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  • 115. 115: The A+ Kid Who Says He’s Being Bullied… Then Takes It Back. What’s Really Going On?

    15:02||Season 3, Ep. 115
    Ever had your child tell you something worrying, only for them to suddenly deny it? Ā Or stress endlessly about tests and friendships but won’t let you help? 🄓In this special 2 year anniversary episode, I’m diving into one of the most emotionally complex listener questions I’ve received so far. A mum reached out about her sensitive, bright 8-year-old who’s struggling with intense test stress, perfectionism, big mood swings at home, and confusing stories about bullying that seem to shift.This episode is one of my deepest, most layered breakdowns yet. I unpack what’s really going on beneath these behaviours, why kids often hold it together at school but unravel at home, how perfectionism and identity can get tangled, and why shame can lead children to retract stories that were emotionally true moments earlier.Even if your situation looks nothing like this one, I promise you’ll walk away with powerful insights you can apply to your own parenting. I share scripts, reframes, and emotionally intelligent strategies for supporting a dysregulated child, navigating school conversations gently and safely, and staying grounded yourself, esp when your own past experiences get triggered.It’s a heartfelt, practical, compassion-filled deep dive… and one I’m so excited to share with you.šŸ“² Prefer to watch this episode and full video on YT? Find it here!🩷 Hi! I’m an award-winning Emotional Intelligence parenting consultant, best-selling author and international speaker. I’m also a paediatric anxiety therapist and I love helping kids, parents and educators use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Ā Book a FREE 30 min consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.E: hello@stephaniepinto.comW: www.stephaniepinto.comFB: fb.com/stephpintoIG @emotionally.intelligent.parentĀ Have you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are 140,000+ parents in the community!šŸŽ‰ Join Let's Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids now.

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  • 114. 114: Top 10 Lessons That Changed How I Parent (and Teach Emotional Intelligence)

    24:27||Season 3, Ep. 114
    What if… the way you’ve been trying to ā€œstay calm!ā€ ā€œset boundaries!ā€ or ā€œteach emotional regulation!ā€ is actually the wrong way around?In this special 2-year anniversary episode of the Emotionally Intelligent Parenting Podcast — I’m sharing the 10 big lessons that completely changed the way I parent… and the way I think about parenting.These are the mindset-shifts that no one teaches us, but every emotionally intelligent parent needs to hear.I talk about:🩷 why you can’t teach calm from chaos🩷 why repair matters more than how the moment went🩷 how triggers are actually invitations🩷 and how to use emotional intelligence as strategic power in your home (not ā€œsoft, gentle, permissivenessā€ as so many people confuse it for)This episode is like 2 years of parenting interviews, neuroscience research, deep real-life conversations, and lived experience — distilled into 10 golden mindset resets you can start using today.Whether you’ve been here since day one, or you’re new to this community… this one will stretch you, inspire you, and make you look at parenting in a totally new way.Ok let’s kick off Year 3 with clarity, courage, and the confidence to raise a generation who will change the world... one emotionally intelligent conversation at a time! Woo!šŸ“² Prefer to watch this episode and full video on YT? Find it here!🩷 Hi! I’m an award-winning Emotional Intelligence parenting consultant, best-selling author and international speaker. I’m also a paediatric anxiety therapist and I love helping kids, parents and educators use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Ā Book a FREE 30 min consult with me to discuss coaching, support,collaborations or speaking engagements.E: hello@stephaniepinto.comW: www.stephaniepinto.comFB: fb.com/stephpintoIG @emotionally.intelligent.parentĀ Have you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are 140,000+ parents in the community!šŸŽ‰ Join Let's Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids now.
  • 113. 113: Repair Over Perfection: Raising Emotionally Resilient Toddlers with Devon from Transforming Toddlerhood.

