The Parenting Cipher

Are you wondering how to boost your child's self-esteem and why it's so essential for their emotional and educational resilience? In this enlightening episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins is joined by Dr. Simone Alicia, renowned self-esteem coach and founder of a self-esteem academy. They delve into practical strategies for enhancing self-esteem at home and discuss the significant role it plays in a child's development and well-being.Key Takeaways:- Importance of modeling positive self-talk and behavior to reinforce good self-esteem in children.- Role of social-emotional learning in children's development and how parents can integrate practices into their daily routines.- Dr. Simone Alicia’s insights into using affirmation and gratitude games to engage and teach children about their self-worth.- The impact of self-esteem on children's critical thinking skills and confidence.- The importance of understanding and adapting to different learning styles to support children with special educational needs.Timestamps:1:49 Negative thoughts have a chemical impact.18:37 Prepare for ongoing education and self-improvement.25:05 Confidence and self esteem are interconnected forces.26:56 Build genuine self-esteem, confidence, self-assurance. Follow inner guidance.35:52 Story emphasizes importance of self-assuredness and calm.41:28 Studied neuro linguistic programming for behavioral change.43:12 Nurturing self-awareness and positivity in youth.53:16 Seeking solutions when feeling overwhelmed with responsibilities.58:26 Empower yourself through academy for teaching advantage.01:07:00 Incorporate activities into your daily routine for balance.Link and Resources:- Dr. Simone Alicia's Self-Esteem Academy: https://www.theselfesteemdoctoracademy.com/- The Self-Esteem Doctor: https://www.theselfesteemdoctor.com/Quotes:- "Self-esteem is more than feeling good about oneself; it is about having the resilience to tackle challenges and the confidence to explore new opportunities." — Dr. Simone Alicia- "Every interaction with your child is an opportunity to build their self-esteem." — Genie DawkinsAbout the Speakers:- Genie Dawkins is a passionate advocate for children's education and parenting strategies. She hosts "The Parenting Cipher" to provide parents with resources and insights for handling various parenting challenges. Genie combines her personal experiences with expert advice to foster a supportive community for parents navigating the educational system.- Dr. Simone Alicia is a self-esteem coach and the enthusiastic founder of a self-esteem academy designed to empower children and parents. With a background in educational psychology and a heartfelt dedication to fostering healthy self-esteem, Dr. Alicia’s approach involves engaging, tailor-made content and practical strategies for everyday parenting. Connect with Dr.Simone on IG @drsimonealiciaTune in to this episode for an invaluable conversation that could change the way you support your child’s growth and self-esteem. Whether at home, school, or in the community, learn how to be the role model your child needs for developing genuine confidence and self-worth.

Have you ever wondered how lack of assistive technology in schools can affect your child's education, especially if they have been diagnosed with neurological behavioral conditions like dyslexia or ADHD? In this enlightening episode, Genie Dawkins dives into the critical role of assistive technology in aiding students' learning processes and advocates steps to ensure these resources are accessible in public schools, particularly those in inner-city areas.In This Episode:Genie Dawkins shares her personal struggle with securing assistive technology for her son and uses her experience to offer insight and advice for other parents in similar positions. She discusses the disparity between the resources available in underfunded public schools versus private schools and stresses the importance of parents' advocacy to bridge this gap.Key Takeaways:- Understanding the spectrum of assistive technologies and their significance in supporting students with disabilities.- Navigating the challenges presented by the underfunding of assistive technology in public schools.- Practical steps to advocate for assistive technology, including knowing your legal rights and collaborating with educators.- The benefits of assistive technology in not only aiding academic success but also boosting student confidence and independence.Links and Resources:IDEA Act National Center on Accessible Educational MaterialsCenter for Parent Information and ResourcesWrights LawUnderstanding Assistive Technology for Your Child's Academic SuccessTime Stamps:07:38 Adapting assistive technology to support students in need.10:08 Underfunded schools impact children's education and support.14:10 Assistive technology helps students focus on comprehension.17:08 Schools may lack awareness and resources for assistive technology.20:15 Special education consultant advocates for technology access.22:15 Closing the gap for neurodiverse kids is essential.28:05 Instructions sent for child's independent learning.29:28 Use speech-to-text to ensure accountability in schools.Quotes:"Assistive technology is not just a tool; it's a bridge to unlocking our children's potential." - Genie Dawkins"Every child deserves the right tools to succeed, and sometimes, it's up to us as parents to build that toolkit." - Genie DawkinsSpeaker Biography:Genie Dawkins is a devoted mother and dynamic advocate for children's education rights, especially those with special educational needs. With her insightful podcast, The Parenting Cipher, Genie empowers parents with knowledge and strategies to support their children's educational journey and advocate for necessary resources, including assistive technology.Tune into this episode for a deep dive into how assistive technologies can revolutionize learning for students with special needs and how you can play a pivotal role in that transformative process.

