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Breadcrumbing vs Consistency: How To Spot The Difference
Season 2, Ep. 32
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Breadcrumbing or genuinely just busy?? 🍞 This week Toni's breaking down the difference between someone giving consistent effort and someone keeping you on a string, plus how to spot the pattern before you waste more time on mixed signals. Plus what would you do if your mum kept showing up unannounced (with the spare key 👀) are you taking the key back...Producer Annisha would!
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