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Friendship Breakups: The Time My Friend Made a Shrine of Me
Season 2, Ep. 10
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Friendship breakups can hurt just as much, if not more, than romantic ones. In this episode of Toni Told Me, Toni gets real about the grief of losing a friend and why sometimes the people who know us best can hurt us the most. Toni and Producer Annisha dive into tricky friendship dynamics, from workplace friendships that feel a little too controlling, to the childhood friend who kept crossing the line. And Toni shares one of the strangest friendship stories she’s ever experienced… including the moment she realised a former friend had literally made a shrine of her.
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