Travel & Transformation

Ever felt like you’re carrying the weight of beliefs that don’t fit you anymore? This episode is a chance to start letting go, healing, and discovering the real you.Today, I’m talking with Kaelen Marie, founder of Celebrate You, a space that helps women heal from deep-rooted trauma, especially the kind wrapped up in strict beliefs about religion and sexuality. Kaelen shares her journey of learning to release shame, set strong boundaries, and embrace the beauty of self-love. We talk about what it takes to move past the fear that holds us back, to finally let go of guilt, and to step into a life filled with joy, purpose, and freedom. Kaelen’s story is raw, real, and a reminder that healing is possible for anyone.Ready to feel lighter and more empowered? Tune in to start your journey to healing and self-discovery.KEY TAKEAWAYSKaelen shares her background, experiencing sexual abuse from a cousinThe importance of boundaries, self-respectHow religious teachings affected her views on her body and her healing process.Introduction of her coaching program, "The Gift of You Blueprint"VALUABLE RESOURCESLinkedIn | www.linkedin.com/in/kaelenrevenseFacebook | www.facebook.com/kaelenrevensecoachingInstagram | @kaelenrevenseWebsite | http://celebrateyou.us/BEST MOMENTS"Every woman deserves to feel safe, empowered, and in tune with her body.""It's not guilt or shame or fear that should ever live within our pelvic area; that is a place of divinity.""Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure." (Marianne Williamson)"As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.""Every trauma is a teacher.""You have to be willing to do the work because nobody can do the work for you."CONTACT THE HOSTWebsite |  www.thereikihealingcoach.com Instagram | @sophia_i_got_igInstagram | @createlifeyourwayFacebook | www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754LinkedIn | Sophia Elcock

Can BDSM be a path to healing deep emotional wounds? We sit down once again with Jayden Aubrey, a Black queer, non-binary trauma therapist, to explore the profound connection between BDSM and trauma recovery. Jayden shares how the dynamics of dominance, submission, and consensual power exchange can help individuals reclaim their sense of control and heal from past emotional wounds, particularly in cases of sexual trauma. They explain the therapeutic parallels between BDSM and other methods like drama therapy and EMDR, focusing on how reenactment in a controlled setting can release stored trauma. They also talk about essential topics such as the role of consent, negotiation, and aftercare in creating safe spaces for emotional healing and self-exploration. Whether you dissociate during intimacy or are simply curious about the healing power of BDSM, Jayden sheds light on how these practices can foster deeper self-awareness and help rewrite your narrative.KEY TAKEAWAYSTrauma Healing Through BDSMImportance of negotiation and consent in BDSM practicesThe importance of self-exploration and communication in relationshipsVALUABLE RESOURCESWebsite | tiseconsultingandtherapy.comLinkedIn | Jayden AubrynFacebook | www.facebook.com/jayden.aubrynChaotic Healing on SpotifyWebsite | Tiseconsultingandtherapy.comInstagram | @Tiseconsultingandtherapy Patreon.com/TISEConsultingandTherapyBEST MOMENTS"BDSM is really specific under that kink category to power exchanges... there’s also a lot of active communication and ongoing, enthusiastic consent.""Learning how to stay in your body and notice when you’re starting to dissociate—this will be helpful in healing trauma." "Once we do something different, that traumatic energy is released out of our body.""You start working on your trauma, your relationships are going to change."“In BDSM, it’s important to negotiate what you’ll do. Practicing non-judgment about your preferences and sharing them helps heal trauma.”CONTACT THE HOSTWebsite |  www.thereikihealingcoach.com Instagram | @sophia_i_got_igInstagram | @createlifeyourwayFacebook | www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754LinkedIn | Sophia Elcock

Ever wondered how your body holds onto trauma, even when your mind can’t explain it?In this episode, I’m joined by Jayden Aubryn, a black queer, non-binary psychotherapist and personal trainer, who specializes in somatic trauma release. Jayden explains how trauma gets trapped in our bodies as stored energy and how somatic practices like dance, yoga, and even weightlifting can release it. We discuss the connection between mental and physical health, exploring the nervous system, trauma-informed movement, and how daily activities can help process deep-seated emotional pain. Whether you're new to the idea of somatic healing or a seasoned wellness seeker, Jayden shares practical tips to make healing accessible and even fun.Want to start healing through movement? Listen in and discover how to take back your body and mind.KEY TAKEAWAYSTrauma and the Nervous SystemBody’s Trauma Storage PointsThe importance of making movement fun and accessible for trauma survivorsPractical Movement Tips for Trauma ReleaseThe benefits of encouraging trainers versus bootcamp-style training that may cause trauma.The essential role of safety in the body for trauma healingChildhood Trauma and Adult ReactionsJoy Alerts for Daily Well-beingVALUABLE RESOURCESWebsite | tiseconsultingandtherapy.comLinkedIn | Jayden AubrynFacebook | www.facebook.com/jayden.aubrynChaotic Healing on SpotifyBEST MOMENTS"Somatics is essentially how you relate to your body.""When our nervous system senses a threat, it prepares to either run or fight."“Any type of movement can be used to help process trauma.""Once we have that proud, excited energy in our body, it’s easier to invest it into more movement.""You have to have that conversation with your body very actively.""Safety is not just important; it is essential because the body is afraid it's going to die.""Music lights up your whole brain; playing some can help bring your frontal lobes back on."CONTACT THE HOSTWebsite |  www.thereikihealingcoach.com Instagram | @sophia_i_got_igInstagram | @createlifeyourwayFacebook | www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754LinkedIn | Sophia Elcock

