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A Death Doula's Journey to Spread 'Death Positivity'
Laura Lyster-Mensh, a death doula, has partnered with the Congressional Cemetery to provide death education and awareness work to the community. Her activities, which are hosted every Saturday morning, are designed to encourage positive thinking about death and help individuals plan for their end-of-life care. Laura's work includes events such as "Write Your Own Obituary" and a game called Death Deck, which initiates conversations about death and allows individuals to learn more about each other's wishes. Through her work, Laura hopes to change the way society views death and help individuals live their lives to the fullest until the end.
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Write Your Way: The Truth About Self-Publishing55:15Are you an aspiring author teetering on the edge of writing your first book? Or perhaps you've penned down your masterpiece but are grappling with the next big question: to self-publish or to seek a traditional publisher? Dive into our latest podcast episode where I'm joined by the insightful Polly Letofsky. Together, we unravel the intricate tapestry of the publishing world, shedding light on buzzwords like "kdp", "Ingram Sparks", and "self-publishing". If these terms have been floating around in your writer's universe, then this episode is tailor-made for you!Polly and I delve deep into the nuances of publishing, leaving no stone unturned. We discuss the strategic aspects of marketing, the power and reach of social media, and the significance of owning your own ISBN. But that's not all! We also touch upon the art and science of crafting the perfect cover artwork, a crucial element that can make or break a book's success. With Polly's expertise and my curiosity, we aim to provide you with a holistic understanding of the publishing landscape.Whether you're a newbie writer or a seasoned author, our candid conversation offers valuable insights that can guide your publishing decisions. We weigh the pros and cons of self-publishing versus traditional publishing, helping you make an informed choice that aligns with your vision and goals. Our discussion is not just about the 'how-tos'; it's about empowering you to take control of your author journey, ensuring that your voice finds its rightful audience.For those who prefer a visual experience, we've got you covered! Check out the video from our engaging discussion on YouTube, linked below. Whether you're tuning in during your morning commute or cozying up with a cup of tea, our podcast promises to enlighten, inspire, and equip you for your publishing adventure. Dive in and let the journey begin!#publishing #selfpublishing #traditionalpublishing #PollyLetofsky #KDP #IngramSparks #ISBN #coverartwork #marketing #socialmedia #authorguide #booklaunch #manuscript #tips #secrets #expertadvice #howtoguide #authorjourney #booksuccess #writingadvice
Women vs men dating over 5053:35In our first dualing episode of The HIP Senior Podcast, we are joined by previous guests, Debbie Weiss and Turner Grant as we discuss opposing views of Women Vs. Men when it comes to dating, dating apps, and attitudes of each. Debbie Weiss is the author of 'Available As Is' and Turner Grant is the author of 'To Venus and Back' where they both discuss losing the loves of their lives, their spouses. In the episode, Debbie and Turner each share their own perspective about modern day dating and how each sex handles it just a little bit different.Please join us as it was a great conversation!Also, this video is available below on our Youtube channel as well.