    27:46||Season 3, Ep. 113
    What if the secret to raising confident, emotionally resilient toddlers isn’t about getting itĀ rightĀ all the time — but what we doĀ afterĀ things go wrong?In this heartwarming and honest conversation, I sit down withĀ Devon Kuntzman, founder ofĀ Transforming ToddlerhoodĀ and the original toddler parenting coach on Instagram, to talk about the power ofĀ repair over perfection.Together we explore:Why parents feel so much pressure to be perfect — and how the brain science shows that it’s theĀ repairĀ moments that truly matterHow rupture and repair wire your child’s brain for resilience and emotional intelligenceThe powerful role of repair in reducing shame (for both parentsĀ andĀ kids)Real-life examples of what repair sounds like after yelling, meltdowns, or power strugglesWhy giving ourselves permission to be human is the key to raising secure, strong kidsDevon also shares insights from her brand-new book,Ā Transforming Toddlerhood, which is packed with practical tools, encouragement, and a fresh, empowering perspective for parents in the thick of toddler life.If you’ve ever worried that you’re messing it up — this episode is your reminder that every moment of repair is a chance to reconnect and grow together.Ā ORDER TRANSFORMING TODDLERHOOD NOW! https://www.transformingtoddlerhood.com/book/Follow Devon on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/transformingtoddlerhood/Prefer to watch instead of listen? Find this episode and the full video on YT: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qoDg6uayhMY 🩷 Hi! I’m an award-winning Emotional Intelligence parenting consultant, best-selling author and international speaker. I’m also a paediatric anxiety therapist and I love helping kids, parents and educators use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a FREE 30 min consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.E: hello@stephaniepinto.comW: www.stephaniepinto.comFB: fb.com/stephpintoIG @emotionally.intelligent.parentHave you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are 140,000+ parents in the community! šŸŽ‰ Join Let's Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids now.
  • 112. 112: My Post on Kids' Anger Went Viral: I'm Burning These Myths to the Ground.

    23:37||Season 3, Ep. 112
    At the start of this year, I shared a post on Instagram about children and anger, and it went VIRAL. Hundreds of thousands of parents liked, shared, and commented, because it hit home in such a powerful way.Why? Because so many of us have been fed myths about what anger in kids means, and what we’re ā€œsupposedā€ to do about it.So today I broke it all down.šŸ‘‰ What an angry child doesn’t mean (hint: think entitlement, rudeness, or needing harsher punishments).šŸ‘‰ What anger really is a signal of... from overwhelm to dysregulation to sensory overload.šŸ‘‰ How you can respond with calm, confidence, and compassion (instead of conflict).If you’ve ever felt lost, frustrated, or unsure when your child lashes out, this is the episode that will shift everything. You’ll leave with a new perspective, and practical strategies to handle anger in a way that builds connection, not chaos.🩷 Hi! I’m an award-winning Emotional Intelligence parenting consultant, best-selling author and international speaker. I’m also a paediatric anxiety therapist and I love helping kids, parents and educators use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a FREE 30 min consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.E: hello@stephaniepinto.comW: www.stephaniepinto.comFB: fb.com/stephpintoIG @emotionally.intelligent.parentHave you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are 140,000+ parents in the community! šŸŽ‰ Join Let's Raise Emotionally Intelligent Kids now.
  • 111. 111: How To NOT Just Survive The Kid/Teen Years.

    26:59||Season 3, Ep. 111
    Raising kids and teens can be hard right... but you don’t have to do it alone. Self-care and prioritising our wellness is also hard... do you know why most of us actually don't do it? My guest does!Drum roll please... because today I sat down with the one and only Amy Nesbitt, host of the Whole Wellness Mamas annual summit, to talk about how to overcome the challenges of motherhood, the importance of self-care, and finding a community that truly ā€œgets it.ā€We discuss:The real struggles mums face and how to navigate them without losing yourselfPractical tips for managing stress, overwhelm, and the tricky child/teen yearsHow connection and support can make even the hardest parenting days feel lighterAmy’s personal experiences as a mum and the lessons she’s learned along the wayThis conversation is full of empathy, encouragement, and actionable insights... perfect for any mum who wants to feel seen, supported, and a little less alone.Grab your FREE PASS to her summit coming up next week here (click or copy/paste): https://www.wholewellnessmamas.com/summit?sa=sa00824047863b5bb9e3305d0ce57f8fef670d1005Hi! I’m an award-winning Emotional Intelligence parenting consultant, best-selling author and international speaker. I’m also a paediatric anxiety therapist and I love helping kids, parents and educators use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a FREE 30 min consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.W: www.stephaniepinto.comFB: fb.com/stephpintoIG @emotionally.intelligent.parentHave you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are 140,000+ parents in the community! šŸŽ‰
  • 110. 110: Breaking the Rules: Why Neurodivergent Kids Push Back with Christina Keeble

