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645 saying no: a guide for people pleasers

Season 6
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In today's episode, Shell chats with Shane Hatton, a leadership expert, author and frequent guest on the pod! Shell and Shane discuss the reasons behind people-pleasing tendencies and how to establish healthy working relationship boundaries through the power of saying "no". They touch on:



๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿฟ using "no" as a way to prioritise your values

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿป people-pleasing vs setting boundaries

๐Ÿ‘‰ communicating your priorities and managing team expectations

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿผ how your yes vs no impacts your career success

๐Ÿ‘‰๐Ÿฝ impact of over-commitment on mental well-being



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