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You Matter Because You Exist
Season 1, Ep. 8
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Ever wondered what it takes to live a truly happy life? Content creator and author David Larbi joins Toni to reveal how embracing happiness and vulnerability changed everything. Plus, drifting from a friend? They’re tackling your dilemmas in Tea Time with Toni—don’t miss it!
If you or someone you know is struggling with mental health or having thoughts of suicide, you're not alone. Help is available—here’s a link to Mind, a resource that can provide support and guidance.
Got a dilemma of your own and need some big-sis wisdom? Send it to toni@tonitoldmepod.com or slide into the DMs on Instagram @tonitoldmepod.
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