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Abundance, Prosperity & Tapping Into The Body-Mind Connection GUEST: Jolen Philbrook

Ep. 50

EMOTIONAL SAVVY: The Relationship Help Show

with Rhoberta Shaler, PhD, The Relationship Help Doctor


Abundance, Prosperity & Tapping Into The Body-Mind Connection


GUEST: Jolen Philbrook, Abundant Mindset Expert


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DR. RHOBERTA SHALER: Prosperity Starts Between Your Ears


Sometimes, people are surprised when I talk about prosperity and relationship in the same sentence or breath. They simply haven't connected the two. Today, I'm talking about where prosperity is actually created: between your ears. And, then, how that actually plays out in your daily life.


Prosperity is much more than money or success, right? So is abundance! I'm offering you some clear examples and strategies you can use immediately to create prosperity in your life, AND, in your relationships.


Do you know what you actually want? What would make you happy? Or, are you focused on what isn't working, and is making you miserable? These mindset shifts that help you create the prosperity you want are ones you can make immediately. Really!


You are powerful--no matter what some Hijackal has tried to tell you--and what you think most about is what you will create more of. That's why I wrote What You Pay Attention to Expands in 2002. It's still available on Amazon, too.


Gather these insights, and use these strategies. Use the one's from today's guest, Jolen Philbrook, to create powerful shifts in your body and in your life.


In today's episode, Dr. Shaler gives you clear reasons, encouragement, and practical strategies to create more of what you want in your life: prosperity on every level.



GUEST: Jolen Philbrook, Abundant Mindset Expert, author of From Tears to Triumph


Jolen Philbrook is known as the abundant mindset expert who intuitively clears prosperity blocks. Her specialty is shifting the inner game and releasing stuck negative emotions to attract more success, prosperity, and happiness in your life.


In 2008, Jolen survived a rare type of breast cancer, went through a custody suit with no income. Then, one year later, she survived kidney cancer. Now, she shares her wisdom so that you can find your inner strength, prosperity, and happiness to live your greatest life.


She is the author of 365 Days of Gratitude, Reflections, and From Tears to Triumph.


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:


  • Why it's important to know precisely what you want in your life
  • What to do when you recognize you are suffering from the resentment you're carrying
  • How an abundant mindset can help you deal with toxic people, #Hijackals
  • How Jolen dealt with someone who was always attacking her
  • The vital connections between what you are thinking and what you are creating in life
  • How Jolen successfully dealt with two bouts with cancer


This episode brings a new topic to Emotional Savvy, as well as a refreshing and different perspective on abundance, prosperity, and the links to health on every level.


The Relationship Help Show, a new voice, a new vision. Enjoy!



HER FREE GIFT:Are You Stressed About Money? GET IT HERE.


CONNECT WITH JOLEN PHILBROOK

Website: JolenPhilbrook.com

Twitter: @Julen_Philbrook

LinkedIn: Linkedin.com/in/jolen-philbrook-bb004b50

Facebook: Facebook.com/JolenPhilbrook


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER:

Website: ForRelationshipHelp.com

Facebook: RelationshipHelpDoctor

Twitter: Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LinkedIn: LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler


Free Passive-Aggressive Checklist

Free Relationship Checklist

Subscribe to Dr. Shaler's newsletter, Tips for Relationships


If you have not worked with Dr. Shaler before, you can have your first one-hour session for only $97.


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