Trans and Transparent

This week on Trans & Transparent, we talk about how HRT can affect ADHD and how ADHD can shape the transition experience. We also recap Valborg and share an important update on Benji’s relationship with the lotus position.

Answering questions we never though we would on the internet… and getting drunk while doing it (which didn’t help)Disclaimer: We don't encourage underage drinking, We are both of legal age so keep this in mind

This week on Trans & Transparent, we read an email Benji got from a trans man who shares how the lotus position has worked for him, which leads us into a broader conversation about sex and figuring out what actually feels good in your own body.We also talk more generally about sex, expectations, and the different ways people experience intimacy, plus Benji shares what it was like going to couples therapy for the first time and what he took away from it.

This week, we’re getting into all the noise around the new Harry Potter series and why we’re not buying into it. We talk about the baggage that comes with the franchise, how it affects trans people and the wider queer community, and why choosing not to watch is actually a valid (and sometimes important) choice.

After a little break, we’re back and catching up on everything we’ve missed, life updates, chaos, and what it’s like jumping back on the apps.In this episode of Trans and Transparent, we go through Hunter’s Grindr messages… and yes, the chasers did not disappoint. From bizarre compliments to major red flags, we read and react to some truly unhinged conversations.It’s funny, uncomfortable, and a real look at how trans people get fetishized online. Grab a drink cause this one gets messy.Edited by Neo Hand

In this episode of Trans & Transparent, we talk honestly about what it feels like when dysphoria becomes overwhelming. Sometimes it sits quietly in the background, but other times it can feel suffocating and impact confidence, self-perception, and everyday life.We share personal experiences, how dysphoria shows up for us, and the ways we try to cope when it feels heavy.We also share a quick update. After this episode we will be taking a short break while we move studios, but Trans & Transparent will be back soon. Expect episodes to be coming out in April again! Editor Instagram @neos.neon_sounds

What if we had been born cis? In this episode of Trans & Transparent, we get real about the “what ifs.” From privilege and passing to identity, dysphoria, and personal growth, we imagine what our lives might look like if we were cisgender and how being trans has shaped who we are today. Editor Instagram @neos.neon_sounds 

This week, we’re breaking down what actually matters when it comes to sex and intimacy as a trans person. Just real discussion about it all! We cover communication, consent, dysphoria, dating, disclosure, pleasure, and unlearning the expected. Honest, a little vulnerable, and very on-brand Editor Instagram @neos.neon_sounds