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Food, routine and tailored care: how Admiral Nurses can provide culturally appropriate dementia support
Season 3, Ep. 8
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After listening to Elene's dementia story, Hilda and Safia share practical advice from their perspectives as dementia specialist Admiral Nurses.
In this episode, Hilda and Safia discuss:
- how cultural beliefs can affect how someone responds to a dementia diagnosis
- the guilt family members may experience when there are problems with their loved one’s care
- more about Safia’s role as an Admiral Nurse for Black, African and Caribbean communities
If you haven't heard Elene’s story yet, we recommend giving it a listen first. You'll find her episode right next to this one in your podcast feed.
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