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Ep 37 | Navigating the Complexities of Mother & Daughter Relationships

Season 5, Ep. 37

TW Mention of suicide attempt.


Mother-daughter relationships are often filled with moments of great friction and great joy. We’re all trying to figure out how to nurture our familial relationships with love and respect, but it only happens through being emotionally, mentally and spiritually mature. Generational patterns and learnt behaviour can slow the pace of strengthening our bonds, but being open and receptive to feedback, while letting go of the fear of conflict allows us to step foot onto the right path.


How can we create space to grow the healthiest relationships we can, and not weaponise confrontation or respect? Watch as our host Rachel Calland is joined by our co-host Sinead Minkah and her mother Dr Jayne Banful in the Magnify Studio for Ep 37 Navigating the Complexities of Mother & Daughter Relationships.


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