Save Your Sanity - Help for Toxic Relationships
Caught in the Hijackal® Trap? Narcissistic Victim Syndrome
The #Hijackal Trap usually closes slowly. At first, everything seems rosy, wonderful, and just what you've always longer for.
Then, it starts to close. Narcissistic behavior is crafty!
You want to believe what you fell in love with was true, so you rationalize, justify, and excuse red flag behaviors.
Did you do that? Are you doing that? That will keep you trapped!
In this episode, I walk you through more than eight clear signs and symptoms that you are caught in the #Hijackal Trap, and hopefully, you'll see them clearly. Once you see them, you can make better decisions for yourself...and, for your children. Until you see them, you may think everything is your fault. At least, that's what the Hijackal has been telling you, right?
When someone tells you something negative about the person who has caused you to listen to this, do you instantly jump to their defense? Or, do you make it all your fault? These are signs you are in the #HijackalTrap
Good news. You can get out of the Hijackal Trap. Read my downloadable ebook, Escaping the Hijackal Trap. You can recover from any symptoms of Narcissistic Victim Syndrome. It will take awhile, but you'll recover to live and love and trust again. If you're ready to do that now, let's talk: BeAClient.com
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HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:
- How does it feel to be caught in the #Hijackal® Trap?
- What are the behaviors that #Hijackals use to trap you?
- Why it's not your fault, no matter what a Hijackal tells you.
- Are you caught up in defending your abuser?
- What about the #gaslighting ?
- How wanting to be a good person can trip you up in the Hijackal Trap.
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Listen to today's episode, and, if by chance, you're still wondering if you have had a #Hijackal in your life, grab my
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If you need help with any part of the journey with--and from--a #Hijackal, I'm here for you. Let's talk soon. I make it easy and accessible for you to have your first one-hour session with me for only $97.
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Rhoberta Shaler, PhD,
The Relationship Help Doctor
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