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Spice Up Your Sex Life with AJ Paps

Season 2, Ep. 11

Today the one and only AJ Paps joins Adele to talk about everything sex, he unpacks orgasms, confidence in the bedroom, sex toys, and all the ways to spice up and improve your sex life. Adele interviews AJ and then they answer all your burning questions!


AJ's recommendations:

Letting Go, David Hawkins

NU Sensuelle Silicone 60SX AMP

Ask and It Is Given, Esther & Jerry Hicks

Womanizer Starlet

You can shop AJ's masterclasses and sex toys here: Missionary To Madame

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