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Rage Bait Is Not The Basis For A Relationship

This is the second episode of our podcast mini-series, all about relationships!


This week, Luce and Abby talk anger and how it isn't always yelling - sometimes it's passive - like silence, or a text that says "fine.” We’ll be reading through stories you guys experienced and sent in and breaking them down.


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  • If a relationship is making you feel isolated, anxious or controlled, talk to someone you trust
  • DM Youthline on IG if you're concerned for yourself or someone else


Next week, we’re talking communication - the Ross and Rachel of it all. 


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