Why She Stayed

  • 32. Ep. 32: Coercion, Reactive Abuse, and what if it's me "causing" this?

    01:16:00||Season 1, Ep. 32
    Morgan shares her story of escaping a relationship that included extreme phases of "love" and devaluing. We discuss topics of coercion, reactive abuse, lying to escape his accusations, the addictiveness of the cycle, and overcoming self-blame.See my Instagram @gracestuart26 for more episode clips and episode information.
  • 31. Ep. 31: Am I "Supposed" to Stay in an Abusive Situation?- Karen DeArmond Gardner

    01:00:48||Season 1, Ep. 31
    On this episode I'm joined by Karen DeArmond Gardner where we talk about covert, emotional, mental, and spiritual abuse. She gives new perspectives on how to handle the intrusive thoughts and lies that tell us "but am I supposed to stay?"All Links for Karen's Socials and Website:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karendearmondgardner?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=ZDNlZDc0MzIxNw==Book: https://www.amazon.com/Hope-Healing-Domestic-Abuse-Reaching/dp/0825446945Website: https://anotheronefree.com/Facebook: Another One Free
  • 30. Ep. 30: "No one will ever believe you because you look too happy"- Savannah's Story

    01:16:04||Season 1, Ep. 30
    On this episode, Savannah shares her story about mental, verbal, and physical abuse and why it felt so hard to leave. We talk about how "smaller" physical trespasses escalate over time and how the perpetrator may pretend they are not even happening. This is an episode for anyone who is in a cycle of "good and bad" who is looking to gain new perspective. Savannah's Socials:Tiktok: @therealmessmomIG: @therealmessmom
  • 29. Ep. 29: How to Help Someone Who's in an Abusive Relationship by Holding Space for Them

    52:51||Season 1, Ep. 29
    On this solo episode, I give all of my best tips for bridging the gap with a loved one who may be stuck in an abusive relationship. I give advice on what could be most helpful VS. harmful and how to stay hopeful in the midst of it all.Remember to always contact law enforcement in the case of an emergency, or call a DV hotline yourself for specific advice.
  • 28. How Abusers Weaponize Mental Health and Triangulation

    01:16:30||Season 1, Ep. 28
    On this episode, Jess shares her story about how abusers can weaponize mental health claims as an excuse to accuse you and gain control in very covert ways. We also discuss how perpetrators who are very charismatic triangulate people around them to feed into the manipulation and lies.
  • 27. How to Look Through the Lens of the Cycle of Abuse- Knowing Your Truth with Quinn Padilla

    01:11:41||Season 1, Ep. 27
    On this episode I'm joined by my guest Quinn Padilla where we talk about how to gain clarity by focusing on what the *cycle* of abuse really looks like and new perspectives to help you identify patterns and stay strong. We also discuss Quinn's personal story as a DV survivor. Quinn's Instagram: @itsquinnpadillaQuinn's Website: https://www.rellawellness.com/Article I cited: https://voicemalemagazine.org/abusive-men-describe-the-benefits-of-violence/
  • 26. Psychological Abuse, Blindness, & Resilience Through Adversity- Sherrie Lynn Lilley

    01:14:13||Season 1, Ep. 26
    On this episode, I am joined by Sherrie Lynn Lilley who is a DV survivor and owner of HEAL Creative Coaching. We speak about emotional & psychological abuse and how she navigated the trauma as a blind woman and as a mother of 5 amazing children. Sherrie's Instagram is @sherrielynnlilley
  • 25. "Reactive Abuse", Abusers Who Discard, Hoover, & Breaking Free- Shannon's Story

    01:03:06||Season 1, Ep. 25
    On this episode we discuss topics of emotional & verbal abuse, abusers who initiate "breakups" as a form of manipulation, hoovering, anxiety they create, and how you can be pushed to a point of reacting to their mistreatment.
  • 24. Abuse, Second Guessing Yourself, Withdraw, & The Strength to Stay Gone- Claire's Story

    01:10:11||Season 1, Ep. 24
    On this episode we are talking about Claire's story and why it's so hard to break free from an abuser and then keep up the strength to stay gone. We also discuss projection, monitoring, accusing, and how they try to pull you back in and make you second guess your decision to leave at every turn.
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