Are you finding it hard to stay calm and present during the hectic everyday life of parenting? In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Josephine Atluri sheds light on how mindfulness can transform your parenting journey. Sit back and join hosts Genie Dawkins and Josephine Atluri as they dive deep into embracing mindfulness amidst the chaos of raising kids.Episode Summary:Josephine Atluri, a mom to seven children through international adoption, IVF, and surrogacy, shares how her challenging journey led her to embrace mindfulness and meditation. Both Genie and Josephine explore their initial skepticism towards these practices and discuss various accessible strategies for incorporating mindfulness into daily routines. This episode debunks common myths, highlights the simplicity of mindfulness practices, and provides actionable advice for integrating mindfulness moments throughout your day to foster a more grounded and calm parenting approach.Key Takeaways:- Mindfulness can be practiced in simple, scalable ways starting with even just one minute a day.- It is natural for the mind to wander during mindfulness practices; the key is returning focus without judgment.- Incorporating mindfulness into daily activities can greatly aid in handling stress and enhancing clarity and presence within family interactions.- There are diverse ways to practice mindfulness, ensuring that there is something for everyone—there is no "one right way."- Even moments of supposed failure, like falling asleep during meditation, are part of the journey toward more mindful living.Links and Resources:- 5 Minute Mindfulness for Parents - Check out Josephine Atluri’s book to explore easy and quick mindfulness exercises.- Mindful.org - A useful resource for beginners and seasoned practitioners looking for tools to deepen their practice.- Headspace - An app offering guided meditation sessions and mindfulness training.Quotes:- "Mindfulness is not about getting it right; it's about being aware of the present and learning from it," - Josephine Atluri.- "The beauty of mindfulness is in its flexibility; it bends to fit into our lives uniquely," - Genie Dawkins.About the Speakers:Josephine Atluri is an expert in meditation and mindfulness training, specialized in helping individuals overcome adversity through mindfulness. She is the author of "5 Minute Mindfulness for Pregnancy" and a mom of seven, whose journey through adoption, IVF, and surrogacy has deeply influenced her practices and teachings. You can listen to Josephine's Podcast Responding to Life on Apple and follow her on IG @josephineratluriGenie Dawkins, co-host at The Parenting Cipher, is a passionate advocate for children’s rights and a vocal proponent for parental involvement in education and personal development. Through her work, she aims to empower parents with the tools needed to advocate effectively for their children. Delve into this insightful discussion on "Embracing Mindfulness in Parenting" and discover how small, mindful moments can lead to significant changes in your parenting and personal well-being.

Are you feeling overwhelmed about understanding how assistive technology can support your child’s learning? In this episode of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins clarifies the often misunderstood world of assistive technology, sharing her own experiences and insights to shed light on how this resource can be tapped to unlock your child's full academic potential.In This Episode:- Genie delves into what assistive technology is and how it can level the playing field for children with disabilities.- Discover the range of assistive technology, from low-tech solutions like pencil grips to high-tech software for speech-to-text functionality.- Learn the significance of ensuring your child not only receives these technologies but is also adept at using them.- Understand the institutional hesitancy around acknowledging and providing assistive technology, and prepare for the forthcoming discussion on challenging schools to check the assistive technology box on IEPs.Key Takeaways:- The Definition: Assistive technology includes any item, equipment, or system that enhances the functional capabilities of children with disabilities.- Importance of Early Implementation: Assistive technology can be introduced as early as pre-K or kindergarten to support a child's educational journey.- Low to High-Tech: Ranging from pencil grips and planners to sophisticated computer programs, assistive tech is varied and adaptable to each child’s needs.- Empowering Learning: The proper use of assistive technology, coupled with quality instruction, can significantly impact a student’s independence and academic achievement.- Next Steps: Genie will continue the conversation on assistive technology, discussing how parents can advocate for its inclusion in their child’s education plan and hold schools accountable for their child’s success.Links and Resources:- Individuals with Disabilities Education Act (IDEA)- Learning Ally - Sora Reading App- Read and Write- Article: [Benefits of Assistive Technology in Special Education](#)Stay tuned for part two of our conversation on assistive technology in a future episode of The Parenting Cipher, where Genie will dive deeper into advocating for your child's needs in the realm of educational technology. 

