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Is Karen Carpenter pop music’s saddest story?

Ep. 511

Karen Carpenter died 40 years ago at the age of 32, a life mapped out in a new biography by Lucy O’Brien called Lead Sister. It’s a chilling, cautionary tale of how she and her brother became international stars and the devastating personal repercussions that were the consequence. Our conversation with Lucy covers the waterfront and includes …

 

… the perils of “helicopter parents”.

 

 … why Richard was “The Chosen One”.

 

… a disastrous association with Nixon.

 

… destabilising press comments about weight issues and her “milksop presence”.

 

… what Hal Blaine said about her mother.


... the night she met Elvis. 


… what singers need to survive.

 

… the private bebop language she invented.

 

… “Drummers are like hockey goalies. No-one knows how to talk to them apart from another drummer.”


… the howling disaster of her solo album.

 

… and what she discovered about her husband three days before she was due to marry him.

 

 

Lead Sister by Lucy O’Brien …

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Lead-Sister-Story-Karen-Carpenter/dp/1788708245

 

The Carpenters’ first TV appearance, 1968 …

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Cz60nGaopM


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