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S3E12. Two key changes to shift from surviving to thriving
In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m diving into a personal journey of transformation—from being burnt out and operating constantly “in the red” to creating a life rooted in sustainable high performance. This solo episode reflects on two essential changes that helped me shift from running on empty to thriving in an energised, proactive, and intentional state.
With the year nearing its end, many people are struggling to reach the finish line, so I’m sharing this reflection to inspire a change for anyone feeling similarly. If you’re ready to move from reactive burnout to sustainable high performance, this episode is for you.
In this episode, I share:
- Personal reflections on years of burnout and unsustainable work habits
- The two key changes I made to shift to an energised, intentional lifestyle
- The importance of boundaries in professional and personal life
- How proactive recovery became a non-negotiable for sustainable energy
- Simple strategies to establish daily, weekly, and monthly recovery practices
- Tips for creating a wind-down routine to enhance sleep quality
- Insights on how high performers can balance drive with wellbeing
Key Quotes:
"I was talking the talk, but I was not walking the walk."
"This way of operating and just being so motivated... can come with a consequence."
"We shouldn’t be getting to the point that we run ourselves into the ground, that we feel that we're operating in the red for us to take action."
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13. S3E13. Mindset, Motivation, and Mental Skills: Dan Haesler’s formula for success
55:16||Season 3, Ep. 13In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m joined by Dan Haesler, a performance and leadership coach who works with elite athletes, corporate leaders, and educators to bridge the gap between wellbeing and high performance. We explore how self-awareness, emotional regulation, and consistency are the keys to thriving in high-pressure environments. Dan shares insights from his work with the 4x premiership winning Penrith Panthers, lessons on redefining leadership, and practical strategies anyone can use to elevate their performance.In this episode, Dan shares:- Why wellbeing and high performance are inseparable.- How emotional intelligence is a cornerstone of effective leadership.- Lessons from the Penrith Panthers on consistency and culture.- How to redefine success and bridge the performance gap.- His Four M’s framework- Practical steps for leaders to foster self-awareness and build trust.- How aligning with your values helps combat burnout and resentment.- Dan’s personal habits for staying at the top.Key Quotes:“Well-being and high performance are two sides of the same coin, but in a lot of places they’re seen as completely different currencies.”“You can’t lead others if you’re not able to lead yourself. How you show up, how you regulate your own life, is proportional to your ability to do that for everyone else.” More about Dan HaeslerWebsite: https://danhaesler.com/Dan Haesler’s Mental Skills Platform: https://playfearless.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/danhaeslerLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/danhaesler/Book a high-impact no commitment 60 minute strategy session with Jess (available for November)https://jessicaspendlove.as.me/strategy-session-one-hourBook an application call to discuss a coaching program if you’re an athlete, executive or leaderhttps://jessicaspendlove.as.me/PersonalCoachingApplicationCallTake the High-Performance Profile Quizhttps://jessicaspendlove.com/quiz/Everything about me can be found here: www.jessicaspendlove.com If you’re interested in having me as a speaker you can find out more here: https://jessicaspendlove.com/speaker-kit/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jess_spendlove_dietitian/?hl=enYou can find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-spendlove-64173bb8/Want to contact me directly? Email Jess@JessicaSpendlove.com11. S3E11. Building stress fitness with Paul Taylor
55:27||Season 3, Ep. 11In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m excited to chat with Paul Taylor— Neuroscientist, Exercise Physiologist and Nutritionist who is currently completing a PhD in Applied Psychology, developing Stress Fitness strategies with the Australian Armed Forces.Paul and I explore why controlled stress exposure (from exercise to cold and heat) builds real resilience. And no matter who you are, Paul’s got straightforward science-backed strategies to get you to the top, and help you stay there.In this episode, Paul shares:- How your daily habits build resilience- The unique stress benefits of cold and heat exposure and why combining them works.- His take on intermittent fasting, protein, and keeping muscle as we age.- Easy ways to add controlled stress for lasting resilience.- How reframing challenges as opportunities builds mental strength.- Why whole, minimally processed foods are key to health.