourself?” –Anonymous
“When you give up, you shatter your self-confidence.” – Beverly Buffini
“When we give up, we live with regret.” – Beverly Buffini
“When we want to quit, we have to push a little bit further because we never know what’s right underneath our feet.” – Beverly Buffini
“Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.” – Thomas Edison
“Stop, but then start again.” – Beverly Buffini
“When we persevere, we build the achievement muscle.” – Beverly Buffini
“We’ve intentionally raised our children to have a winning attitude.” – Beverly Buffini
“When you achieve, it’s contagious and it affects other people.” – Beverly Buffini
“Nothing builds self-esteem and self-confidence like accomplishment.” – Thomas Carlyle
“When we persevere, we’re fitter for life.” – Beverly Buffini
“I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life, and that is why I succeed.” – Michael Jordan
“When we persevere, we become an unstoppable person.” – Beverly Buffini
“Don’t say I wish, say I will.” – Beverly Buffini
“If you want to achieve your goals, you’ve got to write those goals down.” – Beverly Buffini
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