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How Emotional Abuse Creates Fear of Rejection

Ep. 262

Find yourself afraid you're not good enough? You won't be hired? You won't be wanted? Loved? Accepted? Fear of rejection may be the culprit underlying those thoughts. SO IMPORTANT to recognize so you can overcome the fears that may be holding you back from healthier relationships with yourself and others...including the NASTY Hijackals!


Recognize the limitations that the fear of rejection creates in your life, so you can reject it! No need to allow that fear to rule. See it. Reject it. Change it!


HIGHLIGHTS OF THIS EPISODE:

  • Dr. Shaler's definition of emotional abuse
  • How you feel when you fear rejection
  • How fear of rejection limits your life & relationships
  • How Hijackal (narcissistic) parents control you with this fear


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Rhoberta

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