- Simple tools to track cardio fitness and muscle for long-term health.Key Quotes:“If you want to be able to deal with stress, you need to train your ability to deal with stress.”“Real food doesn’t have ingredients; real food is ingredients.”More about Paul TaylorInstagram - @paultaylor.biz Facebook - www.facebook.com/paul.taylor.794/LinkedIn - www.linkedin.com/in/paultaylor1971Website - https://www.paultaylor.biz/ Showreel - https://vimeo.com/853546200 Podcast - Paul Taylor PodcastYou can purchase his book Death by Comfort here https://www.amazon.com/Death-Comfort-modern-killing-about/dp/1922611506Book a high-impact no commitment 60 minute strategy session (available for November)https://jessicaspendlove.as.me/strategy-session-one-hourBook an application call to discuss a coaching program if you’re an athlete, executive or leaderhttps://jessicaspendlove.as.me/PersonalCoachingApplicationCallTake the High-Performance Profile Quizhttps://jessicaspendlove.com/quiz/Everything about me can be found here: www.jessicaspendlove.com If you’re interested in having me as a speaker you can find out more here: https://jessicaspendlove.com/speaker-kit/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jess_spendlove_dietitian/?hl=enYou can find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-spendlove-64173bb8/Want to contact me directly? Email Jess@JessicaSpendlove.com10. S3E10. A high-performance tool for every area of life
35:31||Season 3, Ep. 10In this episode of Stay at the Top, I break down a powerful tool I’ve relied on for years: the Stop, Start, Keep Doing Framework. Whether you're refining personal habits, team goals, professional opportunities, or any other area of your life this framework provides a clear path to focus on what moves the needle and let go of what doesn’t. Today, I’ll share how I’m using it in both a personal and professional context in my own life and how you can apply it to achieve sustainable progress in any area of life.In this episode, I share:- How this framework can be used in any area of your personal and professional life and examples of how I have used it before- How to use the framework to gain clarity on what to keep, start, and stop doing in any life area.- How I’m using the framework for my business to prepare for my next chapter- Personal example of how I am using this framework for my health and fitness goals- How this tool benefits anyone looking to elevate how they operate by offering structured reflection for impactful changes.Key Quotes:“The really great thing about this framework is how universally it works.”“Stop doing what no longer serves you; keep doing what moves the needle; start doing what aligns with where you want to go.”“Taking a break isn’t about giving up—it’s about creating space for new insights and growth.”“What I do know is that this next chapter and having a baby is something which is only really a very small period of time in my life. And I don’t wanna look back and think that I didn’t take the time to be present.”Book a high-impact no commitment 60 minute strategy session (available for November)https://jessicaspendlove.as.me/strategy-session-one-hourBook an application call to discuss a coaching program if you’re an athlete, executive or leaderhttps://jessicaspendlove.as.me/PersonalCoachingApplicationCallTake the High-Performance Profile Quizhttps://jessicaspendlove.com/quiz/Everything about me can be found here: www.jessicaspendlove.com If you’re interested in having me as a speaker you can find out more here: https://jessicaspendlove.com/speaker-kit/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jess_spendlove_dietitian/?hl=enYou can find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-spendlove-64173bb8/Want to contact me directly?Email Jess@JessicaSpendlove.com9. S3E09. Mastering recovery: Building resilience for high performance with Dr. Kellie Rose
41:41||Season 3, Ep. 9In this episode of Stay at the Top, I’m joined by Dr. Kellie Rose, a performance scientist and Executive Women’s Health Coach with a unique background in both elite sport and the corporate world. Dr. Kellie shares her insights on the critical role of recovery in achieving sustainable high performance.From her journey transitioning out of high-performance sport to helping executives navigate stress and burnout, we explore the essential strategies needed to optimise recovery and performance.In this episode, Dr. Kellie shares:- Why it’s essential for managing stress and sustaining high performance.- How to build a solid health foundation before aiming for optimisation and peak performance.- Practical tips on improving sleep quality and consistency as the key to recovery.- Data-driven performance: Using wearables to track stress, recovery, and make informed adjustments.- Tailored strategies for women: Why customised approaches are crucial for women’s health and performance.More about Dr KelliWebsite: https://www.drkellyrose.comLinkedIn & Instagram: @DrKellyRoseBook a discovery call with mehttps://jessicaspendlove.as.me/PersonalCoachingApplicationCallTake the High-Performance Profile Quizhttps://jessicaspendlove.com/quiz/Everything about me can be found here: www.jessicaspendlove.com If you’re interested in having me as a speaker you can find out more here: https://jessicaspendlove.com/speaker-kit/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jess_spendlove_dietitian/?hl=enYou can find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-spendlove-64173bb8/Want to contact me directly? Email Jess@JessicaSpendlove.com8. S3E08. The cost of inaction: Why waiting is holding you back
