The Willetts Podcast

In this episode, we break down the biggest lies the fitness industry has told women about fat loss and what actually works. If you’ve ever felt like you’re doing everything right but still not seeing results, this conversation will challenge the way you think about discipline, consistency, and hormones. We dive into the science, the psychology, and the real habits that drive long-term change, especially for women over 35. This is about cutting through the noise, understanding your body, and building an approach that actually works for your life.We talk about:-Whether it’s really a lack of discipline-What the science actually says about fat loss-If consistency is truly the problem-The real role of hormones-Finding your true motivations-Building habits that stick long-term-Shifting your identity to support changeTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction3:35 how you handle hard days6:35 physiology after 3512:15 habit formation later in life18:00 visualizing the future21:30 shifting your identity25:30 anchoring habitsCONNECT WITH KAIT & MAV:Get 1:1 coaching here: https://app.iclosed.io/e/elev8/1-1-strategy-call-podcastGet our weekly emails: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listEbook: https://go.elev8coaching.net/consistency-book

In this episode, we talk about what it actually looks like to navigate chronic anxiety and overwhelm, especially when so much of life feels out of your control. It’s easy to spiral, overthink, and question if showing up is even worth it. We break down how to shift your focus back to what you can control, how to stop getting pulled into distractions, and why the small, consistent choices you make every day are what ultimately change your life.We talk about:-controlling what you actually can-the role of the algorithm in your attention and energy-protecting the things you say you value-how what you don’t nurture will decay-choosing change instead of waiting for it-building conscious competence-not letting time pass without actionTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction3:30 has it always been like this?6:55 getting sucked in15:43 thinking about doing something but not actually doing it20:32 losing sight of what matters28:15 applying what you know36:10 the easy thing usually isn’t the right thing42:20 risk to reward ration47:55 get out of your headCONNECT WITH KAIT:1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listFree FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfPCONNECT WITH MAVERICK:1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/

In this episode, we answer some of the most common and controversial questions we get from listeners, ranging from fat loss and metabolism to relationships, jealousy, and what it actually takes to create permanent results. We talk about why there is no perfect meal plan, how autonomy changes your outcomes, and why effort is the one variable you can’t outsource. This conversation moves from practical fitness advice into deeper discussions about guilt, social media, marriage, and modern relationships. It’s part Q&A, part honest reflection, and full of the nuance that gets lost in short-form content.We talk about:-The myth of the “perfect” meal plan-Autonomy and personal responsibility in your effort-Whether metabolism really slows with age-Supplements versus real food-Fat loss in perimenopause and menopause-Training for the body you want-Trusting influencers and online advice-Guilt, jealousy, and emotional patterns-Social media highs and lows-Marriage, love, and long-term commitment-Temporary effort versus permanent results-Navigating identity changes over timeTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction1:27 putting in the effort3:14 supplements versus groceries6:12 fat loss in perimenopause and menopause10:19 training how you want to look14:07 should you trust influencers?18:45 why women feel guilty21:50 is inflammation a scapegoat24:15 what is jealousy?26:42 social media upas and downs32:02 platonic opposite sex friendships35:22 permanent results but temporary effort39:43 is monogamy natural?43:11 Do all marriages fall apart?46:50 venting about your marriage50:16 why people fall out of love53:50 funny questions63:30 spouse pet peeves67:22 old self versus new self70:30 porn and marriage 74:20 when is it true love?CONNECT WITH KAIT:1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listFree FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfPCONNECT WITH MAVERICK:1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/

In this episode, we break down the real reason consistency feels so hard, and why motivation is rarely the problem people think it is. Most women aren’t lacking discipline. They’re stuck in patterns they don’t recognize and trying to do everything alone. We talk about why the hardest path is often the right one, how rigidity quietly sabotages progress, and why chasing quick dopamine hits keeps you spinning instead of moving forward. This conversation is about learning to see your habits clearly, choosing long-term action over short-term comfort, and accepting that sustainable change always takes time and support. Consistency isn’t a personality trait. It’s a skill you build with the right structure and the right people around you.We talk about:-Why the hardest thing and the right thing are often the same-The hidden danger of being too rigid-Why shortcuts always cost more in the end-Dopamine spikes versus real progress-The reality that change takes time-Why nobody succeeds completely alone-Recognizing and breaking self-sabotaging patternsTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction2:09 Is motivation really the problem?7:13 staying consistent through all stages of life13:23 getting help is the fast path14:30 knowing where to start19:34 the dark side of free information27:00 the choice is yours32:35 following through on commitmentsCONNECT WITH KAIT:1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listFree FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfPCONNECT WITH MAVERICK:1:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd79IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/

