Your Safe Space

Does it matter how you go about finding the truth in a relationship? We’re talking about the lengths we go to when we suspect something’s off, and whether this kind of catfishing is ok? Plus, we’re addressing something many of us can relate to: what do you do when you realise you’re codependent in your relationship? How do you break free and start loving your own company again?💌Send in your confessions, dilemmas, or juicy secrets here—you might hear them on air!📲Follow YSS on Instagram & TikTok.💬Join the YSS Facebook community.If you are struggling with your mental health, please find some support resources below or chat with your GP.Helplines

AJ Paps is answering your questions, from how to initiate sex without it feeling awkward, common bedroom mistakes, how actually to enjoy going down on someone, and what might be causing unexpected pain during sex (yep, we’re going there). And for the girlies navigating growth and routines, we’ve got you too. AJ and I share our best mindset hacks for staying on track and building confidence from scratch.Follow AJ on IG & TikTok. Shop his store Missionary to Madame.💌Send in your confessions, dilemmas, or juicy secrets here—you might hear them on air!📲Follow YSS on Instagram & TikTok.💬Join the YSS Facebook community.If you are struggling with your mental health, please find some support resources below or chat with your GP.Helplines

Today, we’re diving into one of the biggest relationship debates: Does taking a break help, or is it simply delaying the inevitable? One listener wonders if stepping away from her long-term relationship will make it stronger or if she’s risking losing the best thing she’s ever had.Plus, we unpack another confession about ethical non-monogamy, older men, and what the reality of this situation truly is.💌Send in your confessions, dilemmas, or juicy secrets here—you might hear them on air!📲Follow YSS on Instagram & TikTok.💬Join the YSS Facebook community.If you are struggling with your mental health, please find some support resources below or chat with your GP.Helplines

Your 20s can feel like a whirlwind, so many choices, so much pressure, and a lot of uncertainty. In this episode, I’m joined by Jemma Sbeg, host of The Psychology of Your 20s podcast and author of Person in Progress, to unpack the biggest myths about this decade, how to stop feeling behind, and why mistakes are a good thing. We’re talking friendships, love, career, and everything in between - if you’ve ever felt lost in your 20s, this one’s for you!Follow Jemma on IG & TikTok.💌Send in your confessions, dilemmas, or juicy secrets here—you might hear them on air!📲Follow YSS on Instagram & TikTok.💬Join the YSS Facebook community.If you are struggling with your mental health, please find some support resources below or chat with your GP.Helplines

Ever sent a text message to the wrong person? Now, imagine it was a flirty one, and it went to your boss. Plus, we're diving into the big life decision of choosing where to set down your roots and planning our future for you. How do you know which decision is right for you?💌Send in your confessions, dilemmas, or juicy secrets here—you might hear them on air!📲Follow YSS on Instagram & TikTok.💬Join the YSS Facebook community.If you are struggling with your mental health, please find some support resources below or chat with your GP.Helplines

Dating can feel overwhelming, but what if you approached it with more intention? I’m joined by Moe Ari Brown, a licensed therapist and Love & Connection Expert at Hinge, to chat about loneliness, modern dating struggles, and how to build real connections. Plus, we break down Moe’s game-changing ‘Dating Forward’ checklist to help you date with purpose. Follow Moe on IG & TikTok.💌Send in your confessions, dilemmas, or juicy secrets here—you might hear them on air!📲Follow YSS on Instagram & TikTok.💬Join the YSS Facebook community.If you are struggling with your mental health, please find some support resources below or chat with your GP.Helplines

Today, we’re asking: Do two wrongs ever make a right? Plus, what to do when you don’t get an invite to a friend’s engagement. Take the hint? Or bring it up?💌Send in your confessions, dilemmas, or juicy secrets here—you might hear them on air!📲Follow YSS on Instagram & TikTok.💬Join the YSS Facebook community.If you are struggling with your mental health, please find some support resources below or chat with your GP.Helplines

It’s my birthday this month! So to celebrate, I’m sharing 32 of my fave life lessons I’ve learned in my 32 years. From love and friendships to confidence, growth, and healing, all things that I wish I had known sooner. Some are hard truths, some are reminders we all need, and some might change the way you look at life.So whether you're in your 20s, or 30s, or just figuring things out, this episode is for you!💌Send in your confessions, dilemmas, or juicy secrets here—you might hear them on air!📲Follow YSS on Instagram & TikTok.💬Join the YSS Facebook community.If you are struggling with your mental health, please find some support resources below or chat with your GP.Helplines

Today, we’ve got a hilariously petty yet wholesome breakup revenge story - plus, a wild tale about the time someone sent me unsolicited mail. And then, we’re diving into what to do when your in-laws think your home is theirs, and how to set firm but kind boundaries.💌Send in your confessions, dilemmas, or juicy secrets here—you might hear them on air!📲Follow YSS on Instagram & TikTok.💬Join the YSS Facebook community.If you are struggling with your mental health, please find some support resources below or chat with your GP.Helplines