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Best s*x position for trans men

Ep. 48

This week on Trans & Transparent, we read an email Benji got from a trans man who shares how the lotus position has worked for him, which leads us into a broader conversation about sex and figuring out what actually feels good in your own body.


We also talk more generally about sex, expectations, and the different ways people experience intimacy, plus Benji shares what it was like going to couples therapy for the first time and what he took away from it.

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