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Being Successful In Spite Of A Toxic Father GUEST: Corey Poirier

Ep. 171

Succeeding in spite of having toxic parents and a difficult past! We talk about that journey, and what succeeding really means. It's not about money only, but SO much more.


A shaky emotional start in life doesn't define you. Don't let it!


Corey Poirier, author of Book Of WHY, shares his path from life with an absent, though toxic, father to becoming the founder of bLU Talks, and being featured on the foremost radio and television shows, as well as being a columnist for top business magazines like Entrepreneur and Forbes.


Sure, his thing is business and he shows you his path to success. No, that may not be yours, but the underlying thoughts, shifts, changes, and beliefs that he found instrumental to living his best life is what he shares today. Inspiring! As Corey says,


"People often remember to feed their bodies, but often forget to feed their minds. Each is equally important."


Lean in and learn more to inspire and motivate you to make shifts that will lead you to the life you want.


Big hugs,

Rhoberta


HIGHLIGHTS OF TODAY'S EPISODE:

  • How toxic relationships diminish you
  • How toxicity depletes you of your vision, purpose, and motivation
  • How Corey Poirier's toxic relationship with his father impacted him in life and business
  • Why it's so important to know your "why"
  • Empowering yourself to live your "why" and release yourself
  • How Corey stays strong and focused


GUEST: COREY POIRIER


Corey Poirier is a multiple-time TEDx, MoMondays and PMx, Speaker. He is also the host of the top rated ‘Let's Do Influencing’ Show, founder of The Speaking Program, founder of bLU Talks, and he has been featured in multiple television specials. A columnist with Entrepreneur and Forbes magazine, he has featured in/on CBS, CTV, NBC, ABC, is a Forbes Coaches Council member, and is one of the few leaders featured twice on the popular Entrepreneur on Fire show. He has also interviewed over 6,000 of the world’s top leaders.


GIFT FOR YOU: Wow! Corey's offering you his downloadable book, "The Book of Public Speaking," here

https://www.thebookofpublicspeaking.com


CONNECT WITH COREY POIRIER :

WEBSITE: https://thatspeakerguy.com

PODCAST: Let's Do Influencing https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/lets-do-influencing/id948005962

FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/coreypoirierpage/

YOUTUBE:  https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCpafeqFkcl8fyIYmcoUBuNA?view_as=subscriber

INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/thatspeakerguy/

LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/speakercoreypoirier/

TWITTER: https://twitter.com/thatspeakerguy

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Want clarity, insights, strategies, and support from me, Dr. Rhoberta Shaler? We can talk: Introductory session for new clients, $97


CONNECT WITH DR. RHOBERTA SHALER! I invite you to like my pages and follow for further help with recognizing toxic relationships, realizing their impact, realigning your life, and recovering your self-confidence and ability to love and trust again.


FOLLOW DR. SHALER...

WEBSITE: https://www.ForRelationshipHelp.com

PODCAST: http://www.SaveYourSanityPodcast.com

FACEBOOK: https://www.Facebook.com/RelationshipHelpDoctor

TWITTER: https://www.Twitter.com/RhobertaShaler

LINKEDIN: https://www.LinkedIn.com/in/RhobertaShaler

INSTAGRAM: https://www.Instagram.com/DrRhobertaShaler

PINTEREST: https://www.Pinterest.com/RhobertaShaler


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