20:14||Season 3, Ep. 8In this episode of Stay at the Top, I dive into a topic that has been weighing on my mind for weeks: the cost of inaction. As we approach the end of the year, many of us are delaying key decisions—whether it's about our health, careers, or finances—waiting for that elusive “perfect time.” But here's the truth: waiting only pushes the inevitable and ultimately costs you more in the long run.I explore how hesitation in three key areas—health and wellbeing, professional development, and financial planning—can have significant consequences. Through personal insights and real-life examples, I highlight the hidden costs of not taking action and why now, not January 2025, is the time to move forward.In this episode, we cover:- The danger of delaying action on your health, and how it can lead to burnout, illness, and injury.- How inaction in your career can result in stagnation and missed opportunities.- Why procrastinating on financial planning can prevent you from building long-term security.- The impact of inaction on executives, leaders, and elite athletes—and how it can ripple into every area of life.Key Quotes:"If you’re an athlete and you are not maximising every area of your performance and your recovery... you will never reach your full potential because you’ll be leaving critical aspects unchecked or not optimised.""The cost of inaction for these people can look like burnout, breakdown, heightened stress, unwanted weight gain, and ultimately an increased risk of chronic disease."Book a discovery call with mehttps://jessicaspendlove.as.me/PersonalCoachingApplicationCallTake the High-Performance Profile Quizhttps://jessicaspendlove.com/quiz/Everything about me can be found here: www.jessicaspendlove.com If you’re interested in having me as a speaker you can find out more here: https://jessicaspendlove.com/speaker-kit/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jess_spendlove_dietitian/?hl=enYou can find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-spendlove-64173bb8/Want to contact me directly? Email Jess@JessicaSpendlove.com7. S3E07. Why a proactive approach is non-negotiable for long-term health with Georgina Claxton
34:57||Season 3, Ep. 7In this episode, I sit down with Georgina Claxton, a leading physiotherapist and strength coach, to talk about shifting from a reactive to a proactive approach to health. Whether you’re dealing with chronic pain, want to prevent future injuries, or simply aim to optimise your wellbeing, this episode offers practical insights on how to build a strong foundation for your health that will last.We discuss how movement, strength training, breathing, and other lifestyle factors can not only help you feel better now but set you up for long-term success. This conversation is all about taking action today to stay at the top in the future.In this episode, we cover:- Why it’s crucial to shift from reactive to proactive health.- The holistic nature of health—physical, mental, and social wellbeing. - The importance of regular movement and exercise for overall health. - Key categories of exercise: strength, conditioning, and mobility. - Overcoming resistance to strength training, especially for women. - How to find a proactive and preventative healthcare practitioner. - Common movement patterns that contribute to pain and how to fix them.- Improving posture and breathing to prevent pain. Key Quotes“Movement is definitely medicine. Every time we’re moving, it’s like we’re getting WD-40 for our joints, we’re oiling them up. So if you’re not moving, you’re definitely at risk of getting injured.”“If we’re not strength training, we’re not being proactive about our health. So all we’re going to do is get an injury, go to the physio, think a massage is going to help, and then we go back to square one.”More Information about Georgina ClaxtonYou can check out her website: https://www.georginaclaxtonphysiotherapy.com.auHigh-Performance Profile Quizhttps://jessicaspendlove.com/quiz/ More about the podcast and meEverything about me can be found here: www.jessicaspendlove.com If you’re interested in having me as a speaker you can find out more here: https://jessicaspendlove.com/speaker-kit/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jess_spendlove_dietitian/?hl=enYou can find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-spendlove-64173bb8/See my range of current services here https://jessicaspendlove.com/services-guide/ Transformations - real-life success stories that you could have as well https://jessicaspendlove.com/testimonials/If you want to contact me directly, send me an email here: admin@jessicaspendlove.com6. S3E06. 7 common energy drainers that could be holding you back (and how to fix them!)