In today’s episode, I’m dedicating this time to my dad as we mark the second anniversary of his passing. This day brings up so many feelings—some days are really hard, and others feel almost normal. It’s a reminder of how love and loss can shape us in ways we often don’t see.I share the story of the last day I spent with my dad and how I’ve been working through my grief. I didn’t realize how much I was still hurting and how my feelings of anger and abandonment were tied to losing him. It’s been a journey to understand these emotions, especially as unexpected moments can bring them flooding back. I talk about how important it is to feel our feelings instead of pushing them away, even when it’s uncomfortable.I invite you to listen to this episode and join me on this journey of healing. If you’re dealing with loss or looking for personal growth, I hope my experience helps you feel less alone. Tune in, and let’s explore this together!KEY TAKEAWAYSAnniversary of Dad's PassingGrieving ProcessMemories of the last conversation with my fatherCoping MechanismUnderstanding how past relationships and unresolved issues affect present interactions.The challenge of feeling emotionsBEST MOMENTS“Grief is not linear.”“You can't work on it if you can't see it.”“We are like onions. So many layers.”“We're always healing if we choose to take that step.”“I am treating myself with compassion and forgiveness because guilt will just eat away at me.”“Dear daddy, I miss you so much. You are gone from this physical realm, but so not forgotten.”“If you're going through the grieving process, you're not alone.”CONTACT THE HOSTWebsite |  www.thereikihealingcoach.com Instagram | @sophia_i_got_igInstagram | @createlifeyourwayFacebook | www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754LinkedIn | Sophia Elcock

In today's fast-paced world, the integration of AI into business is more than just a trend—it's a game changer.  Shameria Ann Davis, a successful business owner and bestselling author. She shares how tools like ChatGPT can make your work easier and help you get more done.Shameria explains her experience as a life coach and business consultant. She knows that many new business owners feel overwhelmed. She talks about how AI can help with tasks like creating content, running social media ads, and writing resumes for job applications. Shameria also shares tips on how to use AI while keeping your own voice and style.If you want to learn how to use AI to improve your business and personal growth, listen to this episode! You’ll find easy tips that can help you save time and still be yourself. Tune in now!KEY TAKEAWAYSUse of AI in small business operations.AI limitations.Creating resumes using AI.Challenges of using AI in academic settings.Tips for tailoring AI outputs to individual voices.AI cost concernsJob market realitiesBEST MOMENTS"AI draws from the past; it doesn't pull from the present. Most data it uses spans back to around 2020.""While AI can help structure a business plan, for unique businesses, you’ll need to adjust its output to fit your specific needs.""AI serves as a tool to spark creativity, allowing you to write something and then ask it to enhance or shorten it.""AI is more than a tool; it’s a partner that can help improve your online presence and career chances."VALUABLE RESOURCESFacebook | www.facebook.com/adavisconsultingInstagram | @a_davis_consultingWebsite | www.shameriaann.comCONTACT THE HOSTWebsite |  www.thereikihealingcoach.com Instagram | @sophia_i_got_igInstagram | @createlifeyourwayFacebook | www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754LinkedIn | Sophia Elcock

Ever wondered how deep your identity really goes? In this episode, Chantelle Botha, a life and career coach on a transformative journey into the realms of sexualogical body work and tantra. Chantelle's provocative belief is that our sexual identity forms the bedrock of our overall identity, influencing every facet of our lives.Chantelle unravels the layers of identity like peeling back the skin of an onion. From the visible roles we play to the subterranean beliefs that shape us, she dives deep into how sexual identity intersects with our values, strengths, and relationships. Through her personal journey, including a surprising sexual awakening that reshaped her life, Chantelle demonstrates how embracing our sexuality can unlock purpose and transformation in ways we may never have imagined. As she shares her path to this awakening, she highlights how women, especially in midlife, can reclaim their sexual selves and integrate this newfound freedom into all aspects of life.Tune in and discover how embracing your sexual identity can lead to a more empowered, fulfilled life.KEY TAKEAWAYSThe intricate relationship between sexual identity and overall self-perceptionChantelle's belief that understanding one’s sexual identity is fundamental to personal developmentChantelle's journey of sexual awakening at 47Eight steps for cultivating rich tantric experiencesThe importance of conscious touchThe role of vulnerability in deepening relationshipsBEST MOMENTS"Our sexual identity underpins our overall identity in the world.""Identity is like a container with various layers, going as deep as you're brave enough to go." "Sexual identity informs our belief systems, which then shape our values and how we show up in the world.""Pleasure is the gateway to purpose.""We are sexual beings until the day we die. We need to give ourselves permission to own that.""Our bodies were designed to receive pleasure, and this should influence how we live our lives.""Loving yourself is not about indulgence but about your self-talk and how you treat yourself.""The mean girl in your head can set up camp and stay there. It's time to evict her." "Sensual does not necessarily mean sexual. Sensual could be... creating a space that pleases the senses."VALUABLE RESOURCESLinkTree | https://linktr.ee/iamchantelleCONTACT THE HOSTWebsite |  www.thereikihealingcoach.com Instagram | @sophia_i_got_igInstagram | @createlifeyourwayFacebook | www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754LinkedIn | Sophia Elcock

