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The Balance Theory

I'm taking a break and so should you (even if feels counterintuitive)!

Season 1, Ep. 136
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HERE'S TO THE END OF SZN 1 šŸŽ‰ We're going on break for three weeks to re-energise and recharge for SEASON 2 which will be back and live on July 17th!


While you're waiting for us to come back online, don't miss my fav episodes and you're top listened:


Optimise your brain health

10 bad habits you need to quit

Why failing is essential

Reprogramming your subconscious for self love

How to make procrastination work in your favour

Eating for high performance and sleep optimisation


Don't forget to have a pause / break where you need it! There so much value in having a moment of pause, a break.


Until next time,Ā 

Stay BalancedĀ 


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