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How to feel confident enough to pursue your calling

Season 4, Ep. 4

We are excited to be joined by two special guests, Courtney Boateng and Philly Lopez, as we discuss ‘How to feel confident enough to pursue your calling’. This is vital to speak about, as so many of us lack confidence or courage when doors are being opened to us in the direction of our calling. Their stories are real-time examples that we know will be practical and uplifting to you.


Courtney is a content creator, entrepreneur, and community builder. She co-founded ‘To My Sisters’, one of the fastest-growing women's development communities, and is the Founder of beauty brand ‘CDB London’.


Philly is a vocal coach and works in artist development. She has worked on numerous competition TV shows such as ‘The Voice’ and ‘All Together Now’. As well as this, Philly has directed and arranged various choirs and sang herself as a backing singer for artists including Stevie Wonder.


Stay up to date with Courtney at @cdboateng and Philly at @phillydlopez.


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