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Late Diagnosis, Neuroqueerness & The Autistic Arcana with Erica Settino
What happens when a late diagnosis doesn't just explain your past — it reshapes how you move through the present?
In this raw interview episode, Paul Cruz talks with Erica about late-identified autism and ADHD (combined type), alexithymia, and the layered experience of unmasking while parenting a neurodivergent child. Erica shares the validation and clarity that came with diagnosis — alongside the grief for the younger self who navigated without support.
We also explore how creative practice can become a lifeline: why poetry offered a "nonlinear" container for truth-telling, how nature and animals provide kinship and unconditional grace, and how activism can evolve into something sustainable through words, art, and care. Erica explains how tarot and spiritual frameworks can function as tools for self-understanding (and why "one-size-fits-all" approaches can harm neurodivergent people), and introduces her forthcoming book, The Autistic Arcana — a neurodivergent approach to tarot, magic, and the Major Arcana.
If you've ever felt "too much," "not enough," or misunderstood — this conversation offers both language and permission.
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32. Autism, Not Attitude: Neurodivergence at Work with Felicia Davis
01:29:12||Ep. 32In this episode, Felicia M. L. Davis breaks down how autism and ADHD show up in everyday conversations, workplaces, and relationships—and why so many neurodivergent people are misunderstood. From literal thinking and missed social cues to masking, burnout, and workplace bias, this conversation reveals the hidden cost of not understanding how different brains work.We also explore what leaders and organizations can do differently—right now—to create more inclusive, productive environments.If you’re a manager, partner, or someone who’s ever felt misunderstood, this episode will change how you see communication.About Felicia M. L. DavisFelicia M. L. Davis is an advocate, speaker, and business leader who brings lived experience and practical insight to conversations about autism, ADHD, leadership, and inclusion. In this episode, she shares her personal journey toward diagnosis and the lessons she has learned navigating work, communication, relationships, and systems that often misunderstand neurodivergent minds.She is also the co-author of the upcoming book: Autism, Not Attitude: Neurodivergence at Work and in Relationships (https://feliciamldavis.com/book) Eunoia Thinking: www.eunoiathinking.comThis episode is especially valuable for:Neurodivergent adultsManagers and team leadersHR and DEI professionalsSpouses and family membersEducators and support professionalsAnyone who wants to better understand communication differences and build more inclusive environmentsWhy this conversation mattersToo many neurodivergent people spend years being misunderstood before they are ever supported. This episode brings language, clarity, and compassion to experiences that are often dismissed or misread.Felicia reminds us that understanding neurodivergence is not about lowering expectations. It is about creating the conditions for people to thrive.Share this episodeIf this conversation resonated with you, share it with:a manageran HR leaderan educatora spouse or family membersomeone beginning to explore whether they may be neurodivergentBecause understanding changes everything.
31. Beyond Productivity: Rethinking Human Worth in a Dystopian World
50:55||Ep. 31What happens when a society decides your value is measured solely by what you produce?In this thought-provoking conversation, Helena St. George explores the chilling premise behind her novel Shattered but Not Silenced—a dystopian world where productivity determines survival. Drawing from her lived experience as a parent of neurodivergent children, Helena unpacks the emotional, political, and human stakes behind systems that prioritize output over humanity.This episode dives deep into autonomy, advocacy, quiet resistance, and what it truly means to be valued as a person—not a function.Powerful Moments“My art is my voice. Maybe one day they’ll listen.”“I didn’t want to make her likable—I wanted to make her relatable.”“The tragedy isn’t her autism. It’s the system.”“If you can lick a stamp, you’re employable… except stamps are self-stick now.”Who This Episode Is ForListeners interested in neurodiversity & advocacyFans of dystopian fiction with real-world parallelsParents navigating education systems and support servicesAnyone questioning how society defines value and successFinal ReflectionThis episode challenges a deeply ingrained belief: that our worth is tied to what we produce.Instead, it offers a more human truth—That value comes from perspective, presence, and individuality.Resources & LinksHelena St. George’s website: helenastgeorge.comShattered but Not Silenced - https://helenastgeorge.com/shattered-not-silencedClosing ThoughtIf a system only values productivity…Then resistance begins the moment you decide your humanity is enough.If this episode resonates, follow the show and share it with someone who needs to hear it.
30. Late Autism Diagnosis, Motherhood, and the Power of Radical Acceptance
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29. When the System Is the Problem: Neuroinclusion, Self-Blame, and Systems Change with Zack Yarde
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"You're Not Broken. The System Is." - A Trailer
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28. Executive Functioning in Real Life: Accountability, Gut-Brain Science & Building Community with Lisa Shanken
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26. Metamorphosis, Music & Neurodivergent Advocacy with Jon Hart
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