Turned On With Sue And John

25 minutes and 51 seconds.That is the most lied about number in sex. Today, Sex With Sue (Sue McGarvie) and John explain why as we discuss how long sex usually lasts, and how long is SHOULD actually last.We'll address the question you've asked yourself in bed but never said out loud... "Is my sex life normal?" And we'll give you the most honest answer plus offer some tips that should help to fix it!Are you normal if you haven't had sex in a long time?Are you normal if you compare the amount of sex you're having with the amount of sex others are having?Is there something wrong with your body that's making you not crave it as much?You've asked. And we'll answer you.Plus - Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week - remote control toys! OMG the fun!!!! It's the perfect seduction date and it can really heat things up!Sue also lets you in on 5 things that you can change today that will help you feel more than normal.And, on our swinger segment this week - Just how normal IS swinging anyway? (More normal than you probably think.)Your questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comSue's Newsletter: www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletterOur webite: www.turnedonpodcast.comFetlife links:@ TurnedOnPodcast@ MistressInCharge@ Megahurts

It's an entire show devoted to the inability to achieve orgasm.Sex With Sue is North America's leading expert on human sexuality and today she and John discuss this issue, which is more common that most probably realize.It not only affects individuals, but can impact your partner as well. We'll explore why sometimes you're able to cum when you're by yourself, but can't always get there when you're with somebody else.Sue has some tricks up her sleeve to help with that too! This week's "Sassy Sex Secret" is all about the "frenulum switch!" We think you'll REALLY like this!For some people, orgasm actually hurt. We'll examine the reasons why and go over some options that might help to take that pain away so you can enjoy them again.For our swinger friends (hi!) - most probably imagine that in this community, it's orgasms everywhere all the time with everyone. Except, it's not. And, you don't have to make finish into a report card either.Finally... Some of the best, if you'll pardon the pun, fucking orgasm tricks!Cum see us online at www.turnedonpodcast.comQuestions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comSubscribe to Sue's newsletter: www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletterTurned On, on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcastSue on Fetlife: MistressInChargeJohn on Fetlife: Megahurts

What do you do when you have a hard time getting hard? Or staying hard?Today, we talk about it.Including new treatments, and how commonplace erection medications are on porn sets, and at swinger clubs. In this week's swinger segment we'll get into why some men can't get hard even in that environment, and, as a bonus, we have a conversation about the couple's crush.Sue and John will offer insight into why porn can impact your dick, and why your boss may be more to blame for not being able to get it up than your partner is.What weakens erections and what men can do to make them harder and more reliable, and why playing with your partner's flaccid penis can be a LOT of fun! For both of you!Questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comOur website: www.turnedonpodcast.comFetlfe links: @ TurnedOnPodcast @MistressInCharge @MegahurtsSue on TikTok: @s3xwithsue.swingdateguru

Hey it's Sue and John - your guides today on how to better your odds of ending up in bed with someone you are attracted to!A 40 minute conversation that covers that space between flirting and spending the night together.We'll reveal where most people either freeze, fumble or accidentally kill the mood. And we offer some tips on how to avoid those pitfalls, and how to lean into your awkwardness as a super power!Think about what song you'd strip to for someone you're trying to seduce, because Sue will teach you and incredible three minute strip tease! You know those people who seem to have game every day and every night? What if YOU knew how to do that? After this conversation, you'll have some things to try!Oh, and guys... Bridgerton. There aren't many places you can go to get better lessons on seduction that Bridgerton. You have your homework!For our swinger friends (hi!), why swingers may be more sexually confident. Swinging isn't always a guaranteed romp. Swingers have learned to deal with rejection, but they also have learned how communication, articulating desires, flirting and confidence can lead to incredible connections!Sue has an entire list of seduction secrets she'll share with you on this episode, and we walk you through how to handle it when things go sideways and sex doesn't happen.We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com - including links to our Kinky Confessions, how to subscribe to Sue's newsletter, even products Sue recommends on our new Amazon store!On Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcastSue on Fetlife: @ MistressInChargeJohn on Fetlife @ MegahurtsQuestions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comQuestions for John: funwithmilkman@gmail.com

Today we bring you inside a BDSM dungeon! It's an enormous space, in a very small community, in small town New Brunswick Canada!We'll introduce you to Mistress Aaliyah and Her husband Chuck, who is also the dungeon master.In just a few short years they turned their lifestyle into a space that attracts people from across Canada, the USA and around the world.From BDSM sessions to swinger events and incredible adult lifestyle parties, Mistress and Chuck will introduce you to this converted warehouse that started as the location for their custom auto shop.If you've ever wondered if you could work as a Pro Domme, Mistress will tell you some of the things you need to know about that line of work. From what you need to get started to what skill sets you need to have. This is an eye opener and a very fun conversation!See the Warehouse for yourself online at www.thewarehousenb.caPlus... Sue has a conversation with one of our listeners, Copper Delight, who took us up on our invitation to have you, the listener, help answer some of the questions other listeners have. Today, she and Sue go through several questions we received recently about the Swinger lifestyle - it's fun to get a new perspective!Find us online at www.turnedonpodcast.comAnd on Fetlfe: @ TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife @ MegahurtsSue on Fetlife @ MistressInCharge

Today... Meet a gigolo! Sue speaks to an Australian man who makes a living catering to the sexual needs and desires of women.It's a very usual occupation, and we'll explore who the woman are that use his service.This week we also guide you through what to expect if and when you visit a sex worker for the first time. It can be overwhelming, but we hope the right information helps you enjoy your experience a lot more.On our So You're A Swinger segment this week, we look at paid intimacy vs the lifestyle.We also hear from a listener who wants to gain experience with women but doesn't quite know where to begin. He also doesn't want to be arrested. And... Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week is all about electro stimulation! (Hint: One of us REALLY loves it!)And... It's our first ever installment of our weekly "soap opera" As The World Turns On...Your questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.comOur Website: www.turnedonpodcast.comUs on Fetlife: @ TurnedOnPodcastJohn on Fetlife @ MegahurtsSue on Fetlife @ MistressInCharge