In This Episode Summary:In an enlightening conversation, Kiva Schuler and Genie Dawkins delve deep into the tenets of peaceful parenting, reflecting on the pivotal role of trust, the detrimental impacts of shame, and the power of patience and empathy in the parent-child dynamic. They share personal stories, one being Genie's heartening tale of her son with autism and anxiety, and discuss how recognizing a child's emotions and fostering self-advocacy shapes a healthier family relationship. From challenging the status quo to mindful discipline, this episode is a thought-provoking dialogue on breaking generational cycles and embracing the authenticity of parenting.Key Takeaways:1. Building Trust: Creating a safe environment where children feel comfortable coming to adults with their problems.2. Avoiding Shame and Punishment: Recognizing that punitive measures can erode trust and lead to children hiding their issues.3. Empathy and Understanding: The importance of listening to children's worries and validating their emotions without downplaying them.4. Self-Patience and Growth: Encouraging parents to be patient with themselves and their children, acknowledging the journey of personal growth for both.5. Cultural Consideration in Parenting Advice: Kiva Schuler's introspection on the authoritative voice in the parenting space.6. Promotion of Children's Autonomy: Celebrating milestones that recognize growing independence in children.7. Embracing Failure and Learning: Allowing children to face the natural consequences of their decisions as a fundamental learning process.8. Legacy and Healing: Overcoming ancestral traumas and acknowledging inherited parenting styles that may be limiting.9. Role of the Inner Child in Parenthood:*Understanding and healing one's own childhood experiences to better serve as a parent.10. Peaceful Parenting Defined: Understanding peaceful parenting as non-permissive, non-punitive, and rooted in connection and guidance.Links and Resources:- Giant Institute Parent Coaching http://jaiinstitute.forparenting.com/- The Peaceful Parenting Revolution, by Kiva Schuler https://www.amazon.com/The-Peaceful-Parenting-Revolution/Powerful Quotes:- "It's critical that we build an environment where our children run to us, not away from us when trouble arises." — Kiva Schuler- "We must learn to sit with the discomfort of our children's failures, as it is through them that they will learn the most." — Genie Dawkins- "Parenting is not about perfecting our children, it's about guiding them through the unique journey of becoming who they are meant to be." — Kiva Schuler- "In parenting, we not only raise our children but also the child within us." — Genie Dawkins- "Peaceful parenting is about leading with empathy, compassion, and the understanding that teaching trumps any form of coercion." — Kiva SchulerGuest:Kiva Schuler is a devoted advocate for children's rights and a maven of growth through mindful parenting. Nestled in the heart of Kiva's philosophy is the conviction that to foster capable, wise, and independent children, adults must first embark on their own journeys of maturity and self-improvement. For Kiva, parenting transcends the traditional boundaries of rearing young ones; it becomes a transformative process where adults and children evolve together.Connect: IG Kiva_schuler Website:https://www.jaiinstituteforparenting.com/

In This Episode:In today's enlightening episode of The Parenting Cipher, our passionate host, Genie Dawkins, dives deep into the world of autism acceptance. As a parent of children with autism spectrum disorder (ASD), Genie draws from her personal journey to demystify autism, emphasizing the value of early intervention and specialized therapies in fostering development and confidence in children with unique needs. She candidly shares the challenges and triumphs of addressing speech issues and sensory sensitivities, advocating for supportive environments that celebrate neurodiversity.Key Takeaways:1. Early intervention is key for addressing developmental issues before bones harden, impacting overall growth.2. Specialized therapies such as speech therapy, play therapy, and integrative listening systems can significantly support children with mental and behavioral challenges.3. Tailoring educational programs aids children with exceptional needs in discovering and honing their strengths.4. Community connections offer valuable guidance for families navigating the complexities of treatment and therapy options.5. Environmental adjustments, like sensory-friendly settings, encourage inclusion and participation for individuals with sensory sensitivities.6. Social communication styles vary—promoting understanding and mindfulness facilitates better interaction and supports for those on the autism spectrum.7. Spreading accurate information and fostering understanding within communities, especially the black community, is vital.8. Recognizing and appreciating neurodiversity as well as the unique strengths of individuals with ASD can transform perspectives and support systems.Links and Resources: Early Intervention Programs https://www.cdc.gov/ncbddd/actearly/index.htmlHow Important Is Speech Therapy In Your Child's World TPC Episode 206Sensory-Friendly Activities and Locations https://www.sensoryfriendly.net/Integrative Listening Systems https://integratedlistening.com/Play Therapy Resources https://www.a4pt.org/Autism Support Networks](https://www.autismspeaks.org/resource-guide)Understanding Neurodiversity https://neurodiversity2.blogspot.com/Quotes:- "Every child's journey on the autism spectrum is their own unique story, deserving of a tailor-made narrative of love, support, and acceptance." - Genie Dawkins- "Don't let anyone else's words define what your child is capable of. You know their limitless potential better than anyone." - Genie Dawkins- "In a world full of expectations, let us be the voice of compassion, understanding, and inclusion for all." - Genie DawkinsRemember that these shownotes provide a gateway to the deeper discussions and insightful experiences Genie Dawkins brings during the episode. For even more resources and engaging conversations, make sure to tune in to 'The Parenting Cipher' podcast.

