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Grownup Hustle
Divorced, Dating & Emigrating before 30 -Pt.2
https://www.grownuphustle.com/
Dropping Part 2 early after multiple requests!
In Part 2 of Divorced, Dating & Emigrating, we go deeper into the conversation of gaslighting and narcissism, and the long-term detrimental effects that being in a toxic relationship can have on your mental health.
Lou shares with us, the impact that her marriage had on her life and mindset moving forward and the PTSD that resulted from it all.
Lou also shares with us, the path to rediscovering her self after she finally managed to take the brave step and escape her failing marriage; before embarking upon the life-changing decision to emigrate to Canada, and all that followed as Lou began navigating the highs and lows of the dating scene, and ditching the ridiculous societal construct of life having a set "timeline."
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