Do you think dating is hard? It’s time to shake things up! In this episode, Christina Gonzalez, the amazing Curvy Girl Dating Coach and host of the Curvy Girl podcast, shares her journey and helps plus-sized women date with confidence. She’s been where many of you are, struggling with self-doubt about dating while being plus-sized.Christina talks about how she went from feeling unworthy because of her weight to becoming a certified dating and life coach. She emphasizes that it’s not about losing weight for someone else but about understanding your own motivations and being happy with who you are. Christina also shares practical advice on how to approach dating with a positive mindset and how to avoid settling for less. Christina offers tips on making dating feel less like a job interview and more about genuine connection. She encourages women to be visible and confident, whether they're on online platforms or out in the real world. Enjoy the episode!KEY TAKEAWAYSThe impact of weight on self-worth and dating confidence.How to handle questions about weight and dating.Advises on creating a social calendar and getting out to meet people.Tips for natural conversation during dates to avoid sounding like an interview.Online Dating Profile TipsDealing with Non-Responsive MessagesFeminine energy in datingHow your choice of clothes can affect how you feel and present yourself.BEST MOMENTS“Your weight has nothing to do with your ability to find love. Like, you are already 100% lovable, and you just gotta find that person.”“Dating selectively is a total mind shift. And being able to know that you have choices and that you can say no and you can say yes, and you can get the kind of person that you want.”“Don’t be afraid. Don’t wait. We’re in a new world now. You don’t have to wait to be asked out on a date.”"Prepare yourself to be positive and ready to show up to a date confidently."VALUABLE RESOURCESWebsite | www.thecurvygirldatingcoach.comInstagram | @thecurvygirldatingcoachFacebook | www.facebook.com/thecurvygirldatingcoachTikTok | @thecurvygirldatingcoachPodcast | The Curvy Girl Dating PodcastCONTACT THE HOSTWebsite |  www.thereikihealingcoach.com Instagram | @sophia_i_got_igInstagram | @createlifeyourwayFacebook | www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754LinkedIn | Sophia Elcock

Ever wondered how travel can transform your life? Join us as Peter Sewell, a seasoned coach turned globetrotter, reveals how his journey through 100 countries helped him overcome unimaginable grief and loss.In this episode, Peter takes us through the turning points of his life, starting from a childhood fascination with maps to an adulthood filled with life-altering travel experiences. He shares how a series of personal tragedies—including the sudden loss of his mother and the collapse of his marriage—left him feeling utterly lost. But instead of giving in to despair, Peter found solace in travel, embarking on an Eat, Pray, Love-style journey that took him across the globe. Through his story, you'll discover how travel became not just an escape, but a powerful tool for healing and personal transformation.Don’t miss this inspiring episode that shows the extraordinary ways travel can help you navigate life’s toughest challenges. Tune in and let Peter’s story guide you on your own path to healing and self-discovery.KEY TAKEAWAYSHis first international trip to Thailand and the impact of early fears and cultural differences.Transition from bird watching to photography, leading to travel photography.Personal challenges in 2010: family health issues, his mother’s passing, and the end of his marriage.How travel helped Peter cope with grief and loss, inspired by "Eat, Pray, Love."BEST MOMENTS"Travel helped me find myself when I felt most lost. It gave me a new perspective on life and helped me see that there was still beauty in the world, even in the midst of my pain.""Sometimes, the best way to heal is to get away from the familiar and allow yourself to be open to new experiences."“Travel can be transformative, but I think it depends on the person and how… what brave steps that you take.”VALUABLE RESOURCESInstagram | @smileypete01Website | www.petersewell.comLinktree | https://linktr.ee/Peter_SewellBook | Hunting SusanCONTACT THE HOSTWebsite |  www.thereikihealingcoach.com Instagram | @sophia_i_got_igInstagram | @createlifeyourwayFacebook | www.facebook.com/sophia.e.754LinkedIn | Sophia Elcock