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SPECIAL EPISODE: Falling in love with the world

Season 1, Ep. 4

When we allow ourselves to fall in love with the world, everything changes. But sometimes we need someone to help us to fall in love in the first place...


This special episode is a dedication to the life, work, wisdom and utter brilliance of Dr Stephan Harding, a globally renowned ecologist, teacher, elder and truly beautiful soul who recently passed away. His work has had a profound influence on both of us and a significant influence on the work we do at ThoughtBox. We therefore wanted to give this episode to Stephan in order to share our appreciation and to reflect a little on some of the magic he weaved during his lifetime; in particular the infectious way he inspired hundreds of thousands of people to fall in love with the world.


Dr Stephan Harding | 8th July 1953 - 2nd September 2024


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