    41:26||Season 3, Ep. 110
    If you’ve ever felt like traditional parenting advice, or even the school system, just doesn’t FIT your child, especially if they’re neurodivergent, this episode is going to shift your perspective.I’m joined by the brilliant Christina Keeble—an AuDHD mother of two neurodivergent PDAers, and a Neurodiversity and Educational Consultant with over 23 years of experience. Christina has worked with schools, families, businesses, and government organisations to change the way we see and support neurodivergent kids.Together we dive into:✨ Why kids’ need for connection never fades (even if society acts like it should)✨ How school expectations often clash with children’s real needs✨ Why rewards and consequences often do more harm than good✨ How neurodivergent kids challenge social hierarchies—and why that’s actually a strengthStick around to the end, where Christina shares powerful insights for parents considering leaving the school system—you don’t want to miss it.This is one of those conversations that will leave you both challenged and encouraged. You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of how to nurture trust, connection, and resilience in your kids.šŸŽ CLAIM YOUR GIFT! Only for listeners, you can access my popular online course for parents of ADHD kiddos: From Blowups to Balance, instead of $97 just pay $17! Head to www.stephaniepinto.com/courses and use code ADHDPOD17Hi! I’m an award-winning Emotional Intelligence parenting consultant, best-selling author and international speaker. I’m also a paediatric anxiety therapist and I love helping kids, parents and educators use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a FREE 30 min consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.W: www.stephaniepinto.comFB: fb.com/stephpintoIG @emotionally.intelligent.parentHave you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are 140,000+ parents in the community! šŸŽ‰
  • 109. 109: Own Your Story: How to Finally Stop Repeating the Past, with Lael Stone

    33:50||Season 3, Ep. 109
    Ever wonder why, no matter how hard you try, you keep slipping back into the same old parenting reactions? The ones you swore you’d never repeat?You're in the right place. Today I spoke with Lael Stone, educator, TEDx speaker, parenting counsellor, and now author of the brand-new book Own Your Story. Lael told me how our childhood ā€œimprintsā€, the beliefs, feelings, and patterns you absorbed when we were little, are quietly steering our parenting today.She revealed: ✨ Why your biggest triggers hold the key to your growth ✨ How to break the cycles you inherited (without shame or guilt) ✨ The gentle art of ā€œreparentingā€ yourself so you can parent differently ✨ Why having kids brings your deepest wounds to the surface — and how to heal themThis is your chance to step out of the old loops and create a calmer, more connected home… starting from the inside out!!Grab a copy of Lael’s book Own Your Story, and let’s dive in!Find Lael's work at www.laelstone.com.au and her book is available at all stores and online now!🌟Follow me on Insta @emotionally.intelligent.parentHave you joined my Facebook Group for parents? There are 140,000+ parents in the community! šŸŽ‰JOIN US HERE!Hi! I’m an award-winning Emotional Intelligence parenting consultant, best-selling author and international speaker. I’m also a paediatric anxiety therapist and I love helping kids, parents and educators use emotional intelligence to become calmer, more connected and live happier lives!Book a FREE 30 min consult with me to discuss coaching, support, collaborations or speaking engagements.šŸ’” Head to www.stephaniepinto.comOr stalk me on the socials...Insta: https://www.instagram.com/emotionally.intelligent.parent/FB: fb.com/stephpinto