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The Struggles of Being a Dadpreneur

Season 3, Ep. 61
What is a REBL Dad? What are the struggles of being a dadpreneur? 

These are the questions that took an idea and turned it into an epic experience on Necker Island. Being a dad can be really challenging. Being an entrepreneur can also be really hard. Trying to balance being the best you can be at both is a whole different type of challenge.  In this episode we dive into what the REBL Dads community is, how it came to be, and the deep and meaningful experience shared by a group of dadpreneurs on Necker Island. There’s so much here, time to dive in!


In this episode Adam and Derek chat about:

  • What is a REBL Dad?
  • How to balance being a great dad and entrepreneur
  • The Epidemic of fatherhood - given the remote nature of work from anywhere, people who want to be better leaders at home and work.
  • Amazing takeaways and insights from a group of REBL Dads
  • Insights from OG REBL Dad Sir Richard Branson
  • And lots more!



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