Dating in the Second Half of Life56:22In a heart-to-heart chat, our host Marianne Bailey and her guest, the ever-inspiring Debbie Weiss, author of "Available As Is: A Midlife Widow’s Search for Love" take us on a journey through the world of dating after 50, all from a woman's viewpoint. They open up about the rollercoaster of emotions and experiences that come with stepping back into the dating game, especially after a significant loss. For Debbie, this new chapter began after the devastating loss of her dear George to cancer.They go on to share that grief isn't always tied to the loss of a loved one through death. Sometimes, it's the end of a relationship, like a divorce, that can leave a deep emotional scar. The aftermath of such life-changing events can be just as heart-wrenching, and the thought of dating again can seem like a mountain to climb.Navigating the maze of dating apps is another topic they delve into. They laugh about the challenges of trying to decode the true meaning behind people's words on these platforms. The world of online dating can often feel like trying to solve a puzzle with missing pieces, making the quest for a compatible partner all the more adventurous.Wrapping up their enlightening conversation, they discuss alternatives to the traditional dating apps. They highlight platforms like meetup.com, where you can dive into activities you love while also meeting people who share your interests. They cheerfully remind us of the importance of staying active and following our passions, as it could lead us to stumble upon a partner who truly understands and appreciates us.Debbie's book "Available As Is: A Midlife Widow's Search for Love" can be found here: https://books.thehipsenior.com/item/available-as-is
Swiping Right on Love After 5051:04Welcome back to another episode of The HIP Senior Podcast, where we dive into the deep end of life after 50, with a rubber duckie of humor for good measure. Our host, Marianne Bailey, is joined by Turner Grant, author of "To Venus and Back, One Man's Quest to Rediscover Love." If that title doesn't scream 'romantic escapade', we don't know what does. Turner's here to share his experiences with the wild world of online dating, a topic that Marianne, as a newly single woman, is keen to explore.Turner's journey into the realm of online dating was less of a gentle nudge and more of a full-on cannonball dive. After two years of grieving the loss of his wife and focusing on his family, he was 'encouraged' (or, more accurately, catapulted) into the digital dating scene by his mother-in-law and a persuasive neighbor. The promise of online dating, with its easy access to potential partners, seemed enticing. However, Turner soon discovered that swiping for love was more like trying to find a needle in a haystack... a haystack full of left swipes.Marianne and Turner also discussed the various dating apps available, with a particular focus on the ones that offer free services. Marianne, with her dreams of a romantic grocery store encounter thwarted by home delivery, is considering giving online dating a shot. However, she's quickly learning that while setting up a profile might be easy, finding a genuine connection is a whole different ball game.The conversation took a turn towards the effectiveness of different dating apps for the 50 and above demographic. Bumble and Match, once the reigning champions, seem to have lost their luster. But fear not, because Tinder, the rebel of the dating app world, might just be the place for those of us with a few more miles on the clock. So, buckle up, because as Turner's story shows, the road to love might be a wild ride, but it's one heck of a story to tell!In the end, Marianne and Turner's humorous discussion about online dating and apps serves as a reminder that finding love, especially in the digital age, can be an adventure. Whether you're swiping left so much your thumb cramps, or you're surprised to find that Tinder might be the place for those 50 and above, the journey to love is always worth it. So, keep swiping, keep laughing, and remember, it's never too late to find love.
Revolutionizing Senior Care with Smart Technology43:39Welcome to another episode of The HIP Senior Podcast with your host, Marianne Bailey. Today, we have a special guest joining us - Ryan Herd. Ryan is not just the founder and CEO of his own business, but he's also an author and a speaker for Ted Talks. We're thrilled to have him on the show today to discuss the intersection of technology and senior care.Ryan has an extensive background in smart home technology, having been in the field for the last 30 years. He's been involved in this industry even before terms like 'Smart Home' and 'IoT' became mainstream. His expertise in the field led him to write a book titled "Join the Smart Home Revolution". In his TED talk, he discussed how smart technology can help us age in place, emphasizing the idea that technology should work for us as humans, rather than just being a gadget.The inception of his company, Caregiver Smart Solutions, was born out of a personal necessity. When his father was undergoing chemotherapy treatments, Ryan found himself constantly worried about whether his father was taking his medication, eating properly, and moving around. He realized there was a gap in the market for a solution that could provide this kind of information and give peace of mind to those who can't always be there for their loved ones. This led to the creation of Caregiver Smart Solutions, a company dedicated to using technology to enhance the care and safety of seniors.In today's episode, we'll delve deeper into the topic of technology and its role in preventing common issues faced by seniors. Ryan's insights promise to be enlightening for anyone interested in senior care, technology, or both. Stay tuned for an engaging and informative discussion.
