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The Work We Keep
The Myth of “Balance”
Season 1, Ep. 14
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In this episode of The Work We Keep, Kayla explores the myth of “work-life balance” and why chasing it often leaves women feeling stretched, guilty, and behind. Instead of striving for perfectly even days, this conversation reframes life and work through the lens of seasons, trade-offs, and intentional alignment. If you’ve ever felt like you’re failing at balance, this episode offers a more sustainable perspective. One rooted in honesty, rhythm, and choosing what matters most in the season you’re in.
Learn more about Kayla and her photography business at: https://kaylamariphoto.com/
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