In this episode, we unpack a powerful truth: you’re not failing, lazy, or broken. You may simply be using a strategy designed for a different woman with a different starting point. The approach needed to lose the first 50 pounds is not the same as the approach needed for the last 10, and misunderstanding that difference keeps many women stuck in cycles of frustration. We talk about the psychology of large weight loss, why knowledge alone isn’t enough, and how chasing perfection pulls you further from real progress. This conversation is about choosing the right plan, the right support, and building an identity that matches the life you want to live.We talk about:-The difference between losing the first 50 pounds and the last 10-The risk of unqualified coaching-Knowledge versus true understanding-Why it’s not just your hormones-Recognizing your “lightbulb” moment-The trap of chasing perfection-Understanding your window of toleranceTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction2:04 psychological differences with large fat loss8:06 focusing on identity12:25 having the knowledge but not the behaviors18:23 habit changes25:13 gaining the weight back39:17 choosing the right coach44:45 tactics for big weight lossCONNECT WITH KAIT:Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd791:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listFree FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfPCONNECT WITH MAVERICK:Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd791:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/

In this special episode, we talk to our client Theresa who has lost over 100 pounds in the last two years and is pivoting in a build phase. She has the skills and self-trust to maintain her weight loss for life. We talk about:-focusing only on the scale-feeling like a failure-learning instead of being told what to do-a personalized approach-seeking internal validation-it’s more than weight lossTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction2:27 lifelong weight struggles4:26 hesitation to try again7:05 what’s different about the program10:03 mindset changes14:43 focusing on sustainability 18:04 deciding to keep goingCONNECT WITH KAIT:Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd791:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listFree FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfPCONNECT WITH MAVERICK:Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd791:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/

In this episode, we break down what’s really happening when progress seems to stall and how to know whether you’re actually in a plateau or just feeling impatient. We talk through the most common reasons fat loss slows down, the habits that quietly add up, and why simply doing “more” is rarely the answer. This conversation focuses on sustainable strategies, realistic expectations, and the mindset shifts required to move forward without burning yourself out.We talk about:-How to tell if you’re truly in a plateau-The difference between perceived stalls and real metabolic adaptation-Why protein intake matters more than most people think-“Bites, licks, and tastes” that derail progress-The role hormones play in fat loss-Why strength training is non-negotiable-Choosing direction over speed-Why lasting results require an identity shiftTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction1:23 how to know if you’re in a plateau6:26 metrics you should track11:16 metabolic adaptation17:06 when you’re ACTUALLY in a plateau 26:40 realistic expectation for fat loss32:00 your dream body weighs more than you think it does38:45 dropping the mental burdenCONNECT WITH KAIT:Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd791:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listFree FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfPCONNECT WITH MAVERICK:Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd791:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/

In this special episode, we sit down with our incredible client, Melinda, who is down 100 pounds and still going. After trying every diet imaginable and feeling frustrated by short-term results that never lasted, Melinda shares what finally worked and why it had very little to do with a “perfect” plan. Her story is an honest look at what it takes to create real, lasting change, even in the middle of grief, life transitions, and self-doubt.We talk about:-dealing with grief and major life changesfeeling like a failure and rebuilding self-trustdeciding to make it work instead of starting overwhy it’s not actually about the dietlearning how to be happy in the processsetting an example for your childrentaking action now instead of waiting for the right timeTime Stamps: 0:00 Introduction1:43 reaching rock bottom4:20 putting herself first5:34 having the support she needs7:04 overcoming misconceptions9:16 becoming a new person11:15 sustainability for lifeCONNECT WITH KAIT:Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd791:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157IG: https://www.instagram.com/kaitannmichelle/Email: https://go.maverickonlinecoaching.net/mailing-listFree FB Community: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/18fyYCSZgn/?mibextid=K35XfPCONNECT WITH MAVERICK:Four Phase Course: https://www.skool.com/4-phase-body-transformation-9674/about?ref=df07484c52f048a59dac76c46465bd791:1 Coaching: https://form.jotform.com/241375086805157IG: https://www.instagram.com/the.willetts/