In today's episode Genie Dawkins delves into the importance of introducing your child to their new teacher. With the school year in full swing, Genie shares her own routine for creating a strong foundation between parents, teachers, and students. She emphasizes the need for a parent's letter of introduction, outlining key aspects such as a child's strengths, interests, challenges, and support requirements. Genie also explores the significance of setting expectations for the upcoming year and advocating for equitable education for children in special education, especially children of color. Stay tuned as Genie provides a template for crafting your own parent's letter of introduction, empowering both parents and children to have a voice in their.Insight from this episode:Writing a letter of introduction for your child is a helpful tool in conveying their strengths, interests, challenges, and the support they need. It also allows you to share your hopes and aspirations for the upcoming school year.Mentioning specific triggers, such as test anxiety or sensitivity to noise, and suggesting support strategies can help teachers understand and better support your child.Collaboration and communication with the school team, especially during the IEP process, is crucial in advocating for your child's needs and ensuring their progress.Addressing the systemic and educational inequities faced by children, particularly children of color, is important. By setting high expectations and providing the necessary support, parents can help their child succeed despite these challenges.Quotes from the show:"When crafting the parent's letter of introduction, include your child's interests, triggers/challenges, support needed, hobbies/activities outside of school, and your hopes/aspirations for the upcoming year. Setting expectations and advocating for your child is vital, especially for children in special education." - Genie Dawkins"Creating a letter with your child gives them a voice and helps them get used to introducing themselves. It promotes self-advocacy and collaboration between the child, the teacher, and the IEP team." -Genie DawkinsResources MentionedParent-Teacher Collaboration for Child Success KitStay Connected:Genie DawkinsFacebook: Genie DawkinsInstagram: @geniedawkinsLinkedIn: Genie Dawkins The Parenting CipherWebsite: The Parenting CipherTwitter: @ParentingCipherFacebook: @PcipherInstagram: @theparentingcipher

On this episode of The Parenting Cipher, join our host Genie Dawkins as she delves into the exciting topic of summer adventures. In this episode, Genie shares her love for connecting with people and imparting valuable information.Get ready to pack your bags, because Genie is taking her family on a thrilling trip to Disney this summer! But this episode isn't just about the fun and excitement; it's about ensuring that all families, including those with disabilities, can have an unforgettable experience at amusement parks.Genie takes a deep dive into the accessibility options available for families with disabilities at amusement parks, with a special focus on Disney and Universal parks. She explains in detail the disability access service, fast pass/express pass, ride reservation systems, and rider switch pass. Genie also highlights the benefits of early entry and late hours for guests staying on-site, ensuring that families can optimize their time and enjoy the attractions to the fullest.But that's not all – Genie stresses the importance of park maps and apps, especially for families with physical disabilities who may need to plan their routes accordingly. By utilizing these resources, families can navigate the parks more efficiently, making the most of their visit.Tune in to this episode of The Parenting Cipher for an insightful and practical guide to summer adventures at amusement parks. Join Genie Dawkins as she tackles the topic of accessibility with compassion and enthusiasm, ensuring that all families can create lasting memories this summer."Genie DawkinsHost of The Parenting Cipher, Genie Dawkins is a single mother of four and has over 25 years of being a parent advocate of special needs children. In addition to obtaining her Certification in Integrative Health Coaching, Lateefa holds an M.S. in Non-Profit Management and a B.S. in Social Sciences. Genie is the best-selling author of two books “Not My Child: Navigating Your Child’s Learning Difficulties with IEP’s and Education Resources” and a recent release “The Joyful Family Planner”. As an educational advocacy specialist, her mission is to help parents achieve a balanced life and overcome inevitable challenges both at school and home in a way that empowers parents and children.Insights from this episodeHow to plan a stress-free amusement park vacation                Available accessibility options for special needs familiesPlanning routes for families with physical disabilitiesResources and LinksDisney Disability Access SystemUniversal Studios Accessibility System

In this special episode of The Parenting Cipher, Tiffany Hamilton from Victor Wear shares her experiences and insights as a mother raising a son with Autism and preparing him for the workforce. Join us during Autism Awareness Month to learn about the challenges faced by differently abled children, as well as practical tips and strategies for preparing them for the workplace. Don't miss this opportunity to gain valuable knowledge and support for your own parenting journey.About our guest:Tiffany Hamilton has nearly 20 years of experience working as a marketer for some of the world's biggest brands. And now, she has decided to create a brand of her own - Victor Wear - an inspirational casual wear brand that celebrates victors and amplifies their stories of resilience. Victor Wear's mission is to inspire triumph over obstacles and empower underserved communities to be victorious. . Their ultimate goal is to grow the brand to become a major employer of people with disabilities.Stay Connected:Tiffany HamiltonWebsite: Victor WearFacebook: Victor WearInstagram: @victorwearco