Equine Wisdom25:20In the HIP Senior Podcast, Marianne hosts Terri Mongait, the founder of Begin Again Coaching Strategies and owner of Begin Again Ranch, a six-acre property located in Sedalia, Colorado. The ranch, initially in California, was moved to its current location to provide a more private and personal environment to Mongait's clients. The premise of her work involves partnering with horses to facilitate breakthroughs for her clients in a safe, uninterrupted setting.Terri's clientele is diverse, ranging from business owners to couples struggling with communication or grappling with the "empty nest" syndrome. She explains that many times, her clients aren't sure why they're stuck in their personal or professional life. By partnering with horses, she helps them unravel their stories, identify what is holding them back, and guide them toward embracing their true selves.Terri further highlights how her approach can also be beneficial for single individuals, particularly those dealing with significant life changes such as their children leaving home or going through a divorce. She explains the challenge of self-discovery and self-relationship as people transition from defined roles like being a parent or a spouse, to living alone. The goal is to help clients rediscover their identities before these life changes and to understand who they're meant to be.Lastly, Terri emphasizes the importance of understanding personal triggers and reactions. She uses the example of a seemingly innocent comment about a blouse triggering an intense reaction due to childhood experiences. Terri's work with her clients and horses aims to address these deep-seated issues, understand their origins, and ultimately help her clients move forward with a better understanding of themselves.#TheHIPSeniorPodcast #BeginAgainRanch #TerriMongait #EquineTherapy #HorseTherapy #SeniorLifestyle #SeniorLiving #HealthyAging #HorsesHeal #CoachingStrategies #ElderlyCare #MentalHealth #EquineAssistedTherapy #SeniorWellbeing #HorseLovers #EquestrianLife #TherapeuticRiding #InspirationalSeniors #ActiveSeniors #thehipsenior #podcast
Balancing Work and Life54:24In this episode of TheHIPSenior Podcast, we welcome Kay Coghlan, owner and founder of Facilitator on Fire, and host of the podcast "From One Caregiver to Another." A passionate advocate for family caregivers, Kay aims to help those with caregiving responsibilities maintain their own identities and find the right balance between work and caregiving.Kay's background as a business coach for solopreneurs and small business leaders may not immediately seem related to her role as a family caregiver advocate. However, she sees many parallels between running a business and managing caregiving responsibilities, emphasizing the need for organization, delegation, and scheduling in both domains.By introducing the concept of the "care pool," Kay encourages caregivers to view themselves as managers rather than sole providers of care. This mindset shift can help family caregivers recognize the importance of seeking assistance and asserting their own boundaries when faced with overwhelming demands.As many caregivers struggle to establish and maintain boundaries, the conversation in this episode highlights the importance of remembering that caregivers are people first. By prioritizing their own needs and desires alongside their caregiving duties, caregivers can maintain a healthy balance and avoid burnout.Join us for this insightful conversation with Kay Coghlan, and learn how to better navigate the challenges of caregiving while preserving your own identity and well-being. You'll discover practical strategies for managing the "care pool" and tips for setting boundaries that empower caregivers to lead fulfilling lives beyond their caregiving roles.You can reach Kay Coughlin at: 614.426.8062 • https://facilitatoronfire.net/ • Kay@FacilitatorOnFire.net
The HIP 'Dababyboomers' are Down with Ageless Antics40:38In this engaging episode of TheHIPSenior Podcast, host Marianne Bailey sits down with Beth and Cheryl of Dababyboomers, two dynamic seniors who have been friends for decades. The pair reminisce about their first meeting as 23-year-old dancers, finding an instant connection and frequently crossing paths at auditions and events. Their shared love for dance and performance has been a cornerstone of their long-lasting friendship, and they reveal how their journey together has led to a fulfilling life in the entertainment industry.As advocates for staying active and embracing lifelong learning, Beth and Cheryl emphasize the importance of trying new things, from exercise routines and dance styles to mastering new technology. Their thirst for knowledge and enthusiasm for new experiences has helped them stay relevant and engaged in their careers. They share stories of their continued success in the acting world, with roles in both social media productions and on-screen appearances in TV and film.In addition to their professional pursuits, Beth and Cheryl discuss the fascinating world of TikTok and its diverse content. They explain how they enjoy exploring different facets of the platform, finding entertainment and educational value in various areas. The duo encourage listeners to dive into the app, highlighting its potential to connect people across generations and promote creativity.Finally, the conversation turns to the importance of acceptance and inclusivity, regardless of age. Beth and Cheryl urge others to appreciate the unique perspectives and contributions of individuals from all walks of life. They emphasize that embracing diversity and fostering understanding can lead to a richer, more rewarding existence for everyone. Don't miss this inspiring episode, packed with insights and anecdotes from two trailblazing seniors who continue to defy expectations and break boundaries.Follow them on TikTok, Instagram, and Youtube @Dababyboomers