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36 Questions and The Mystery of Love
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What is it that makes people fall in love? It's one of the greatest mysteries of being human. I walked into the bookstore here in Colorado and stumbled upon Mandy Len Catron's memoir, How to Fall In Love with Anyone by Asking Them 36 Questions, and I couldn't help but wonder if these questions really could make you fall in love with anyone. My roommate, Matt, and his now girlfriend, Laura, volunteered to ask each other these questions to find out if this might just lead to a deeper connection and take us closer to solving the mystery of love.
Sound design and Engineering by Josh Ballard
Featured former guests from the Unmistakable Creative podcast include Megan Poe, Susan Piver, Bob Goff and Jennifer Taitz
A special thanks to my roommate, Matthew T. Cooke, and his girlfriend, Laura Foster, for agreeing to be our guinea pigs.
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