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Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrassing Now?

Season 3, Ep. 78

Vogue says having a boyfriend is embarrassing, and if he’s not meeting you where you’re at, maybe it is. But the real conversation is about self-worth, not relationship status. We’re unpacking the shift from being chosen to choosing ourselves, how to decentre relationships, and why real confidence has nothing to do with who you’re dating.

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