32:24||Season 3, Ep. 6As we get deeper into the year, many of you might be feeling your energy levels drop, but this episode is all about identifying those common energy drainers and what you can do to fix them. Whether you’re someone who’s low on energy and struggling to get through the day, or you already feel pretty good but want to take it up a level, this episode is for you.In this episode, I share:- Why energy is the most important metric for success in every area of your life- 7 common energy drainers that might be sabotaging your energy and performance- Quick, actionable solutions to boost your energy and improve how you feel day-to-dayKey Quotes"Energy is one of, if not the most important metric. It is the currency for what drives every single one of us to get up and achieve the things we want to do each and every single day.""More energy really means we've got more capacity to engage in activities that bring joy and fulfilment to our lives.""Skipping breakfast or having an inadequate breakfast is a common energy drainer... while a lot of people will report, in the morning I feel great, my focus is excellent, there will be a consequence of that."High-Performance Profile Quizhttps://jessicaspendlove.com/quiz/ More about the podcast and meEverything about me can be found here: www.jessicaspendlove.com If you’re interested in having me as a speaker you can find out more here: https://jessicaspendlove.com/speaker-kit/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jess_spendlove_dietitian/?hl=enYou can find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-spendlove-64173bb8/See my range of current services here https://jessicaspendlove.com/services-guide/ Transformations - real-life success stories that you could have as well https://jessicaspendlove.com/testimonials/If you want to contact me directly, send me an email here: admin@jessicaspendlove.com5. S3E05. 4 habits of elite athletes every high performer should leverage
36:19||Season 3, Ep. 5In today’s episode of Stay at the Top, I’m diving into four habits and strategies that elite athletes use to reach and sustain peak performance throughout the year. These aren't exclusive to professional athletes—any high-performing individual can leverage them to elevate their game, avoid burnout, and maintain long-term success.You'll gain actionable habits that you can start applying to your routine right away. These small changes, when practised consistently, compound over time to create sustainable success in both your work and personal life.- Tracking progress and making adjustments to stay at your peak, with tips on monitoring your own performance and wellbeing to improve or identify any issues.- Making recovery a non-negotiable and why it's not just about resting, but actively enhancing your performance by building recovery into your schedule.- Developing a mindset of consistency that helps elite athletes stay focused under pressure, and how you can apply this mental toughness to your own life.- Utilising evidence based supplements and a food first approach to optimise performance, as well as wellbeing and longevityKey Quotes“The reality is that elite athletes push their bodies to the extreme. And the reason they do that is to improve and optimise their performance. But in doing so, they walk a very fine line.”"The practices and strategies that elite athletes optimise can be transferred or leveraged for any other high-performing human." High-Performance Profile Quizhttps://jessicaspendlove.com/quiz/ More about the podcast and meEverything about me can be found here: www.jessicaspendlove.com If you’re interested in having me as a speaker you can find out more here: https://jessicaspendlove.com/speaker-kit/ Follow me on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jess_spendlove_dietitian/?hl=enYou can find me on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessica-spendlove-64173bb8/See my range of current services here https://jessicaspendlove.com/services-guide/ Transformations - real-life success stories that you could have as well https://jessicaspendlove.com/testimonials/If you want to contact me directly, send me an email here: admin@jessicaspendlove.com